FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlists…..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you use yours?

People to keep an eye on? People who are working their way toward your friends list? Or just someone who’s profile you love perving on so you keep it on a quick access ha

Oh and if you have a favourite from your list maybe you could name them so they know you’re enjoying them

Always curious…

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

They make the updates more interesting. People I find attractive and want to see rather than the local wanking dead begging for meets, blow & gos or whingeing that they can’t get either

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I use mine for people that I intend to message in the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They make the updates more interesting. People I find attractive and want to see rather than the local wanking dead begging for meets, blow & gos or whingeing that they can’t get either

Blow & go? That’s a thing?

haha well I never

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"They make the updates more interesting. People I find attractive and want to see rather than the local wanking dead begging for meets, blow & gos or whingeing that they can’t get either

Blow & go? That’s a thing?

haha well I never "

It is. And I’m not judging, but it’s not interesting to me so I’d rather not read about it. Hence I look at friends and hotlist updates

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"How do you use yours?

People to keep an eye on? People who are working their way toward your friends list? Or just someone who’s profile you love perving on so you keep it on a quick access ha

Oh and if you have a favourite from your list maybe you could name them so they know you’re enjoying them

Always curious…

All of the above, as Misty said, local updates are usually terrible!

A few of our favourites are:

WiltsTSgirl

Kinky Inked Bi

Caffeine Dusk

Their photos regularly cheer up my mornings and they are also great on the forums

K x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you use yours?

People to keep an eye on? People who are working their way toward your friends list? Or just someone who’s profile you love perving on so you keep it on a quick access ha

Oh and if you have a favourite from your list maybe you could name them so they know you’re enjoying them

Always curious…

All of the above, as Misty said, local updates are usually terrible!

A few of our favourites are:

WiltsTSgirl

Kinky Inked Bi

Caffeine Dusk

Their photos regularly cheer up my mornings and they are also great on the forums

K x"

I am a big fan of your list choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my spying tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally use it for local hotties, and forumers who I like but aren't (yet) friends.

There are the odd exceptions.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

They are usually people that we want to chat to but we haven’t got time to yet.

Although it’s also filled with a couple of profiles we love and also profiles that hold parties.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Some of our hotlist is for perving, some linked to club visits and socials, some the equivalent of 'emergency contact details' (mods

) and some are just when a message or a wink interests us but it's not the right time to make contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you could sort it into categories. I'd have 2. Locals I'd like to keep and eye on to eventually get in touch with and those I'd like to shamelessly perv on

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"How do you use yours?

People to keep an eye on? "

Pretty much this, I use it to keep tabs on people.

Some are people I chat with in positive ways, others in less positive ways

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"They make the updates more interesting. People I find attractive and want to see rather than the local wanking dead begging for meets, blow & gos or whingeing that they can’t get either

Exactly this for me too. Local updates are entertaining and all, but I love having my friends list and my hotlist updates separate - those are the people I choose to follow. And the people whose updates I never want to miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you could sort it into categories. I'd have 2. Locals I'd like to keep and eye on to eventually get in touch with and those I'd like to shamelessly perv on

Agreed!! I have a few local people who I saw that I want to message but didn't have time when I spotted them.

Plus those that I want to perv on!

And one or two that fall into both groups

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are usually people that we want to chat to but we haven’t got time to yet.

Although it’s also filled with a couple of profiles we love and also profiles that hold parties.

Seems a busy list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you use yours?

People to keep an eye on?

Pretty much this, I use it to keep tabs on people.

Some are people I chat with in positive ways, others in less positive ways

Absolutely spot on

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By *otBrunetteHimCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

We use ours as a list of people who we’d like to meet? Add them to the hotlist then message them when we’re looking to meet. Unsuccessfully so far may we add

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

Use mine to see their updates etc and new photos.

Pretty sure I won't be on anyone's hotlist but you can dreamx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye candy watching

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We use ours to keep upto date with the profiles we like.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We use ours as a list of people who we’d like to meet? Add them to the hotlist then message them when we’re looking to meet. Unsuccessfully so far may we add

Why no success

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We use ours to keep upto date with the profiles we like.

