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"Unfortunately a lot of people do not realise that it is humans on the receiving end of their so called preferences. " Exactly  | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs " We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. | |||
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"Everyone on in this forum are so kind And yes I do get it all. Just frustrating sometimes when u see it. Im one who likes to read people's profile as says alot about a person and then boom it says them words. But yes it's down to their preference. I just want to meet people who see me who I am and everyone have smile on their faces. Yes I've been doing this for a very long time as a couple but now as that marriage broke I'm here to just try to enjoy life" I hope you find what you're looking for. X | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol." That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. " Minority on Fab. | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. Minority on Fab." Im not even sure that's true. X | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. Minority on Fab. Im not even sure that's true. X" I would say from every 100 messages I receive it's probably a fairly even mix between white men, Asian men and black men. | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. Minority on Fab. Im not even sure that's true. X I would say from every 100 messages I receive it's probably a fairly even mix between white men, Asian men and black men. " That's interesting. Anyone else having the same? | |||
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"So viewed alot of profiles and I have always come across so profiles which state no asian men. So I was born in England and class myself as English, but have a Chinese back ground. No there there are different types of Asians, so please explain is it just all Asian men or just certain Asians. Just curious as don't want to waste anyone's time and seeing what people's outcome on this, without been horrible about it too." What a polite post O.P. considering ... A bit like all the , Why do women threads..... as if we are all from the same pea ! Let alone the same pod. | |||
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"I wouldn't let it bother you but I know it's hard not to. My block list is very long. Just block any profiles that say no Asians and move on. Funny old world, I work within a very large organisation and very friendly with the ladies most of whom wouldn't say no to a night of passion. But on here it's a real struggle most of my messages I send are deleted without reply and been blocked by a few aswell lol. But hey ho you live and learn, I bet if they met you in person things would be different "U are definitely right there and yes my bloke list is very full as I understand that everyone gets alot of messages but it's also nice to be polite too. | |||
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"So viewed alot of profiles and I have always come across so profiles which state no asian men. So I was born in England and class myself as English, but have a Chinese back ground. No there there are different types of Asians, so please explain is it just all Asian men or just certain Asians. Just curious as don't want to waste anyone's time and seeing what people's outcome on this, without been horrible about it too. What a polite post O.P. considering ... A bit like all the , Why do women threads..... as if we are all from the same pea ! Let alone the same pod. " Thankyou | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. Minority on Fab. Im not even sure that's true. X I would say from every 100 messages I receive it's probably a fairly even mix between white men, Asian men and black men. That's interesting. Anyone else having the same?" It really doesn't matter, it's about been equally i.e race,man,women size height personalities. Everyone has their own person preference, which I get but I/anyone is give the people who do want to know me/anyone my attention. | |||
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"I think I'd avoid a profile that said that without bothering to find out if they differentiate between countries. " | |||
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"I do understand what you are saying it must be very frustrating seeing lots of profiles ruling out nearly 4.5 billion people simply because of continent they or their parents/grandparents were born on. What I will say is try to focus on the people that are interested in meeting you as frustrating as it can be to feel excluded by some people. " | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. " I've had messages from people who say both 'no asians' and 'no blacks' Don't think they know what they want! Just block them and keep it moving! | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. Minority on Fab." And in the UK | |||
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"So viewed alot of profiles and I have always come across so profiles which state no asian men. So I was born in England and class myself as English, but have a Chinese back ground. No there there are different types of Asians, so please explain is it just all Asian men or just certain Asians. Just curious as don't want to waste anyone's time and seeing what people's outcome on this, without been horrible about it too." At least you know beforehand who you wouldn't want to meet. Certain parts of Fab are like outliers for the Klan. | |||
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I have no preference on ethnicity (or gender for that matter). It's all about the connection with the individual. Many couples on here won't invite a bisexual guy to play. Just one of those things we deal with I'm afraid.
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"I wouldn't let it bother you but I know it's hard not to. My block list is very long. Just block any profiles that say no Asians and move on. Funny old world, I work within a very large organisation and very friendly with the ladies most of whom wouldn't say no to a night of passion. But on here it's a real struggle most of my messages I send are deleted without reply and been blocked by a few aswell lol. But hey ho you live and learn, I bet if they met you in person things would be different "Going slightly off the subject of this forum for a second, I find this too. I have no problems connecting with ladies in person (and that's actually how I get my meets) but haven't had much luck on here. I just spend any time on here on the forums (especially the word games) so don't really use this with the hope of meets anymore. Like I said, slightly off the subject here, but that part of your post resonated with me. OP, all I'll say in relation to your experiences is move on. You know your own self-worth, and while people have their own preferences (and they have a right to this) equally you have a right to meet people who will appreciate the nice, genuine guy that you come across as. Forget those who rule you out and look for those who don't (which you'll find is the majority on here). Good luck  | |||
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"So viewed alot of profiles and I have always come across so profiles which state no asian men. So I was born in England and class myself as English, but have a Chinese back ground. No there there are different types of Asians, so please explain is it just all Asian men or just certain Asians. Just curious as don't want to waste anyone's time and seeing what people's outcome on this, without been horrible about it too." . Interesting you have a Chinese background and use the word Asian.Reminds me of a conversation I had with a British born lady who parents are of Bangladesh origin who I work with.I called a new girl that started work Asian as she was Indian looking She basically said Indian, Pakistan , Bangladesh I should call Indian and Chinese , Japan , Thailand I should call Asian.Where as I always referred to all 6 countries as Asian. | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know?" I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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A". Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia. | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia."Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe. | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe. "Oh ok I see it's disputed. | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe.
