FabSwingers.com forum: Sex or making Love...?

By *weetkitten65 OP Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

So what do you call it?

Sex for me is with no emotional attachment which I find difficult,despite the amount of times I've done it!!!

Making love is when it just feels perfect,minds & bodies entwined.

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By *toshitMan
over a year ago

Making love

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I read men naturally see sex as a mechanical act where women need that emotional drive to enjoy it. From my experience, I agree. I find non emotional sex fun if the guy great in bed. Totally pointless if there's no real attraction. But the best sex for me when you got that emotional and sexual drive. It only happened once or twice in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who I'm having a sexual experience with and what relationship I have with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're both with who you want to be with ....you do both .

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Sensual hot steamy passionate sex

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Depends on my mood and who I'm with.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the mood and who with, meets are sex and the other half it varies.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

My wife hates the phrase 'making love' so we always call it sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is always some form of attachment for me, even if just in the moment. I can't have sex with someone i don't like

doesn't mean I'm in love with them though...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sex. Fucking. Rarely making love. I have to have some form of emotional attachment to be wet enough to have sex.

Making love feels like some part of my soul is connected with another in some unbreakable way. But sex can be pretty perfect sometimes, when everything just clicks and you can't get enough of each other.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Sex, whether it’s a quick fumble or a connection which takes me to another level in my soul.

Making love is only when I’m trying to be a 1940s matinee idol and kissing while lightly brushing her cheek with my thumb.

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

For me it's sex.

'making love' is an awful term.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I could never call it making love unless I did actually love the person, otherwise it just seems uncomfortable and creepy.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Was gonna say same as few others depends who it is with

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Unless we are in a loving relationship, where it’s called “boom boom time” then it’s just sex.

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

whereever you are…

I agree with the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Sexy sex’ is always fun with someone you like/fancy/have a friendship or connection with.

Making love is with someone where’s there’s Laine kind of love and caring between us both, and that’s just amazing.

I don’t just have sex, I have and it isn’t something I want again.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"For me it's sex.

'making love' is an awful term. "

I agree. Nothing wrong with good old sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love turns me on so much. Real ‘kink’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it's with, time and place.

Someone you care about ( making love) someone you don't (sex)

Some you care about, out and about quicky, probably raw love making/sex

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

"Was gonna say same as few others depends who it is with "

This exactly for us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and making love, in my eyes, are two very different things.

Sex is just some fun we both in enjoy, where as making love is more sensually and involves having a connection with somebody on a deeper level than just “fancy a shag”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase ‘making love’ makes me cringe, but there are times when it’s the only phrase that fits.

I love fucking/sex, but that commingling of beautiful energies, it takes it to a whole new level.

I’ve only experienced it with one person, and there was a lot of love between us. That’s not to say it can’t be experienced in other ways, but for me, it was an extension of the love between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres only 1 person iv ever made love to there wont be a second

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I dislike the phrase 'making love' on my lips, and so never use it but I literally can't fuck with no emotionsl attachment. That's not some Parnassian judgement: it's direct experience, going way back to when I was 20 and my housemates laughed at me for turning down a hot-looking pair of foreign students who made it very obvious they wanted a threesome. I think there's now some neologism for it.

Sex is Everest. If you helicopter to the top, it loses its appeal. But there is also no need to take the obvious routes.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"So what do you call it?

Sex for me is with no emotional attachment which I find difficult,despite the amount of times I've done it!!!

Making love is when it just feels perfect,minds & bodies entwined."

It depends on my mood...

When I'm in filthy mood,making love doesn't sound very appealing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read men naturally see sex as a mechanical act where women need that emotional drive to enjoy it. From my experience, I agree. I find non emotional sex fun if the guy great in bed. Totally pointless if there's no real attraction. But the best sex for me when you got that emotional and sexual drive. It only happened once or twice in my life."

Close, kind of, but not really. Sex, for me is a physical act. There has to be level of physical and mental attraction with you for it to happen at all, but it doesn’t necessarily mean we want to be life partners, hence fwb. It’s a mutually pleasurable arrangement with someone whose company I enjoy. The deep emotional attachment comes with someone you would commit your life to.

I may have oversimplified this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love is a utopia for romance novels. Just call it sex ..

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

you can only make love if you are in love with someone .. no ? otherwise its just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you can only make love if you are in love with someone .. no ? otherwise its just sex "

This

If you Love someone the connection is there ! If not it’s just sex

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

But love can mean many different things.

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By *haz500Man
over a year ago

near burnley/blackburn/bury

Depends on the mood tbh

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