Mrs "

Who’s catching your eye with their updates so far?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"They are usually people that we want to chat to but we haven’t got time to yet.

Although it’s also filled with a couple of profiles we love and also profiles that hold parties.

Seems a busy list

Only 10 profiles -

5 party hosts

A couple of hot profiles we love but aren’t on our radar

3 hotties that we want to chat to

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting with. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.

It also serves as a great filter for following the notable status updates.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I use it as another filter. It's like a pre block purgatory.

I also use it to keep an eye on people who have been abusive to friends or have been using their pics without their permission over a long period of time.

It's more of a notlist than a hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use it as another filter. It's like a pre block purgatory.

I also use it to keep an eye on people who have been abusive to friends or have been using their pics without their permission over a long period of time.

It's more of a notlist than a hotlist.

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shouldn't your friends be reporting ?

I couldn't do that. I need to surround myself with positivity, not work myself up everytime I log on. I've dropped ppl from the hotlist as their statuses kept envoking annoyance !

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I use it as another filter. It's like a pre block purgatory.

I also use it to keep an eye on people who have been abusive to friends or have been using their pics without their permission over a long period of time.

It's more of a notlist than a hotlist.

shouldn't your friends be reporting ?

I couldn't do that. I need to surround myself with positivity, not work myself up everytime I log on. I've dropped ppl from the hotlist as their statuses kept envoking annoyance !"

They have but some have left the site because of things like this and aren't able to see the profiles.

I agree completely about the positivity which is why my friends list is short and my circle small.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

"They make the updates more interesting. People I find attractive and want to see rather than the local wanking dead begging for meets, blow & gos or whingeing that they can’t get either

Pretty much the same for me.

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By *usicman1973Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"How do you use yours?

People to keep an eye on? People who are working their way toward your friends list? Or just someone who’s profile you love perving on so you keep it on a quick access ha

Oh and if you have a favourite from your list maybe you could name them so they know you’re enjoying them

Always curious…

Women who I find attractive and want to see more of (photos or videos (.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"We use ours to keep upto date with the profiles we like.

Mrs "

Same for us, profiles we like the look of, would like to meet or just enjoy what they're posting

Tg x

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Those that need keeping an eye on

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

For keeping an eye on social host updates

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I keep tasty men whose pics I like to pant over on my hotlist.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Mainly people I would never have the opportunity to meet but I just love their work

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Mine is filled with hotties with potential who aren't miles and miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add people to the hotlist who I would love to meet. There are quite a few couples on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I add people to the hotlist who I would love to meet. There are quite a few couples on it."

And also profiles that have some fabulous photos on that I enjoy looking at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait to see if I smell any desperation…. And then I send a message.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

People who’s pics I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly people who post creative or pretty pictures, a few hotties, one or two social accounts, and the account that does very wankable vidoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy women and couples that I’ve not met yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I would like to pounce on at some point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Those that need keeping an eye on

I’m a good or bad way ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I keep tasty men whose pics I like to pant over on my hotlist.

Haha panting… I’ve never thought of that description to use

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mainly people I would never have the opportunity to meet but I just love their work

Work? Ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mostly people who post creative or pretty pictures, a few hotties, one or two social accounts, and the account that does very wankable vidoes. "

Well you must tell us the walkable videos …

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People I would like to pounce on at some point

Pounce…. Brace yourselves she’s incoming

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I love meeting people on my hotlist and it generally breaks down into these categories;

• People I find attractive

• People I like to be nosy with

• People with awesome pics

I probably need to trim it a bit tbf but it works for now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People I would like to pounce on at some point

Pounce…. Brace yourselves she’s incoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've added myself to my own hotlist.

I've also blocked myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've added myself to my own hotlist.

I've also blocked myself."

Can you unblock yourself too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've added myself to my own hotlist.

I've also blocked myself.

Can you unblock yourself too ? "

On a serous note, can you verify yourself ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've added myself to my own hotlist.

I've also blocked myself.

Can you unblock yourself too ?

On a serous note, can you verify yourself ?! "

I actually just clicked on my profile and it seems you can

how insane is that haha

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