Oh ok I see it's disputed. ". Technically Cyprus is classed as been in Asia but political we are classed as part of Europe as we fall in the Mediterranean Sea. | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. " Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words? | |||
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"Well if there were more Asian men in North Cornwall then at least some would be top of my list so I guess it's true it takes all types." Hey i’m part asian.. | |||
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A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe.
Oh ok I see it's disputed. . Technically Cyprus is classed as been in Asia but political we are classed as part of Europe as we fall in the Mediterranean Sea."Oh wow I did not know this I met a Maltese guy the other day who on first glance looked 'asian' just goes to show you can't tell just by how someone looks | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words?" We aren't. And nobody has. | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe.
Oh ok I see it's disputed. . Technically Cyprus is classed as been in Asia but political we are classed as part of Europe as we fall in the Mediterranean Sea."Thank you for that. I did know that Northern Cyprus is considered Turkish by Turkey but I just assumed it was accepted that the island is a whole was part of Europe. You learn something new everyday. | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words?" It's encouraging a decision around the profiles who feel the need to write "no Asians" on there profile | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words? It's encouraging a decision around the profiles who feel the need to write "no Asians" on there profile " I'm enjoying it and I've actually learned something new today. | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words? It's encouraging a decision around the profiles who feel the need to write "no Asians" on there profile I'm enjoying it and I've actually learned something new today. " Me too! | |||
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"Unfortunately a lot of people do not realise that it is humans on the receiving end of their so called preferences. " very well said...! | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words? It's encouraging a decision around the profiles who feel the need to write "no Asians" on there profile I'm enjoying it and I've actually learned something new today. Me too! ". So I guess these people that have No Asian on their profile will now have to google Cyprus , Turkey , Armenia and read that technically they are part of Asia but political and culturally are part of Europe and hopefully change the wording on their profile. | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either." What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x" My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter" Tbf ive had this experience alot with white men | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter Tbf ive had this experience alot with white men" Yes and middle eastern men. Basically, most men I met lol | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter" I get that and past experiences are a massive factor. But I don’t think most asian men are like that, its just a minority of them that makes the rest of us look bad | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men" I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. " I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. " Definitely. I think its just a stereotype | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter I get that and past experiences are a massive factor. But I don’t think most asian men are like that, its just a minority of them that makes the rest of us look bad " But surely they that goes for any man regardless of their heritage or place of birth. The the only unpleasant experience I've ever had from fab with a man was a white man, it doesn't mean I think it was because of the colour of his skin he behaved like he did, it's because he was an arsehole. | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities " I think thats more to do with religion rather than race/ethnicity | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities " I get what you're saying but I'm not sure I buy into that. | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities I think thats more to do with religion rather than race/ethnicity" Yes you're right, i shouldn't have grouped them together but I think I was more refering asian men who are Muslim not all Asian men | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter I get that and past experiences are a massive factor. But I don’t think most asian men are like that, its just a minority of them that makes the rest of us look bad But surely they that goes for any man regardless of their heritage or place of birth. The the only unpleasant experience I've ever had from fab with a man was a white man, it doesn't mean I think it was because of the colour of his skin he behaved like he did, it's because he was an arsehole. " Yh I agree with you 100%. Its to do with the person rather than heritage. I have some Indian heritage but i’ve been brought up to respectful and haven’t had any bad experiences with women including ex-girlfriends. I’m still on good terms with all of them | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter I get that and past experiences are a massive factor. But I don’t think most asian men are like that, its just a minority of them that makes the rest of us look bad But surely they that goes for any man regardless of their heritage or place of birth. The the only unpleasant experience I've ever had from fab with a man was a white man, it doesn't mean I think it was because of the colour of his skin he behaved like he did, it's because he was an arsehole. Yh I agree with you 100%. Its to do with the person rather than heritage. I have some Indian heritage but i’ve been brought up to respectful and haven’t had any bad experiences with women including ex-girlfriends. I’m still on good terms with all of them" I think it would be wrong to say there are not sometimes cultural differences that can clash and cause misunderstandings. However on the whole I genuinely do not believe You are more likely to have a bad experience with someone from one country, heritage, colour or religion than another. | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
But hey.
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A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe.
