FabSwingers.com forum: Thoughts on pegging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always been more dominant in the bedroom, so never tried it but have wondered when it comes up in conversation (usually in a joke).

So for the fellas, what does it feel like? Do you like the feeling or purely the power play? Can you compare it to anything?

And for the ladies, what do you like about it?

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, nice to role reverse. Also the Mrs looks great in her strap on.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

There's something incredibly hot about the image of a girl with a strap on

Never actually tried it though personally...

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My hips don't lie when they recoil in horror at thrusting

I prefer to hand peg him

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By *dventurousCharmerMan
over a year ago

Kilsby

Love it, turns me on so much. Either strapon or a woman using a vibrating plug on me, makes me moan like crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My hips don't lie when they recoil in horror at thrusting

I prefer to hand peg him"

Can’t say I’ve tried either haha

What do you get out of hand pegging someone is it more the power play that you enjoy or that you’re pleasing someone else?

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By *horesonWellesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love it, but I don't think pegging is an inherently D/s thing. It's just a sex act unless you put a dynamic into it.

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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago

North

It's one of my favourite things to do, especially with a vocal partner. Seeing and hearing the pleasure it gives is fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please

If I'm lucky some day

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Won't lie... love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it, but I don't think pegging is an inherently D/s thing. It's just a sex act unless you put a dynamic into it."
agreed. And it that energy can be either D or s.

Imo, it's one of the more over analysed sex act. It doesnt make you gay nor sub. Just lube up, and enjoy!

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

Love it. Partly for the feeling, partly the power play. As a guy being fucked can make you feel very vulnerable. It's a liberating experience especially if it hits the P-spot

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"I'm a fan. "

Oh dear god, prepare for the impending avalanche of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a fan. "

Ps welcome back!

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By *horesonWellesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"agreed. And it that energy can be either D or s.

Imo, it's one of the more over analysed sex act. It doesnt make you gay nor sub. Just lube up, and enjoy!

For sure! I love playing with a good power bottom but they're a rare find haha.

Totally agree, and that's exactly where the stigma comes from - butt stuff isn't gay y'all, it's just really really fun. And gives incredible leg-trembling orgasms

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

The forums have been mad thirsty for pegging recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

……so…….

Done this twice. The first time was the ‘Cani/should I/would I scenario. It was, different. And certainly not a power play or exchange from me. Maybe she got off on having control, but I didn’t so much. Because it was me that wanted to try it.

The second time… the feeling of a climax from something like that was, different and not easy to forget. For anyone thinking about it, do it, it’s sex and if your into experimenting with new sex, you might enjoy it also.

*and a sexy chic with a cock looks hot.

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By *ummerfield94Man
over a year ago

falkirk

Always wanted to try it. The thought of the role reversal is one of the really interesting to me. Add into that I like to say give what you get so only fai I take a turn on the other end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay more information than I thought I’d get! Thanks everyone think I’m tempted to dip my toe in atleast!

so follow up question for those that have tried it. How did you bring it up with your partner? Was there much convincing or were they into it too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a fan. "

Haha may have some more questions for you

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

Would love to try it, but not sure it would stay “in the bedroom” with the mrs, which puts me off. Would distort the ‘normal’ relationship. Couldn’t be doing with “it’s your turn to do the washing “ “no it isn’t” “you take a 9” dildo up your arse once every fourth Thursday, do the washing bitch”

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

I think it would make my fucking eyes water so il give it a miss

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Ultimately, imho, for a guy it’s the power and role reversal / exchange which is awesome in terms of mental headspace… let alone the physical pleasures.

It’s a popular request for my wife from guys messaging - and perhaps one day we will.

Otherwise, wife Domming another woman is high on the to do list … but I guess that’s slightly off topic

Obviously it can get even more Domme should a woman be in to it , but it’s rare from my experience.

;-)

But be sure to get a good lube and don’t let one’s eyes get bigger than ones arse

Which is rather easy haha

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Done quite a bit of pegging over the years, sometimes from a BDSM perspective, which focussed more on power exchange, control, objectification/ humiliation etc.

Sometimes cross-dressed in my male persona. Orpheus is a dirty little sod who loves fucking guys.

Also done it as part of swinging, when I want to play with both partners and recently started doing it with my lover. The look in his eyes as he loses control is one of the hottest things I've seen, and it makes him cum like a fountain.

So many, many reasons why I love it.

