FabSwingers.com forum: What have you done for YOU recently?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We spend so much time working, keeping our homes in order in multiple ways, and answering to the wants and demands of others. It's all too easy to forget ourselves, take time out just for yourself or treat yourself to something that makes you happy.

So when is the last time you did something just for you?

And if you haven't recently are you going to make sure you do, and if so what will it be?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It was nearly 2 years ago now when I took a large leap of faith and did something for me....one of he best decisions I made. I'm guilty of putting others before myself, can't help it x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

It’s a big birthday for me next week so I have three celebrations planned, have had my nails done, bought a new outfit and intend to buy myself a nice present too

Can’t remember when i last went out so I’m looking forward to it

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Going up to London tomorrow night to have dinner and drinks with friends I haven't been able to see for months, it's nice to be an adult rather than just being mummy all the time

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Been on several bycyle touring adventures and covered about 1000 miles over the summer,; it's my "me time" and it reinvigorates my mind body and soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought tickets for a few concerts next year. Going by myself by choice.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Going up to London tomorrow night to have dinner and drinks with friends I haven't been able to see for months, it's nice to be an adult rather than just being mummy all the time"

That’s what I’m looking forward to as well. Adore the kids but adult time is much needed!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

The last 18 months have basically been working to live, so not really had much opportunity to actually do something for me, but last week I thought fuck it, and took my first steps into the art of Shibari and booked myself into a series of workshops to learn the art and the skills

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It’s a big birthday for me next week so I have three celebrations planned, have had my nails done, bought a new outfit and intend to buy myself a nice present too

Can’t remember when i last went out so I’m looking forward to it"

Oh I hope you have a brilliant time! You deserve to treat yo'self. x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Going up to London tomorrow night to have dinner and drinks with friends I haven't been able to see for months, it's nice to be an adult rather than just being mummy all the time"

Too true, nothing says "adult" than wear Star Wars knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treated myself to a new outfit for a club event I am going to next Saturday.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"It’s a big birthday for me next week so I have three celebrations planned, have had my nails done, bought a new outfit and intend to buy myself a nice present too

Can’t remember when i last went out so I’m looking forward to it

Oh I hope you have a brilliant time! You deserve to treat yo'self. x"

Thank you gorgeous, I can’t wait

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I've booked myself a holiday to the canaries half board so should be looked after and tanned

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Going up to London tomorrow night to have dinner and drinks with friends I haven't been able to see for months, it's nice to be an adult rather than just being mummy all the time

Too true, nothing says "adult" than wear Star Wars knickers

They are a very good filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much tbh, but I'm getting my brows, lashes and nails done tomorrow then have girls nights on Fri and Sat, so I'm getting back into the swing of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In September I took a week off work. Mr NBVN was away in sardinia, kids were back in school & work.

I had a wonderful week of positive reflection of my achievements this year, promotion and moving jobs, successful major surgery, clearing marriage debt after 10 years. I went on walks, ran and didn't go anywhere near a shop. It was so nice to be my own centre of attention

NBVN x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Treated myself to a sexy man yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a big birthday for me next week so I have three celebrations planned, have had my nails done, bought a new outfit and intend to buy myself a nice present too

Can’t remember when i last went out so I’m looking forward to it"
That sounds great! Happy birthday and have a lovely time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomorrow, I am having a massage.

Before that...oh, I accidentally bought mysrlf a top last week while shopping for my besties' birthday!

I felt guilty, before I even left the shop!

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Booked a holiday for the new yr it was for two now I am going on my own and having me time in Portugal

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I asked for a weekend away for my birthday last week and did exactly as I wanted. Never done that before. Liberating. All I had to do was ask apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The season has finnished so no more ribs to smash no more people to project my frustrations upon

Il just have to wait a few months to unleash holy hell once again

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can't remember but I'm going out with my friends for a Christmas meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do something for myself?

Yeah right!

Like I'm ever going to have the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day. Little things. Today something of a bigger treat. I got a wicked bright coloured dress, a colour I usually shy away from. And I made few people smile. That's a treat on a different level. Their reaction.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"It’s a big birthday for me next week so I have three celebrations planned, have had my nails done, bought a new outfit and intend to buy myself a nice present too

Can’t remember when i last went out so I’m looking forward to it That sounds great! Happy birthday and have a lovely time

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In September I took a week off work. Mr NBVN was away in sardinia, kids were back in school & work.

NBVN x"

Absolute perfection. And so much to be proud of !

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I brought some very very very pretty shoes today.

They just wouldn’t let me leave the shop without them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I put the heating on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a ballet this week and booked to see 3 further shows over December and January.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to the cinema on my own last week while the kids were at school.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self care is what I do for myself.

Specific things every day, and extra if I feel I need it.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Painted garden seat and did a general pre-winter tidy.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Took myself for a day of floating about in a lovely spa pool and then to the cinema. We are taking ourselves away for the weekend this weekend too

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I bought a projector that moon and the earth

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I think the bog one was resigning from my last job with nothing lined up. Ahdvwhile circumstances forced it, it was very much for me.

On a general level I have very few commitments with no family and a supportive partner so I get to be quite selfish. I need to run and ride a bike amd go to the gym for my physical and mental wellbeing so I'm quote selfish in prioritising that

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Hubby goes to the races and I go to the nail bar

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