Oh ok I see it's disputed. . Technically Cyprus is classed as been in Asia but political we are classed as part of Europe as we fall in the Mediterranean Sea."Which goes to show how arbitrary and therefore meaningless a label it is. | |||
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"Well I have started something here and really pleased to hear people's thoughts. Every Asian man is going to be different, some have small cocks, some are bad in bed, some are going to be good and some might have big cocks. Doesn't matter if uve had bad experience with it as not everyone is going to be the same. It's like when u date someone and there are bad points about him or her but u find someone else and they maybe similar traits but a better person, how ever u don't know that until u find out." It's been a really interesting discussion. X | |||
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"Well I have started something here and really pleased to hear people's thoughts. Every Asian man is going to be different, some have small cocks, some are bad in bed, some are going to be good and some might have big cocks. Doesn't matter if uve had bad experience with it as not everyone is going to be the same. It's like when u date someone and there are bad points about him or her but u find someone else and they maybe similar traits but a better person, how ever u don't know that until u find out." Exactly. Unless you have slept with all the Indian men it’s just a generalisation. Mrs | |||
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"Well I have started something here and really pleased to hear people's thoughts. Every Asian man is going to be different, some have small cocks, some are bad in bed, some are going to be good and some might have big cocks. Doesn't matter if uve had bad experience with it as not everyone is going to be the same. It's like when u date someone and there are bad points about him or her but u find someone else and they maybe similar traits but a better person, how ever u don't know that until u find out. Exactly. Unless you have slept with all the Indian men it’s just a generalisation. Mrs " Who wants to take one for the team? There's only about 3/4 of a billion of them. | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. " I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? | |||
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"So viewed alot of profiles and I have always come across so profiles which state no asian men. So I was born in England and class myself as English, but have a Chinese back ground. No there there are different types of Asians, so please explain is it just all Asian men or just certain Asians. Just curious as don't want to waste anyone's time and seeing what people's outcome on this, without been horrible about it too.. Interesting you have a Chinese background and use the word Asian.Reminds me of a conversation I had with a British born lady who parents are of Bangladesh origin who I work with.I called a new girl that started work Asian as she was Indian looking She basically said Indian, Pakistan , Bangladesh I should call Indian and Chinese , Japan , Thailand I should call Asian.Where as I always referred to all 6 countries as Asian." In America Asian seems to nearly always be used to refer to East Asian countries such as China, Japan, Korea, and probably Thailand, Vietnam, etc. In Britain the word normally refers to South Asian countries like India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, etc. Even then the terms are very vague so a country like Afghanistan could be seen as Asian or Middle Eastern and even within a country you get huge variations in the way people look or their culture. | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? " Does the OP want more specific racism? People go with what they like, nothing you can do about it, focus on the people who are more broad minded | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? " Being a bit pedantic and technical I suppose it should mean no Russians from East of the Urals, nobody from Turkey East of the Bosphorus (although that was historically called Asia Minor), and Cypriots would be fine... unless they had the wrong sort of Turkish heritage! You're spot on that it's totally vague and I doubt most people putting that in their profile have thought about it that much. On top of that there are Asian people who would easily pass for European so would they be excluded? | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? Being a bit pedantic and technical I suppose it should mean no Russians from East of the Urals, nobody from Turkey East of the Bosphorus (although that was historically called Asia Minor), and Cypriots would be fine... unless they had the wrong sort of Turkish heritage! You're spot on that it's totally vague and I doubt most people putting that in their profile have thought about it that much. On top of that there are Asian people who would easily pass for European so would they be excluded?" | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? Does the OP want more specific racism? People go with what they like, nothing you can do about it, focus on the people who are more broad minded" I don't think the op has suggested it's racist. | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? Being a bit pedantic and technical I suppose it should mean no Russians from East of the Urals, nobody from Turkey East of the Bosphorus (although that was historically called Asia Minor), and Cypriots would be fine... unless they had the wrong sort of Turkish heritage! You're spot on that it's totally vague and I doubt most people putting that in their profile have thought about it that much. On top of that there are Asian people who would easily pass for European so would they be excluded?" Spot on but actually I'm not Being pedantic not sure if you read further up but somebody who is Greek Cypriot said some people consider him Asian. I think that's why this thread is important because you're right a lot of people that have no Asians on their profiles haven't thought about it but maybe they should. | |||
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"That’s like me choosing people that speak Yorkshire slang & what part they from we all speak it differently yet they say they’re Yorkshire but don’t understand what ya saying " Much more really going on under the surface really!! Fab is a massuve window into typing expressions plus more. | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. " Then the south and east divide! Many love the food,maybe the culture. Their women.. Not so the men!! | |||
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"We're just a under estimated minority OP. I see quite a lot of asian (oriental) male and white female relationships about. Also there quite a growing amount of AMWF, asian (oriental) male white female porn about. I think there's a growing appreciation for oriental cock. Look AMWF Stacey Saran, she can have my cock any day. Lol. That's the point though you are not a minority because people from Asia make up over half the world's population. Minority on Fab." Abit obvious by now. Many a post about this area of fab. Yet no change nor shift. Hearts and minds are tainted of many out there!! Yet if the boot was on the other foot? The smell and stench in the air would be far different on fan within 24 hours. The majority poplulas shows clearly. | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. I've had messages from people who say both 'no asians' and 'no blacks' Don't think they know what they want! Just block them and keep it moving!" " they do kniw what they dont want " lol. No Blacks and asian!! I was on an Assignment just this week in SW London, when i arrived i could just sense the whole Aura from the receptionist all the way up and dowm the levels of so called status and positons, cold,stern,body languge stated what my eyes and 6th sense felt. Yet out off all senior staff, one southern strong accented Irish lady! Welcomed me in,made me tea ,shared her biscuits/cake's. A gem a diamond of a human and a real lady at that! I resigned on my 2nd day! I so wish not to swim in " such toxic vile vibrations amongst many whom as a magority have a within hatred for the difference of skin - tone of another person! Yet all the on line courses handed out! Professed. Be mindful of how you look at,and treat others beyond yourself, no matter what many state here . " its our prefference/s " It Is DISCRIMMINATION based upon,race,religion,skin tone ,and Geographical locations of the world where they are from MAKE LOVE,NOT WAR.... | |||
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"a hot guy is a hot guy could not give 2 hoot what part of the world hes from hot is hot" Define Hot?? Some will see that hot! As warm not hot, or maybe even cool,or cold!! Here is a deep issue of race,skin tone,and locaton of what part of the world people are from! Yet the women from those parts are deemed as a challenge for the bedroom antics!! Not so the Men!! Hot,warm,cool,cold etc etc | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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One size fits all, right......
