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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm 50 next week. Yesterday I bought one of those contraptions which help you open jars, bottles, etc., I find myself making oomph noises when rising from the sofa, need reading glasses, and have arthritis in my knees.

Yet, I love to dance, wear staggering heels and kinky bedwear, shag guys lots younger - many who can't keep up!! I don't feel old and have no problems aging. In fact love it that I am getting older.

Am I old yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you're an old tart

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Yes, you're an old tart "

LOL funny you should say that! That was a compliment I got last night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i 40 next year (shhh!)and im deaf, cant remember anything and wake up stiff as a board half the time. ive also found myself putting myself up mini sunday dinners for the week for myself from the sunday roast leftovers which is real old dear behaviour. lol but i can still dance romp and party for wales

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

you are only as old as you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, you're an old tart

LOL funny you should say that! That was a compliment I got last night. "

I got something close to that too, but I was called old fart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only as old as the person you feel. If you ever want to feel 23..your more than welcome to message me lol love to be of assistance hehe x

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"you are only as old as you feel"

Unfortunately some days I feel about 95!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Your only as old as the person your feeling "

That would be 35 then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as old as the person you feel. If you ever want to feel 23..your more than welcome to message me lol love to be of assistance hehe x

"

Got there before me. Dang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats because i have magic fingers lol

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Im 52 and my problem is that ive always liked older men !! finding a decent porn clip that satisfies me is a miracle now

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Your only as old as the person you feel. If you ever want to feel 23..your more than welcome to message me lol love to be of assistance hehe x

Got there before me. Dang."

Pity you're so far away.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm 42. I don't feel as if anything has changed body looks ability wise since about 35 except the SECOND I turned 40, I started going grey. I don't mind, I've never gone grey before and it's new and different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are days when I feel really old, usually when I can feel the pain in my knees after a good dance class, or pains in the legs after some good sex, or having one glass of whatever too many.

Otherwise, I feel great, and can move a lot faster than a lot of the youngsters at work.

I consider myself not too bad for being nearly 48, with no significant health issues except for carrying some excess weight.

Oh, and doing squats definitely helps to improve the strength in my legs, resulting in less pain the day after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your just a train journey away lol im the one whose feeling old..but i love it really!

Theres no such thing as being too old. Lifes too short to think about all that..just take each moment as it comes x

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Your just a train journey away lol im the one whose feeling old..but i love it really!

Theres no such thing as being too old. Lifes too short to think about all that..just take each moment as it comes x

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I wasn't complaining and I'm certainly not worried about getting old. Just wondered if I was getting to that stage after buying the same jar opener as my 90 year old aunt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never to old enjoy it while you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day I consider myself as old would be the day I give up tent and trailer tent camping and buy a tin tent instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha well some equipment does have its uses. Your just being lazy now by not trying to open the jar using your hands. Joking joking

I dont blame you..sometimes opening a bloody jar takes ages. I could be doing something else during that time haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, i am 52 next birthday, still wear heels, still go clubbing, alot of my friends are much younger than me and i fit in just nicely.... The day i hang my heels up for slippers is the day that i say to myself "That maybe now it's time to grow up" But !! That is way way down the line

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

join the club DB9, its a great club to be in hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a small bottle of wine with a screw top that I cannot open. It will be opened eventually, even if it means resorting to a knife and/or pliers, which was what I did while camping a while back with another bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I hope you have some great events lined up for your half century!

I have already started to plan mine!

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"OP, I hope you have some great events lined up for your half century!

I have already started to plan mine! "

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I hope you have some great events lined up for your half century!

I have already started to plan mine! "

We started swinging for my 50th. We signed up on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah. Happy Birthday in advance xx hope you have a good time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm 50 next week. Yesterday I bought one of those contraptions which help you open jars, bottles, etc., I find myself making oomph noises when rising from the sofa, need reading glasses, and have arthritis in my knees.

Yet, I love to dance, wear staggering heels and kinky bedwear, shag guys lots younger - many who can't keep up!! I don't feel old and have no problems aging. In fact love it that I am getting older.

Am I old yet?"

We're all getting older but it's how we do it that counts. I love being in my fifties sex is better than ever, confidence is high and I know what I want and how to go about getting it

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By *ara_and_MJCouple
over a year ago

rochdale

I'm 45. I cycle a fair bit and i'm fitter now than when i was 25. I can do 100 mile rides without too much pain but i'm currently in bed with sciatica!

