FabSwingers.com forum: Do you make anyone nervous

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't but there are people out there that dun

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I very much doubt it

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Very probably

Mrs m

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don't but there are people out there that dun

Sorry i dont understand what you're saying.

'dun'?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I very much doubt it

I'm nervous I'd find you irresistible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrr

Not that I’m aware of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I chop onions with a vegetable knife.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Apparently yes.... which I find hilarious

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I certainly hope so..

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I'd say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous? I don't think so.

O.o I hope not.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Nervous? I don't think so.

O.o I hope not.

You scare me rigid

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nope i dont make anybody nervous..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes people are often nervous around me and also Mr N. Neither of us really know why and once people know us they treat us with the disdain we truly deserve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here..no

but I'm told I'm better in person , a little different to how I may come across here it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed people avoid sitting next to me on the bus.... but that is really a good thing right?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes people are often nervous around me and also Mr N. Neither of us really know why and once people know us they treat us with the disdain we truly deserve "

Harsh. You look like you're an absolute hoot to be around

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

It has been mentioned. I appear to have one of those resting faces. I'm quite nice really.

Someone thought I was a police officer once. Judging by what he told me afterwards he probably had a reason to be nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very much doubt it

I wouldn't be nervous of you thats for sure. Just...ready

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"On here..no

but I'm told I'm better in person , a little different to how I may come across here it seems. "

Why is that I wonder?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I’ve been told by some work colleagues that they initially found me intimidating, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous? I don't think so.

O.o I hope not.

Actually too scared to dm you so there's something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here..no

but I'm told I'm better in person , a little different to how I may come across here it seems.

Why is that I wonder?

Sceptism?...plus I can be a bit matter of fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to people all the damn time and once got told people can't actually hate me cause I'm adaptable like an...adaptor?

So no. And if you're shy and hot that just makes me all the more chatty

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes have been told that before, but it tuned out all right in the end

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I was told I scared someone the other week.

I don’t think its a good character trait to want to make people nervous, but I appreciate with how some people are and look its inevitable.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I met a strange lady, she made me nervous.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Not long before I left my last job, my manager stated in writing that I was a risk to colleagues and the public, so in that basis apparently I must!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been told that I make some of my team nervous just by reputation of being very knowledgable at what I do. Part of my role is assessing other’s competence and I work hard to put people at ease. Nothing makes me happier than when a colleague comes out of an assessment with me saying that they didn’t know why they were nervous in the first place

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"I met a strange lady, she made me nervous."

But did she make you breakfast?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I very much doubt it

I wouldn't be nervous of you thats for sure. Just...ready

With a massive stick to protect you

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Only when I chop onions with a vegetable knife. "

Onions are a vegetable though

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Loads of people, battle axe I've been called amongst other things. Normally by men in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I have RBF but I’m actually really nice most of the time

so I’d hope not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I’ve been told. Which I find surprising because I’m a nice guy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think people make themselves nervous a lot of the time based on assumptions they make about a person. Often they're nervous of people who they think are better than them in some way, judging by the number of 'out of my league' threads and comments

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

My boss told me I make my colleagues nervous. I stared him down until he apologised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very much doubt it

I wouldn't be nervous of you thats for sure. Just...ready

With a massive stick to protect you

Oh I see you've noticed my penis

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Unlikely for us

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Yes. My size and stature make people who dont know me nervous, hence why I am nearly always smiling to show I am approachable

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"My boss told me I make my colleagues nervous. I stared him down until he apologised

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Yes. My size and stature make people who dont know me nervous, hence why I am nearly always smiling to show I am approachable

That's where I'm going wrong, need to smile

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes.

Some people act like I have Medusa powers.

Kids on the other hand, don't even know em and they give me hugs.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. My size and stature make people who dont know me nervous, hence why I am nearly always smiling to show I am approachable

I've met you and you didn't scare me

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Nervous and sexually intimidating apparently

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Yes. I like to grab the attention of people on a bus and ask them to get the person next to them… I then stare ahead at the lights and wait to pull off.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Nervous and sexually intimidating apparently

Are they on glue? Rather attractive with a gorgeous smile

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

It's very doubtful I make anyone nervous

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I have been known to give off sinister vibes.

Put it like this when Freddy Krueger has a nightmare I'm the reason mwahahaha

MWAHAHAHA

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"Nervous and sexually intimidating apparently

Are they on glue? Rather attractive with a gorgeous smile

Awww you. I think it’s the way I jump him and climb up for kisses whenever we meet

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Nervous and sexually intimidating apparently

Are they on glue? Rather attractive with a gorgeous smile

Awww you. I think it’s the way I jump him and climb up for kisses whenever we meet

Is he a totem pole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess not because people say the most random shit to me

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"Nervous and sexually intimidating apparently

Are they on glue? Rather attractive with a gorgeous smile

Awww you. I think it’s the way I jump him and climb up for kisses whenever we meet

Is he a totem pole?

Well he is a foot taller than me and a bit of a brick shithouse. So yeah, totem pole if you’re being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Some people act like I have Medusa powers.

Kids on the other hand, don't even know em and they give me hugs."

It’s because you see eye to eye with kids. …literally, …. And You’re on their level…..

*this is too easy with the height jokes.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Yes.

Some people act like I have Medusa powers.

Kids on the other hand, don't even know em and they give me hugs.

It’s because you see eye to eye with kids. …literally, …. And You’re on their level…..

*this is too easy with the height jokes.