A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe.
Oh ok I see it's disputed. . Technically Cyprus is classed as been in Asia but political we are classed as part of Europe as we fall in the Mediterranean Sea.
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I met a Maltese guy the other day who on first glance looked 'asian' just goes to show you can't tell just by how someone looks "But looks are what are being judged on here so openly and otherwise. With ill information beyond that! Like the Book coover,contents exapmle we most maybe aware of?? | |||
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"Surely you need to ask the person whose profile it is? How are we meant to know? I think it's a very good question and worthy of discussion. Sure, but how are we meant to clarify the meaning behind an unknown stranger's words? It's encouraging a decision around the profiles who feel the need to write "no Asians" on there profile " Many still will and want to shag asian , sout/east ,indian,pakistani,bengali,afgan women! But not the south east ASAIN MEN indian,pakistani,bengali,afgan etc etc etc. Lol | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either." I see!! Whats your reason for not going with Asian men?? Iam assumeing only South east asian men from india,pakistan,bengladesh,afganistan etc etc etc. Pkease do clarify and not shy away from your truth. | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x" Rightly. Please clarify!! Unreasonable in what way?? | |||
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"I have an exs who were Pakistani and one was Indian and they were both nightmares Couldn't imagine judging all asian men based on the behaviour of those 2 On the flip side one of my exs was white and deep into our relationship I saw the Indian guy and had a brief convo with him, my white ex asked who he was and I told him, he was DISGUSTED, told me he wouldn't have gotten with me if he knew I was the kind of women who slept with that sort "WTF!! the truth came to the surface very quikly heh. He dont even know the asian man to pass such comment. Now what does he realy think of you??? | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter Tbf ive had this experience alot with white men" How so very profound!! Indeed!! Food for thought people of fab. Men and women. Much is being revealed,eyes ears mouths open wide! Lol. Yet many still wish not to learn or unlearn all the negative they have formed about others without knowing them. Passing judgements of non facts. | |||
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"Personally when they say no asians, I think they mean indian asians who most built a reputation of being unreasonable? I personally don't go with asian men either. What do you mean by unreasonable? I’m quite interested x My experience of them are selfish, demanding and demoralise me as a woman like my opinion or feelings don't matter I get that and past experiences are a massive factor. But I don’t think most asian men are like that, its just a minority of them that makes the rest of us look bad " If only mate. Diff rules apply to. Many and for some a created rule. Selection. | |||
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"But my ex chinese lovers were considerate and nice. But not that exciting in bed, short with small cocks so not for me either. "Many point at others and blame shift. Ie small dick,unreasonable etc etc. Naybe you did not atain there mental or physical levels. Takes two to tango!! | |||
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"I wish that people choose the person.. not race.. it's the integrity of person not the race. " Sometimes deep trauma can make you skeptical of a race and you avoid them at all cost for your own protection. Just human condition. We all have our preferences. I'm not changing mine to be PC for others. To simplify it, its like preferring blonde to brunette. it's sex ultimately that drives our decision on fab. Not the fact he's just got amazing personality but physically unattractive to me. I been with men from all over the world but definitely have my preference. I wouldn't go so far on my profile and say I hate a race but there's certain race I do avoid due to past trauma. If I met them in different circumstances, I might think differently but fab is like a sweet shop for most people. We have a choice. | |||
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"I wish that people choose the person.. not race.. it's the integrity of person not the race. Sometimes deep trauma can make you skeptical of a race and you avoid them at all cost for your own protection. Just human condition. We all have our preferences. I'm not changing mine to be PC for others. To simplify it, its like preferring blonde to brunette. it's sex ultimately that drives our decision on fab. Not the fact he's just got amazing personality but physically unattractive to me. I been with men from all over the world but definitely have my preference. I wouldn't go so far on my profile and say I hate a race but there's certain race I do avoid due to past trauma. If I met them in different circumstances, I might think differently but fab is like a sweet shop for most people. We have a choice." like I said integrity ... If they enjoy everything about you what is the issue. | |||
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"Well I have started something here and really pleased to hear people's thoughts. Every Asian man is going to be different, some have small cocks, some are bad in bed, some are going to be good and some might have big cocks. Doesn't matter if uve had bad experience with it as not everyone is going to be the same. It's like when u date someone and there are bad points about him or her but u find someone else and they maybe similar traits but a better person, how ever u don't know that until u find out. It's been a really interesting discussion. X" Have we learnt anything from this whole exercise? Many posts like this have come and gone! Yet no change has prevailed here on Fab. " change for the better comes from within, by core formed Actions with intentions to create change. Mere words are emplty without actions they always speak louder longterm. Be the very best you can,but make that change daily on here and the world. Peace. | |||
