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"With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile. No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders. Since I asked the question I'll go first. Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet. Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc). Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for. There you go. Not a negative in sight. Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience. A" This is great advice, thank you. | |||
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"With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile. No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders. Since I asked the question I'll go first. Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet. Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc). Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for. There you go. Not a negative in sight. Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience. A This is great advice, thank you." No worries. It's just my/our view and others will be different. Just felt it would be more beneficial to describe what positive traits we look for rather than (as is often the case and we're all guilty of it at times) moaning about what we don't like or want to see. And more use to those seeking inspiration of course. A | |||
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"With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile. No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders. Since I asked the question I'll go first. Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet. Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc). Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for. There you go. Not a negative in sight. Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience. A" Making us laugh and you are halfway there. Humour is a very important trait to us | |||
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"More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look) " I'm sorry have I smashed my profile? | |||
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"More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look) I'm sorry have I smashed my profile?" You’ve done well, Sir. A love of Cats, too! | |||
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"More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look) I'm sorry have I smashed my profile? You’ve done well, Sir. A love of Cats, too! " Let's raise an army of cats and have sex (each other not cats) | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) " You got me cackling at work | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work " Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) " So you are really seeing if there is any cognitive dissonance then? | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) So you are really seeing if there is any cognitive dissonance then?" Absolutely. But more so to which level | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x" I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on " Aisle 7 is worst | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on Aisle 7 is worst " I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on Aisle 7 is worst I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? " Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is. | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on Aisle 7 is worst I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is. " Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on Aisle 7 is worst I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is. Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries " I don’t go inside, I’ll fuck watermelons and grannies who can paint at the back | |||
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"Someone who can lick a pomelo, like it was the last fruit on earth " | |||
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" I don’t go inside, I’ll fuck watermelons and grannies who can paint at the back " Oh I see, living your best life to the max as usual | |||
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" I don’t go inside, I’ll fuck watermelons and grannies who can paint at the back Oh I see, living your best life to the max as usual " Well someone has to ! | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on Aisle 7 is worst I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is. Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries " Come to the backof lidl and I’ll show you my wonky passion fruit!! | |||
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4) Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not. Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) You got me cackling at work Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on Aisle 7 is worst I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is. Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries Come to the backof lidl and I’ll show you my wonky passion fruit!! " Sorry I’m allergic to passion fruit | |||
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"Profiles that know exactly what they want, and aren't hedging their bets (18 - 99, etc). There's something to be said for those that appear to be in no rush, doing things on their own terms - it's a very attractive quality. It implies a quiet confidence. There's a lot being said about well written profiles, for us what matters more is that there is clear effort being made - if there's no effort being made in the 'chase' then chances are any sexy time is going to be lame." Can't agree more with all of the above. | |||
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"Good photos, couples with pics of both, a bio that reads easy, is positive and has a bit about them. Mrs " Same as above...decent quality pics draw you in first and also has to have decent blurb..ranty intolerant profiles put us off. | |||
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