FabSwingers.com forum: How long have you been on fab and how was it changed over the years

By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

For better or worse ? Good and bad

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London & Europe

6 or 7 years and it's virtually the same as it's always been in opinion. Not in a bad way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 years….. was so much better when I first joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on Fab almost since the begining.

It hasn't changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long time, I don't think IT has changed, I think I have.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Only recently joined

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool/Torquay

8 years worse now than it was before

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I have been here about 13 years and its been pretty much the same

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It hasn't changed but I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about 10 years but I left and came back in that time. Seemed more fun earlier but then I was a bit younger! Thinking my time on Fab will be up soon.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Been here for nearly 9 years it got worse over the years but every time I get piss off with I rember my friends and the fun and nosence here on forums and that then make another connection with some beautiful new people and gain a new friend .

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

A few years Covid made the site overfilled with single men and less swingers more chancers still met amazing people from here and all the other sites and apps are useless in comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The change only depends on my outlook I found. If I don't see the benefit, I avoid. It goes in circles as Gemini Man used to say. One guard leaves and another one arrives. Ups and downs. Full on energy or slow paced and non inspiring. As long as you know what you get out of here, changes won't affect you much, you just keep floating and ignoring the chaos around.

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By *J45Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Approx 5 yrs as a single and in previous relationships personally I (jay) don't think it's changed

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

But must admit a lot of the people on fab baffle me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years and it’s pretty much the same nothing drastic is different. Other than the amount of house parties I don’t see anymore, it seemed to be full house parties going off on my local updates and then covid killed that side off I found and not seen many since…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for a few years

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London & Europe

"12 years….. was so much better when I first joined "

Because I wasn't here

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

11 years

And yes it has changed compared to back when I first joined.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

2007 and for me it’s not the same but then I use fab completely differently to how I used to as I’ve no intention of meeting anyone im just here for the fun of the forums and the I think the fact we can now upload videos has made fab better although I had my reservations about it when that option first was offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"12 years….. was so much better when I first joined

Because I wasn't here

Exactly

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm towards 15 years non-stop. I've been swinging since I was 21 and I've changed more than Fab has. The site itself hasn't transformed itself as much as it could have done, which will also have limited our experience to date. As others have said, Covid did disturb Fab's balance somewhat.

What I accept is that I can have enormous influence over my results here and it's my choice whether and how I do this. Whatever the state of Fab that we each perceive, we should take it on ourselves to make fab work for us how we want it to to do, whilst also making Fab to be the Fab that we'd prefer. Ultimately, Fab is a tool and it's people that use it, to connect with each other. We make it what it is.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

12+ Years

Things change whilst staying the same.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

7 months, gone downhill since I first joined and I miss the good old days of early 2022…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off over 10 years.

More men…(competition)

Same shit..

Every experience worth it..

Same judgmental folk..

Tbh the only thing that’s not changed is the UI/interface. Time for an uplift???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here almost 4 years I think.

The forum goes through lulls every now and then, but nothing much changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha we’re newbs at just over a year so it hasn’t changed for us.

We’ve learned to be quite cautious though.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I've been on probably about six or seven years. I don't notice a change but there's bound to have been some.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've been on here since the dawn of time, same shit, different day to me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

6 years off and on but only using the forums 3 years.

Can't say if the site overall has changed.

The forum soup is just the same with different spoons.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Approximately 7 or 8 years.

Better at first.

2020 saw a big influx of folk that were from the swipe left or right site who assumed that this was instashag.

Sadly some still remain and can usually be seen in the forums mosning that it's hard to get a meet on here.

We tend to use it as a window into the lifestyle and a way to keep in touch with some that we have met or chatted to previously, but the occasional diamond pops up from time to time too.

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Approximately 7 or 8 years.

Better at first.

2020 saw a big influx of folk that were from the swipe left or right site who assumed that this was instashag.

Sadly some still remain and can usually be seen in the forums mosning that it's hard to get a meet on here.

We tend to use it as a window into the lifestyle and a way to keep in touch with some that we have met or chatted to previously, but the occasional diamond pops up from time to time too."
I'm a diamond in the rough........ Fore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years.

I'm not sure if Fab has changed, it's more how I interact with it that has.

This site has introduced me to some of the best friends I've had in my life.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

I've been on here about 4 years. I don't think it's changed that much.

There are still plenty of blokes moaning no-one wants to meet them, plenty that don't read profiles and plenty that are arseholes if you don't want to meet them.

I don't see that will change. There are a lot of lovely folk on here though, so it's worth my while staying

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve been here nearly 5 years. I’ve certainly changed over that time, hugely. The site though? I don’t think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here over 8 years and it has changed quite a bit. Was much friendlier and lots of banter in those days. Lots of friends have left due to the time wasters and the attitudes of people.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's not really changed. The fora are pretty cyclic, peaks and troughs; people come and go, new characters take centre stage and there'll always be griping about single men.

I've changed a lot though. Mellowed. I'm more certain about what I want and tend to attract that in friendships, relationships and whatever else.

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"For better or worse ? Good and bad "
same people different names, same messaging so it's the same

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By *onny69sMan
over a year ago

Donny

About 13 to 14 years. Definitely changed. Was a lot better back then. It feels there was more interaction with people then. Also seems a lot lot less single women compared to then unless that because of my age now haha.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It's not really changed."

If things don't change, they will remain the same

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"About 13 to 14 years. Definitely changed. Was a lot better back then. It feels there was more interaction with people then. Also seems a lot lot less single women compared to then unless that because of my age now haha. "
you're 14 years older that's all that's changed

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

On and off for years. For those who don't remember or were not in the scene before we had to either use various contact magazines, get invited to something or a club. Whilst fab and similar sites are full of time wasters it's a great place and you can meet people hear or even go to clubs and connect via the site later. Sadly people tend to find the negativity of a site more interesting and can blame the site for their lack of "action" .

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have been here over 10 years, possibly 15.

It hasn’t changed much, except for the covid period.

More fantasists these days possibly and the people that actually meet do so more through clubs and socials.

I actually think that there are more genuine single women these days. Also way more single guys.

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