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"I wish that people choose the person.. not race.. it's the integrity of person not the race. Sometimes deep trauma can make you skeptical of a race and you avoid them at all cost for your own protection. Just human condition. We all have our preferences. I'm not changing mine to be PC for others. To simplify it, its like preferring blonde to brunette. it's sex ultimately that drives our decision on fab. Not the fact he's just got amazing personality but physically unattractive to me. I been with men from all over the world but definitely have my preference. I wouldn't go so far on my profile and say I hate a race but there's certain race I do avoid due to past trauma. If I met them in different circumstances, I might think differently but fab is like a sweet shop for most people. We have a choice. like I said integrity ... If they enjoy everything about you what is the issue." Don't get your argument. As I said if something on thier profile is off putting, you just wouldn't go there? If it's their race, so be it. You two just wasn't meant to be on fab. I think everyone is entitled to choose who ever they like as long as the feeling is mutual. So why get hung up about someone not wanting a particular race. I wouldn't waste a second more if I knew someone didn't like me just because of my race. I just move on and find someone else. Even if it takes reading a million profiles later. OP i advise you to ignore and concentrate on the people who do find you attractive and vice versa. I mean, I get men telling me how much they want an indian woman, thinking I am one. Nope I'm not but I don't get offended. But if I found their profile attractive, I would reply back with a flirty comment and see where it leads. | |||
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"Maybe be let's try being human beings not being focused on perceived cultural aspects. If someone say no . It's their choices. " Race is a construct to divide .you never know how another person is unless you yourself engage to them on a personal level. | |||
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"Well I have started something here and really pleased to hear people's thoughts. Every Asian man is going to be different, some have small cocks, some are bad in bed, some are going to be good and some might have big cocks. Doesn't matter if uve had bad experience with it as not everyone is going to be the same. It's like when u date someone and there are bad points about him or her but u find someone else and they maybe similar traits but a better person, how ever u don't know that until u find out. Well i love to meet a chinese man with a big cock lol" Such a degradeing body shaeming thing to say to chinese men,and all Men! Some mindsets are not good for manys mental health. Shows how you really think of others. | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? " BRAVO clear point!! Still there will be sweep it all under the carpet. Its their problem not mine. These posts will still come up. Coz many are faceing this backlash on here! Imagine the daily off here!! Lol | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities I think thats more to do with religion rather than race/ethnicity" Every human has a choice daily to be what they so wish with formed actions! Be accountable good or bad. Blame shiffting and putting it upon religion/ethinic/ colour T -shirt, football team they support, breakfast they ate. Is all scapegoating. To deal with issues or any, is to deal with oneself from internally head and heart has to be cleansed for the better,then one can be so fit for society at large anywhere. ?? | |||
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"I wish that people choose the person.. not race.. it's the integrity of person not the race. Sometimes deep trauma can make you skeptical of a race and you avoid them at all cost for your own protection. Just human condition. We all have our preferences. I'm not changing mine to be PC for others. To simplify it, its like preferring blonde to brunette. it's sex ultimately that drives our decision on fab. Not the fact he's just got amazing personality but physically unattractive to me. I been with men from all over the world but definitely have my preference. I wouldn't go so far on my profile and say I hate a race but there's certain race I do avoid due to past trauma. If I met them in different circumstances, I might think differently but fab is like a sweet shop for most people. We have a choice. like I said integrity ... If they enjoy everything about you what is the issue. Don't get your argument. As I said if something on thier profile is off putting, you just wouldn't go there? If it's their race, so be it. You two just wasn't meant to be on fab. I think everyone is entitled to choose who ever they like as long as the feeling is mutual. So why get hung up about someone not wanting a particular race. I wouldn't waste a second more if I knew someone didn't like me just because of my race. I just move on and find someone else. Even if it takes reading a million profiles later. OP i advise you to ignore and concentrate on the people who do find you attractive and vice versa. I mean, I get men telling me how much they want an indian woman, thinking I am one. Nope I'm not but I don't get offended. But if I found their profile attractive, I would reply back with a flirty comment and see where it leads." is it not more prudent to judge the person not their race ? | |||
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"So viewed alot of profiles and I have always come across so profiles which state no asian men. So I was born in England and class myself as English, but have a Chinese back ground. No there there are different types of Asians, so please explain is it just all Asian men or just certain Asians. Just curious as don't want to waste anyone's time and seeing what people's outcome on this, without been horrible about it too.. Interesting you have a Chinese background and use the word Asian.Reminds me of a conversation I had with a British born lady who parents are of Bangladesh origin who I work with.I called a new girl that started work Asian as she was Indian looking She basically said Indian, Pakistan , Bangladesh I should call Indian and Chinese , Japan , Thailand I should call Asian.Where as I always referred to all 6 countries as Asian. In America Asian seems to nearly always be used to refer to East Asian countries such as China, Japan, Korea, and probably Thailand, Vietnam, etc. In Britain the word normally refers to South Asian countries like India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, etc. Even then the terms are very vague so a country like Afghanistan could be seen as Asian or Middle Eastern and even within a country you get huge variations in the way people look or their culture." Thats because many have passed through those lands and planted thier seeds, so there are many varients in look "colours of eyes skin tone etc. | |||