And it's true!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm too busy being nervous of everyone else

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Nervous and sexually intimidating apparently

Are they on glue? Rather attractive with a gorgeous smile

Awww you. I think it’s the way I jump him and climb up for kisses whenever we meet

Is he a totem pole?

Well he is a foot taller than me and a bit of a brick shithouse. So yeah, totem pole if you’re being polite

go for ot lovely

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

All the time apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh 100%.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"All the time apparently."

Mafia suit. Does it every time

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Oh 100%. "

These men need to toughen up. You've got a great look

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I think so. I'm a big guy; 22" neck, 58" chest, quite some way past 20 stone, shaved head, fairly big beard and often on a big motorbike...

I'm alright though, I look like a bit of a thug but I've read those Richard Osman books and I like to go to sleep listening to The Shipping Forecast

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

No, I genuinely believe I have a talent for making people feel at ease. I do however get nervous around other people on the odd occasion, which is strange as I quietly confident.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No, I don’t seem to

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By *acha1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yeah…….usually when their on their knees blindfolded with their hands tied x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No, I don’t seem to

Not scared at all

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

My resting bitch face has its advantages...had a few people say that i would be a good dominatrix...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently!

I have my moments.

rare but still.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes if I don’t look them in the eye but consistently around the centre of their forehead. Try it, it proper freaks people out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes if I don’t look them in the eye but consistently around the centre of their forehead. Try it, it proper freaks people out!

Like you see a red spot ? And eagerly waiting for the shot to happen ?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s quite amusing as their eyes tend to follow yours despite the fact it’s impossible to see your own forehead.

I do it to a very annoying supplier I have to have lengthy meetings with and I’ve even had him subconsciously rubbing at the spot I’m staring at.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

My bosses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes

Everyone

I’m crazy

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I probably do

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

In my work life, yes I do.

In my private life, i don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah…….usually when their on their knees blindfolded with their hands tied x"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's a fine line between nervousness and excitement. I probably make a few more nervous than I do excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I don't mean to I must just give out a fuck off vibe or something. I think I would say I'm an introvert and quite shy. A few of my past team/colleagues have told me that others find me scary or are at least wary of me. I always take my work seriously, but I was a fair boss, no overt favourites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I've been told that I can have an intimidating vibe about me before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've made any one nervous, I would hope not anyway

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By *nterblueMan
over a year ago

manchester

I wouldn't know, they're all too scared to tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha God no, everyone else makes me nervous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how to make people nervous should I choose to, but that was always work related. Maybe I just do it subconsciously to keep people at a distance?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I am apparently a little intimidating, so I'm told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently so. It's a trait I learned from the industry I used to work in.

I dont think it's a bad thing, keeps people away from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't think so, I hope I dont anyway lol

not unless its a good type of nervous lol

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I hope so.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I don't engage in small talk for the sake of it. Not with strangers anyway. I know it's a supposed social mechanism to put people at ease, but for me it has a counter affect and sets me on edge.

Anything I say to strangers is either consequential, informative, factual, instructional, or inquisitive.

My RBF has its own RBF.

So in answer to the OP, probably yes, because of the above.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably but not the way you think, I’m blessed with a face of a serial killer, which puts a lot of people off and unnerves them. Helps in Morrisons though people tend to move out of my way.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sitting down in front of me in my formal role makes people nervous and that can then work against them.

I deliberately employ simple psychological techniques designed to put people at ease.

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

Wife makes me nervous when she's pissed off at me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I usually have the opposite effect of putting people at ease which isn't always as good as it sounds.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes, but only in certain delicious private circumstances, and in a skin-tingling, hair-raising, lip-biting, unable to look away mode.

I like the switch from vanilla to Dom. There's a way I hold myself, or a look, or a tone of voice, which seems to shift the mood instantly. I've been this way so long now it's instinct, so it isn't entirely conscious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but only in certain delicious private circumstances, and in a skin-tingling, hair-raising, lip-biting, unable to look away mode.

Not only in private circumstances

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Yes, but only in certain delicious private circumstances, and in a skin-tingling, hair-raising, lip-biting, unable to look away mode.

Not only in private circumstances

Oh, that is rude of me. I'm terribly sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but only in certain delicious private circumstances, and in a skin-tingling, hair-raising, lip-biting, unable to look away mode.

Not only in private circumstances

Oh, that is rude of me. I'm terribly sorry.

Not sure you’re sorry at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually have the opposite effect of putting people at ease which isn't always as good as it sounds. "

Why would that not be good?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I usually have the opposite effect of putting people at ease which isn't always as good as it sounds.

Why would that not be good?"

Most of the time it's a positive attribute but some times people I hardly know see me as an agony uncle.

In years gone by I was always the safe friendzone option and women were always at ease asking about my more exciting friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually have the opposite effect of putting people at ease which isn't always as good as it sounds.

Why would that not be good?

Most of the time it's a positive attribute but some times people I hardly know see me as an agony uncle.

In years gone by I was always the safe friendzone option and women were always at ease asking about my more exciting friends. "

Ah right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i would if i was spotted in liverpool

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By *urvywelshcougarWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I dont know, do i?

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

I've met men in clubs, and if there into trans woman I sense some are nervous/shy. Doesn't help having a fuck off face however,lol...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so x"

You do indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not, part of my job is to build trust with people pretty quickly. And hide that I am a bundle of nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate to make people nervous. I don't like people who make me nervous. They aren't generally people I'd want to hang out with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still yes

My Manger scared to death of me he won’t talk to me

That is definitely win win

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