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First steps into kink

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

What were your first steps into the wide world of kink

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I converted my garden shed into a dungeon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work at a kink/sex night club so learned a lot there. seen some really interesting shit and did some as well.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Probably when my gf kissed me after I cum in her mouth unexpectedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being introduced to handcuffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking my first fabber discovering multiple orgasms do exist and wanting to make more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising I get extremely turned on by a woman’s “smell” down below… especially her booty! It’s a thing of beauty

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I've been into kink as long as I've been interested in sex. As soon as I realised there was sexual attraction, I was always interested in dominatrix vibe women.

Maybe I watched Hellraiser when I was too young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came back from my hiatus away just to answer this question as you not get a legitimate answer

All you get is piss take

I would say the first step in to the world off kink is

vanilla sex and build trust with the person or people

Anyone jumping straight in to kink with someone unknown is a risk

Kink play requires trust to be built

So both parties can feel safe that if and when it gose to far in the heat off things

They will know the person will back off

So all kink starts off vanilla till trust is built and then dive in to the world with the person or people

Hopefully this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 3sum that started with mild watersports

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Came back from my hiatus away just to answer this question as you not get a legitimate answer

All you get is piss take

I would say the first step in to the world off kink is

vanilla sex and build trust with the person or people

Anyone jumping straight in to kink with someone unknown is a risk

Kink play requires trust to be built

So both parties can feel safe that if and when it gose to far in the heat off things

They will know the person will back off

So all kink starts off vanilla till trust is built and then dive in to the world with the person or people

Hopefully this helps "
no, I was actually interested in what other people's first steps into kink.

I am way past my first steps

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Going to a strip club with hubby and having fun with 3 strippers while hubby and three other men watched.

Mrs

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

It all starts with trust and lots of discussion between the parties and slowly go from there with lots of continuing consent is how we started and we're honestly still only a few steps down that road

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I told my then boyfriend to spunk in me as I wanted his baby. His hip thrusts went into turbo mode and he spaffed like a fountain.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

submissive land

Slipping on my wife's stockings

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"What were your first steps into the wide world of kink"

My dreams.

Dreams I should not have been having!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I've been into kink as long as I've been interested in sex. As soon as I realised there was sexual attraction, I was always interested in dominatrix vibe women.

Maybe I watched Hellraiser when I was too young?"

Glad I’m not the only one. My two first girlfriends both from very strict catholic families corrupted me, so sex has always been based on kink from day 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was seeing a now ex GF, she expressed an interest in exploring the Dom/sub dynamic, so we purchased some cuffs, blindfolds, restraints. She already had some toys. Had a great time, pity it ended.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I think it was when someone bit hard into my thigh whilst giving me a handjob.

Can't say I didn't thoroughly enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been into flirting with great looking women.

Enjoy kissing.

Enjoy orgasms.

Enjoy the thrill of doing naughty stuff.

And so the recipe turned into a kink stew.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Outdoor sex and lingerie in my 20's then I found tantra. BDSM appeared 3 years ago which is a fun evolving journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that first first steps was my 2nd ever time having sex as it was with 4 women in a bush in a park but at the time i never saw it as kinky just experience really

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Going with my ex to a sex club where there was some electro stim play..

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Watching eurotrash in my pre/early teen years followed by sexetera, sin cities etc followed by the explosion of the internet and the wealth of information/misinformation right at my finger tips.

I guess I always knew that I was destined for this life.

Mr Hayes.

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By *hestersladyWoman
over a year ago

cannock

I’m in the process of doing this with a workshop at the bottom of my garden can’t wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I waa peed in and on

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"I’m in the process of doing this with a workshop at the bottom of my garden can’t wait "
neither can I

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

On a St. Andrews Cross, at the mercy of a pro Domme - D.

FemDom with 2 Dommes, then spent the rest of the party trying a bit of everything. Flogging, shibari, electro play. - L.

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By *exy Bi FemWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Had my first over the knee spank ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great lady friend that taught me everything. I was always anti rimming until she did it to me when I didn't expect it now i always want it

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Filthy minded girls that introduced ideas I'd never thought of before

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I definitely felt like I crossed over into a different world when a rather wonderful lady farmer from the wilds of Wales got the toys (beads, plugs etc) out the second time we met.

Took a little convincing, although I was very intrigued from the start. Very quickly it was “wow”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going in to Ann Summer seeing there large assortment of bondage gear whips masks such like imagine a certain lady on hear in Ann Summer elf dress with handcuffs and whip

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