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"I wish that people choose the person.. not race.. it's the integrity of person not the race. Sometimes deep trauma can make you skeptical of a race and you avoid them at all cost for your own protection. Just human condition. We all have our preferences. I'm not changing mine to be PC for others. To simplify it, its like preferring blonde to brunette. it's sex ultimately that drives our decision on fab. Not the fact he's just got amazing personality but physically unattractive to me. I been with men from all over the world but definitely have my preference. I wouldn't go so far on my profile and say I hate a race but there's certain race I do avoid due to past trauma. If I met them in different circumstances, I might think differently but fab is like a sweet shop for most people. We have a choice. like I said integrity ... If they enjoy everything about you what is the issue. Don't get your argument. As I said if something on thier profile is off putting, you just wouldn't go there? If it's their race, so be it. You two just wasn't meant to be on fab. I think everyone is entitled to choose who ever they like as long as the feeling is mutual. So why get hung up about someone not wanting a particular race. I wouldn't waste a second more if I knew someone didn't like me just because of my race. I just move on and find someone else. Even if it takes reading a million profiles later. OP i advise you to ignore and concentrate on the people who do find you attractive and vice versa. I mean, I get men telling me how much they want an indian woman, thinking I am one. Nope I'm not but I don't get offended. But if I found their profile attractive, I would reply back with a flirty comment and see where it leads. is it not more prudent to judge the person not their race ? " | |||
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"I do find it interesting this thread reaction is quite sympathetic to the op. When usually if it's from indian asian man, there's more criticism against him. Search the history if you want to see if I am correct? I be really interested to know if I'm right." You are correct. In the past have been many by Asian indian men. They even had Dm/ Pm hate mail sent to them. To shut up and put up with this type and what fab has to offer. | |||
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"Asian women in clubs are so hot.." Go get em Floyd. Il pass on to you the one's i know. We could do an exchange. | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. Thank you. Well pointed out.
Yes it can.. from cultural point of view, they may view sex and females differently to over races. "No it's not. Nobody is born prejudice. You have to be taught. | |||
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Yes it can.. from cultural point of view, they may view sex and females differently to over races.
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities I think thats more to do with religion rather than race/ethnicity Every human has a choice daily to be what they so wish with formed actions! Be accountable good or bad. Blame shiffting and putting it upon religion/ethinic/ colour T -shirt, football team they support, breakfast they ate. Is all scapegoating. To deal with issues or any, is to deal with oneself from internally head and heart has to be cleansed for the better,then one can be so fit for society at large anywhere. ?? " I was just giving an opinion on why certain men may or may not be not great in bed. It's not my view at all, I have dated men of all races and race have never been a deciding factor on who I date in real life or meet from fab Although I do understand how it may come across as scape goating which was not at all my intention | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. I've had messages from people who say both 'no asians' and 'no blacks' Don't think they know what they want! Just block them and keep it moving! " they do kniw what they dont want " lol. No Blacks and asian!! I was on an Assignment just this week in SW London, when i arrived i could just sense the whole Aura from the receptionist all the way up and dowm the levels of so called status and positons, cold,stern,body languge stated what my eyes and 6th sense felt. Yet out off all senior staff, one southern strong accented Irish lady! Welcomed me in,made me tea ,shared her biscuits/cake's. A gem a diamond of a human and a real lady at that! I resigned on my 2nd day! I so wish not to swim in " such toxic vile vibrations amongst many whom as a magority have a within hatred for the difference of skin - tone of another person! Yet all the on line courses handed out! Professed. Be mindful of how you look at,and treat others beyond yourself, no matter what many state here . " its our prefference/s " It Is DISCRIMMINATION based upon,race,religion,skin tone ,and Geographical locations of the world where they are from MAKE LOVE,NOT WAR.... " If their profile says "no blacks" and they then message a black woman (me) Then no they don't know what they want and my point still stands | |||
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"But the worst in bed been indian and middle eastern for me. Then some British men I genuinely do not believe for a second that somebody's performance sexually has anything to do with where they were born. I do and don't Usually men who marry young and have very limited amount of sexual partners/sexual partners who are scared/worried about speaking up about what works and doesn't work have a major part in it which seems to be a common thing within Muslim communities I think thats more to do with religion rather than race/ethnicity Every human has a choice daily to be what they so wish with formed actions! Be accountable good or bad. Blame shiffting and putting it upon religion/ethinic/ colour T -shirt, football team they support, breakfast they ate. Is all scapegoating. To deal with issues or any, is to deal with oneself from internally head and heart has to be cleansed for the better,then one can be so fit for society at large anywhere. ?? I was just giving an opinion on why certain men may or may not be not great in bed. It's not my view at all, I have dated men of all races and race have never been a deciding factor on who I date in real life or meet from fab Although I do understand how it may come across as scape goating which was not at all my intention " I hear you. I think you mean well!! I ive read your many posts on the forum. They have been from a place you have recieved many a trails. All good. I feel i understand your view points well. Peace. | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. I've had messages from people who say both 'no asians' and 'no blacks' Don't think they know what they want! Just block them and keep it moving! " they do kniw what they dont want " lol. No Blacks and asian!! I was on an Assignment just this week in SW London, when i arrived i could just sense the whole Aura from the receptionist all the way up and dowm the levels of so called status and positons, cold,stern,body languge stated what my eyes and 6th sense felt. Yet out off all senior staff, one southern strong accented Irish lady! Welcomed me in,made me tea ,shared her biscuits/cake's. A gem a diamond of a human and a real