FabSwingers.com forum: Do winks work?

By *oogeebay89 OP Man
over a year ago

So, we all know about the winks! Do they work or are people off put by them? Be great to know everyone’s thoughts and experiences!

My bet is they don’t have any affect??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found them to work

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’ve got conjunctivitis

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I don’t tend to look at them at all!

I would rather someone would take out the time to actually message me.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Nope not for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think they're useful, if we're very interested in someone that has sent a wink we'll message them. If their profile looks ok but we're still undecided we'll send a wink back and see if they message and go from there. If we send a wink and don't hear anything back, then we take it as they're not interested.

Works pretty well

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Winks can work.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not often ,as mine are mainly from men miles away who haven't read what I'm looking for.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m sure they can work at times. I always forget to check mine until I read a thread like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve found them to work

I bet you do too

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Nope, waste of time. Message always, wish we could disable them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they work

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Dunno, someone wink me so I can check if they work....

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over a year ago

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Winks work. At least, if you wink someone, it comes up on their home page that you have winked them.

Whether they take the slightest interest is another thing entirely...

Anyway OP I've sent you one, just to prove the science...

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Winks work. At least, if you wink someone, it comes up on their home page that you have winked them.

Whether they take the slightest interest is another thing entirely...

Anyway OP I've sent you one, just to prove the science..."

Accurately put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really but I still wink

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Of course they do I winked at a woman on the street and got a lovely smile

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I totally ignore them. They have mounted up for 5 years and I have over 6 thousand

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I totally ignore them. They have mounted up for 5 years and I have over 6 thousand"
6001 I just sent you one

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"So, we all know about the winks! Do they work or are people off put by them? Be great to know everyone’s thoughts and experiences!

My bet is they don’t have any affect?? "

Some love them, some hate them.

We don't mind getting them. Then, if we're interested we know a message would be welcome. Or we wink back and they know it's okay to send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes can lead to chat

And friends

Sexy friends x

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"So, we all know about the winks! Do they work or are people off put by them? Be great to know everyone’s thoughts and experiences!

My bet is they don’t have any affect?? "

Why don't you try

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We have met and played as the result of a wink!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More miss than hit for me. Mostly I get people look at profile after I've winked them, but that's it, just a look. Had a couple of meets that started with a wink.

Personally if someone winks me I wink back and message.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

Yeah about 1 in every 100 winks

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've had some fun meets that started with a wink

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never occurs to me to look at them

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

certainly no harm in a wink..

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Yip they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink from a blank profile 200+ miles away is the very height of fuckwittery but surprisingly common.

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

It started with a wink which then became a car park wank

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Yes they've worked

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"It never occurs to me to look at them "

Thought I'd just pop you one

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

They work for us, we always check out the profile if we receive one.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some people don't respond to them - they're a lost cause - you lose nothing.

Of the rest - you're potentially in luck

. Nobody moans about the huge effort involved in sending winks ever.

. The potential recipients woll never know of your existence or interest, unless you do something.

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. So most winks won't achieve pussy riot overflows. You can't blame the tools, if you were never compatible.

Glass half full or half empty? Fab is what you make it.

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By *lldaybreakfastMan
over a year ago

leeds

Love getting winks it lets you know there's a bit of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forget they are there x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

For those that get vast amounts and of messages I imagine they are ignored. For me I will always at least look at the profile of someone who winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. They work for me.

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Can’t say they’ve ever ‘worked’ for me …. But still give them….. just don’t received many

Maybe that says more about me than anything else

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I never look at winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they made me the happiest iv ever been once my top 10 or so highlights of my life were because of them

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By *atsswallowsMan
over a year ago

dudley

I like to wink at people, I think it’s a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we look at them , other times we bulk delete if there’s too many.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sometimes.

LvM

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Sometimes we look at them , other times we bulk delete if there’s too many. "

Same here

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Hardly ever look at them

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"It never occurs to me to look at them "
damn

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Not with us. We’ve not responded to one yet.

Hades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly ever look at them"

I look at you.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No they dont lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, some don’t

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Sometimes I'll take a look but rarely. It's usually "straight" men on the whole

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)

We have had fabulous meets that started with a wink, but us not responding isn't necessarily a dismissal as we aren't always great at checking them,

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't check them

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) keep up with ours. It has been the trigger for the occasional conversation.

I'd much rather get a wink than a shit message.

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