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By *queakyclean69erCouple
over a year ago

Torquay / Fleet

Getting pegged is one of the hottest things ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting pegged is one of the hottest things ever "
agreed

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By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London

I absolutely love it with the right partner. The power exchange can be eye opening along with the sensations that are given to you especially if they have complete control and you cannot play. Need to find a new partner for pegging for sure

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Okay more information than I thought I’d get! Thanks everyone think I’m tempted to dip my toe in atleast!

so follow up question for those that have tried it. How did you bring it up with your partner? Was there much convincing or were they into it too?"

Mmmmm. You are really very flexible then!!!

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn garden city

For us, it's a mixture of both. When you are both into it, it feels amazing. Lots of kissing makes it a very sensual experience. And as others have said, you cum like a fountain. But we also enjoy the power play side of it. Love it when she gets close to an orgasm, and really goes for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a sexy hot bearded/ tattooed guy that's generally in control bend over for me?

Name me something hotter!!!

Well actually I could but it's maybe a tad early for such debauchery.

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By *oxy502Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I would absolutely love some one to do it to me

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Whenever I hear this word I always imagine a cock with loads of washing line pegs on it hahaha

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Would give it a go if the lady wanted to not found a lady that wanted to yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the hip thrusting is right why not. Guy on his back, legs round his neck, is hot. Or the real thing

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

For us it's just a part of our sex life even though we are a D's couple D's doesn't even factor into it as Luna doesn't have a dominant bone in her body.

Mr Hayes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always been more dominant in the bedroom, so never tried it but have wondered when it comes up in conversation (usually in a joke).

So for the fellas, what does it feel like? Do you like the feeling or purely the power play? Can you compare it to anything?

And for the ladies, what do you like about it?

Thanks!"

Fwiw pegging isn’t inherently dominant or submissive, no act is. You can be dominant while being penetrated. It’s not that case that women are always being submissive when they’re being penetrated, so the same can be for men; for example a dominant man can order a submissive to peg him.

Personally I like topping/penetrating someone because they enjoy it. Also I’m genderfluid and topping someone helps me feel more masculine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a sexy hot bearded/ tattooed guy that's generally in control bend over for me?

Name me something hotter!!!

Well actually I could but it's maybe a tad early for such debauchery.

Hello you again

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Whenever I hear this word I always imagine a cock with loads of washing line pegs on it hahaha "

That's the alternative...

Yes, it's a power thing or the role reversal, but it can be more than that with the right person. Depends on the dynamic really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't knock it until you try it

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I enjoy giving my lover something he enjoys

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I was a scout leader for years, on camps we’d play a game where we see how many pegs we can put someone until they noticed. It’s was called pegging and when you realised you say “I’ve been pegged.”

I was mortified when I found out there was something else called pegging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy giving my lover something he enjoys

A smooch would do

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I enjoy giving my lover something he enjoys

A smooch would do

Ooohhh I bloody love a smooch!!!

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By *edDevil5Man
over a year ago

NN4

Love being rimmed

Sadly not many women r gain

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I absolutely love it! N has to be in the right mood as it is a more sub role than he prefers but it gets me so turned on, it makes me feel powerful. We have a strap on which has two ends so one end goes inside my pussy while I’m fucking him and it feels so good!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's one of my favourite things to do, especially with a vocal partner. Seeing and hearing the pleasure it gives is fantastic."

Shame more women ain't like you and open minded.. pegging is fun.. good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love it! N has to be in the right mood as it is a more sub role than he prefers but it gets me so turned on, it makes me feel powerful. We have a strap on which has two ends so one end goes inside my pussy while I’m fucking him and it feels so good!

C x"
what an Amazing couple and what a lucky guy to have you in his life..

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I love being pegged by a lady, even better if they are domme type lady

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Always been more dominant in the bedroom, so never tried it but have wondered when it comes up in conversation (usually in a joke).

So for the fellas, what does it feel like? Do you like the feeling or purely the power play? Can you compare it to anything?

And for the ladies, what do you like about it?

Thanks!"

Well...for me it's very sensual for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something i am very intrigued by. not a dominance thing either for me just another chance to see a man enjoying himself.

Unfortunately going anywhere near inkeds lil starfish would probably earn me a bop to the nose lol

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its something i am very intrigued by. not a dominance thing either for me just another chance to see a man enjoying himself.

Unfortunately going anywhere near inkeds lil starfish would probably earn me a bop to the nose lol

(Mrs) "

Forgot to add i would really love to use a strap on on a lady also...

(Mrs)

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Love it, it's a big part of out play!

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