lady at that! I resigned on my 2nd day! I so wish not to swim in " such toxic vile vibrations amongst many whom as a magority have a within hatred for the difference of skin - tone of another person! Yet all the on line courses handed out! Professed. Be mindful of how you look at,and treat others beyond yourself, no matter what many state here . " its our prefference/s " It Is DISCRIMMINATION based upon,race,religion,skin tone ,and Geographical locations of the world where they are from MAKE LOVE,NOT WAR.... If their profile says "no blacks" and they then message a black woman (me) Then no they don't know what they want and my point still stands "This isn't the same but I often see "won't meet smokers on profiles", I then get messages asking to meet and I say but you won't meet smokers and it clearly States on my profile I'm a smoker. Without exception I have always had the response of "we will make an exception for you". | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. I've had messages from people who say both 'no asians' and 'no blacks' Don't think they know what they want! Just block them and keep it moving! " they do kniw what they dont want " lol. No Blacks and asian!! I was on an Assignment just this week in SW London, when i arrived i could just sense the whole Aura from the receptionist all the way up and dowm the levels of so called status and positons, cold,stern,body languge stated what my eyes and 6th sense felt. Yet out off all senior staff, one southern strong accented Irish lady! Welcomed me in,made me tea ,shared her biscuits/cake's. A gem a diamond of a human and a real lady at that! I resigned on my 2nd day! I so wish not to swim in " such toxic vile vibrations amongst many whom as a magority have a within hatred for the difference of skin - tone of another person! Yet all the on line courses handed out! Professed. Be mindful of how you look at,and treat others beyond yourself, no matter what many state here . " its our prefference/s " It Is DISCRIMMINATION based upon,race,religion,skin tone ,and Geographical locations of the world where they are from MAKE LOVE,NOT WAR.... If their profile says "no blacks" and they then message a black woman (me) Then no they don't know what they want and my point still stands "They are "Sad" and playing Geo mind games! And only view and see you as an object only!! Ok for maany take the COCK & PUSSY away!! What do they or most have to offer really??? | |||
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"We have seen this on quite a few profiles too. To be honest we wouldn’t want to meet anyone who had that on their profile anyway. Mrs We've also seen this on a few profile as well. We're a mixed couple, I'm Asian (male) and shes white. We avoid those people, we've had messages from couples who have put no Asians on their profile as well. I've had messages from people who say both 'no asians' and 'no blacks' Don't think they know what they want! Just block them and keep it moving! " they do kniw what they dont want " lol. No Blacks and asian!! I was on an Assignment just this week in SW London, when i arrived i could just sense the whole Aura from the receptionist all the way up and dowm the levels of so called status and positons, cold,stern,body languge stated what my eyes and 6th sense felt. Yet out off all senior staff, one southern strong accented Irish lady! Welcomed me in,made me tea ,shared her biscuits/cake's. A gem a diamond of a human and a real lady at that! I resigned on my 2nd day! I so wish not to swim in " such toxic vile vibrations amongst many whom as a magority have a within hatred for the difference of skin - tone of another person! Yet all the on line courses handed out! Professed. Be mindful of how you look at,and treat others beyond yourself, no matter what many state here . " its our prefference/s " It Is DISCRIMMINATION based upon,race,religion,skin tone ,and Geographical locations of the world where they are from MAKE LOVE,NOT WAR.... If their profile says "no blacks" and they then message a black woman (me) Then no they don't know what they want and my point still stands
This isn't the same but I often see "won't meet smokers on profiles", I then get messages asking to meet and I say but you won't meet smokers and it clearly States on my profile I'm a smoker. Without exception I have always had the response of "we will make an exception for you"."I really like you Lorna, but this is defo not the same at all | |||
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" Loads of profiles on here stating blacks only, whites only, hung only, age preference, gender preference, relationship preference, size preference. We don't have to all like the same thing. If someone doesn't like what you are fuck em. Their loss, move on. I get that but I also get what the OP is saying. When somebody says only black, only white, only under 40, only over 6ft, It's quite specific and you know whether you fit into that. No Asians Is rather vague and as has come up on this thread it's open to interpretation. Is someone from Russia, Turkey, Cyprus ect... excluded? Being a bit pedantic and technical I suppose it should mean no Russians from East of the Urals, nobody from Turkey East of the Bosphorus (although that was historically called Asia Minor), and Cypriots would be fine... unless they had the wrong sort of Turkish heritage! You're spot on that it's totally vague and I doubt most people putting that in their profile have thought about it that much. On top of that there are Asian people who would easily pass for European so would they be excluded? Spot on but actually I'm not Being pedantic not sure if you read further up but somebody who is Greek Cypriot said some people consider him Asian. I think that's why this thread is important because you're right a lot of people that have no Asians on their profiles haven't thought about it but maybe they should. " . Hi lornajo83 I think you maybe referring to me.Yes I am Greek Cypriot born and raised in London who growing up and today is asked if I am Asian on Fabs as well as outside of Fabs. I have the wording Greek Cypriot born and raised in London on my profile as I feel single Asian male are treated differently on Fabs and felt if I stated my country of origin people wouldn’t just right me off because I look Indian. I think a few people have learned on this thread that Cyprus a country that is in Europe and in the EU since 2005 and in the Mediterranean Sea is actually classed as one of the 48 countries that are part of Asia. I don’t believe anyone that has learned this on the thread is racist , ignorant or rude just that it’s a easy mistake to make. | |||