I have a condition called CMT which means i have crappy feet and my hands are starting to go, losing strength in my grip etc.

I'm finding i can do the riding stuff, its the recovery that take slonger..

Sara

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Welcome to the golden decade

I identify with your comments completely. I've noticed little things - like having to wear glasses for reading, the same 'oomph' when getting up off the sofa (dropping some weight would probably help me there though) and I've even caught myself 'tut tutting' over things that would've have happened 'in my day'.

However, I'm not going down without a fight - my hairdressers make a small fortune out of me having my hair coloured / foiled regularly and I try to dress in a modern, but age appropriate style.

And blokes in the club we go to don't seem to have an issue with a more mature, generously proportioned woman.

You look great in that corset by the way OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With age one becomes more confident, with less worries about being judged, and more accepting of his/her own flaws, while knowing how to make the most of what his/her maker has given him/her.

I am more sexually confident in my forties than when I was younger, and am looking forward to plenty more sexy fun in my 50s!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I have had one of those contraptions for a long time, along with a nice son I have found though as I have RSA that hot water is easier as I don't have such a strong grip any more. I also do have less patience than I used to, other than that, you are only as old as you feel

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By *exdexMan
over a year ago

formby lanzarote

come and live in the sun ..[lanzarote ],,knock years off you xxxxxx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in somewhere hot and sunny would be my idea of hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a small bottle of wine with a screw top that I cannot open. It will be opened eventually, even if it means resorting to a knife and/or pliers, which was what I did while camping a while back with another bottle."

Just pop and elastic band around it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 50 next week. Yesterday I bought one of those contraptions which help you open jars, bottles, etc., I find myself making oomph noises when rising from the sofa, need reading glasses, and have arthritis in my knees.

Yet, I love to dance, wear staggering heels and kinky bedwear, shag guys lots younger - many who can't keep up!! I don't feel old and have no problems aging. In fact love it that I am getting older.

Am I old yet?"

Growing olds not an option....growing up is !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not, i am 52 next birthday, still wear heels, still go clubbing, alot of my friends are much younger than me and i fit in just nicely.... The day i hang my heels up for slippers is the day that i say to myself "That maybe now it's time to grow up" But !! That is way way down the line "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a small bottle of wine with a screw top that I cannot open. It will be opened eventually, even if it means resorting to a knife and/or pliers, which was what I did while camping a while back with another bottle.

Just pop and elastic band around it "

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That was the first thing I tried and broke the elastic band in the process.

Got a little plastic mat for unscrewing jars and bottles, and that did not work either.

Hence I needed to use the knife and pliers. Good job they are part of my camping took kit!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

If a jar lid is over tight and you can't unscrew it, take a big spoon and, using the curvy bit, 'tap' all round the top rim of the lid a few times. Hey presto - it can then be unscrewed with ease!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or stick the lid under the hot tap for a minute or two.

Does not work for this blooming small bottle of wine I have though.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Welcome to the golden decade

I identify with your comments completely. I've noticed little things - like having to wear glasses for reading, the same 'oomph' when getting up off the sofa (dropping some weight would probably help me there though) and I've even caught myself 'tut tutting' over things that would've have happened 'in my day'.

However, I'm not going down without a fight - my hairdressers make a small fortune out of me having my hair coloured / foiled regularly and I try to dress in a modern, but age appropriate style.

And blokes in the club we go to don't seem to have an issue with a more mature, generously proportioned woman.

You look great in that corset by the way OP "

Thanks! I usually need help getting into it though! LOL One of the joys of less flexibility as you age.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"With age one becomes more confident, with less worries about being judged, and more accepting of his/her own flaws, while knowing how to make the most of what his/her maker has given him/her.

I am more sexually confident in my forties than when I was younger, and am looking forward to plenty more sexy fun in my 50s!

"

That's how I feel - which is why aging does not bother me. I am so much a better, sexier person now than in my 30s. And the sex is WAAAYYYY better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks! I usually need help getting into it though! LOL One of the joys of less flexibility as you age."

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Practice makes perfect!

I can get into mine with ease and don't need help.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I love being in my 50s definately my best decade

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


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Thanks! I usually need help getting into it though! LOL One of the joys of less flexibility as you age.

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Practice makes perfect!

I can get into mine with ease and don't need help. "

Hm - could be my once-a-day workout then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being in my 50s definately my best decade"

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I am looking forward to mine, not long to go now.

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