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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is "

Pretty much this

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We have single guys blocked, this allows us to contact guys when we choose, but not get bombarded with messages.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will message first if we see someone we’re interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is "

All the answers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is

Pretty much this

Noted …. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have single guys blocked, this allows us to contact guys when we choose, but not get bombarded with messages.

Cal"

Sounds like a good idea…. On your terms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We will message first if we see someone we’re interested in. "

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we never message guys first

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

We message first to see if the guy is interested as guys are normally blocked and makes it easier for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and will continue to... Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies just realised you were asking couples

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Depends on who it is and if they have anything to offer us

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is

Pretty much this

ditto

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"We have single guys blocked, this allows us to contact guys when we choose, but not get bombarded with messages.

Cal"

As above. To much abuse made us block guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We message first to see if the guy is interested as guys are normally blocked and makes it easier for everyone. "

Keeps it simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apologies just realised you were asking couples

Good to see that you are willing to though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have single guys blocked, this allows us to contact guys when we choose, but not get bombarded with messages.

Cal

As above. To much abuse made us block guys. "

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% guys contact us and we begin a dialogue if they seem alright.

We have contacted first though and it went ok.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes we message 1st others we send a wink, depends who it is tbh.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"90% guys contact us and we begin a dialogue if they seem alright.

We have contacted first though and it went ok. "

Wonder how ours will go …

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes we message 1st others we send a wink, depends who it is tbh.

Mrs "

I’m learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is "

couldn’t of said it better myself x

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Just depends on the person and their profile tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We message sometimes. We don't message sometimes. Depends who it is

couldn’t of said it better myself x"

I guess I should of expected the variety

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just depends on the person and their profile tbh

They need to make themselves irresistible to pass by ….

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I can’t think of anything original

like my fellow comrades, it’s a bit of both! I tend to wink first though

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

They need to catch our eye in one way or another. Be that a message we’ve received from them or maybe a forum post we’ve noticed or just a hot avatar we’ve stumbled upon that’s inspired us to send a message.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"We have single guys blocked, this allows us to contact guys when we choose, but not get bombarded with messages.

Cal

As above. To much abuse made us block guys.

Sorry to hear that

We have met some really nice guys at socials though. But its the ones who back out last minute that made us put the blocks back up. To be fair there are some very tidy gents on here who stand out from the rest by miles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t think of anything original

like my fellow comrades, it’s a bit of both! I tend to wink first though "

Well if ever I notice a wink….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They need to catch our eye in one way or another. Be that a message we’ve received from them or maybe a forum post we’ve noticed or just a hot avatar we’ve stumbled upon that’s inspired us to send a message."

*starts to think of better forum post ideas

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

We hotlist profiles that we like, watch activity for a while and will message if we d like to know more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

It depends if the guy is an 8 or a 6. Hope this helps OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have single guys blocked, this allows us to contact guys when we choose, but not get bombarded with messages.

Cal

As above. To much abuse made us block guys.

Sorry to hear that

*grabs notepad…ready to take hints & tips…what’s their secret?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

We hotlist profiles that we like, watch activity for a while and will message if we d like to know more

Everyone is now hoping the hotlist involves them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

It depends if the guy is an 8 or a 6. Hope this helps OP"

What’s the difference between the 8 & 6 criteria

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If the guy has a good profile and sounds like he’ll fit our dynamics then yes, we’ll message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If the guy has a good profile and sounds like he’ll fit our dynamics then yes, we’ll message. "

It’s good to hear that it goes that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

It depends if the guy is an 8 or a 6. Hope this helps OP

What’s the difference between the 8 & 6 criteria

Bro if you don't know the difference between a 6 and an 8, you should immediately get off fab and stick with tinder

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

It depends if the guy is an 8 or a 6. Hope this helps OP

What’s the difference between the 8 & 6 criteria

Bro if you don't know the difference between a 6 and an 8, you should immediately get off fab and stick with tinder

Oh damn!!! I’ve been caught … fab imposter

I’ve never actually used tinder …

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

We've only messaged one or Two.

You have to be extra special for that treatment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please can I ask some advice ….

Do you message guys first? Or do you wait for them to make the move?

Should it be something I could expect to happen or treat it with caution?

I know everyone is different but just curious

We've only messaged one or Two.

You have to be extra special for that treatment"

I’m sure they feel special

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