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"This is a interesting debate...... And it can feel unfair but Truth is we all have preferences. And we all get judged on stuff that we can do nothing about. Must be tall, must have hair, must be good-looking, must be rich (lol) etc etc..... Some people don't say it out loud but everyone does have their own preferences that judge people for stuff they can't change. Fact. " | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. " But it's not is it? | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. " No I'm not saying u have to be sexually attached to everyone hence why I said everyone has their own preferences. | |||
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Though of course others adore a fury body. If only we were all made exactly the same eh, what a boring world would that be | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. But it's not is it?" It isn't, but it seems like some people do feel that way. If a profile we like states "BBC only" then we just move on, I don't feel the need to persuade them that they are prejudiced against my moderate white cock (MWC?) | |||
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"Discounting a whole race or ethnic background is not quite the same to having preferences" It is though really, isn't it? | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. But it's not is it? It isn't, but it seems like some people do feel that way. If a profile we like states "BBC only" then we just move on, I don't feel the need to persuade them that they are prejudiced against my moderate white cock (MWC?)" TBF most 'BBC only' profiles heavily fetishise black men so it's not really the same. | |||
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"Discounting a whole race or ethnic background is not quite the same to having preferences It is though really, isn't it? " I don't think it a rationale one, no. Why would I say I don't like Welsh. There will becdome I don't and many I will I am sure. | |||
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This isn't the same but I often see "won't meet smokers on profiles", I then get messages asking to meet and I say but you won't meet smokers and it clearly States on my profile I'm a smoker. Without exception I have always had the response of "we will make an exception for you".
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"Discounting a whole race or ethnic background is not quite the same to having preferences It is though really, isn't it? I don't think it a rationale one, no. Why would I say I don't like Welsh. There will becdome I don't and many I will I am sure. " Yes, agreed. But that's not really a different race or ethnic background. The fact is that almost every preference is acceptable on Fab apart from skin colour... and we kind of suspect that's the "code" profiles are using if they say something like no black or Asian folks. | |||
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"Discounting a whole race or ethnic background is not quite the same to having preferences It is though really, isn't it? I don't think it a rationale one, no. Why would I say I don't like Welsh. There will becdome I don't and many I will I am sure. Yes, agreed. But that's not really a different race or ethnic background. The fact is that almost every preference is acceptable on Fab apart from skin colour... and we kind of suspect that's the "code" profiles are using if they say something like no black or Asian folks. " No there's a way to express preferences "I prefer slimmer ladies" is not the same as "no fat bitches" Just as "I prefer black/white/asian playmates" is not the same as "no blacks, no asians, no dogs and no irish" | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. It really isn't! " Well, not really, but a profile that said something like "not looking for black people" might well be called racist, but one that said something like "looking for blondes" wouldn't. | |||
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"Discounting a whole race or ethnic background is not quite the same to having preferences It is though really, isn't it? I don't think it a rationale one, no. Why would I say I don't like Welsh. There will becdome I don't and many I will I am sure. Yes, agreed. But that's not really a different race or ethnic background. The fact is that almost every preference is acceptable on Fab apart from skin colour... and we kind of suspect that's the "code" profiles are using if they say something like no black or Asian folks. No there's a way to express preferences "I prefer slimmer ladies" is not the same as "no fat bitches" Just as "I prefer black/white/asian playmates" is not the same as "no blacks, no asians, no dogs and no irish"" Oh yes, absolutely agree with this. | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. It really isn't! Well, not really, but a profile that said something like "not looking for black people" might well be called racist, but one that said something like "looking for blondes" wouldn't. " That maybe because 'blonde's isn't a race..... | |||
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"Discounting a whole race or ethnic background is not quite the same to having preferences It is though really, isn't it? I don't think it a rationale one, no. Why would I say I don't like Welsh. There will becdome I don't and many I will I am sure. Yes, agreed. But that's not really a different race or ethnic background. The fact is that almost every preference is acceptable on Fab apart from skin colour... and we kind of suspect that's the "code" profiles are using if they say something like no black or Asian folks. No there's a way to express preferences "I prefer slimmer ladies" is not the same as "no fat bitches" Just as "I prefer black/white/asian playmates" is not the same as "no blacks, no asians, no dogs and no irish"" | |||
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"It's almost like you have to be sexually attracted to every living being on the planet otherwise you get labelled as a something-ist. It really isn't! Well, not really, but a profile that said something like "not looking for black people" might well be called racist, but one that said something like "looking for blondes" wouldn't. That maybe because 'blonde's isn't a race....." no but plenty of blonde white women get fetishised on here | |||
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"Yep. There are 48 countries in Asia and I'm pretty sure a lot of physical and cultural differences between people from Thailand, Armenia, China, India, Japan, Turkey or Saudi Arabia, amongst all the other countries......
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One size fits all, right......
A. Yes there are lots of physical , cultural , religious beliefs. I am of Greek Cypriot heritage my parents from Cyprus which is part of the Mediterranean and yes we are one of the 48 countries in Asia.
Have I misunderstood this because I'm pretty certain that Cyprus and Greece are both in Europe.
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