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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

What's your standard answer when some one asks how you are? If you don't even think or self assess how you are feeling before replying?

Mine is I'm fabulous or fantastical. Must be an F thing.

I said it automatically yesterday, realised I wasn't, back tracked and changed my answer and they didn't give a shit anyway, the question is so often just a formality! ROFL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fine

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Mustn’t grumble

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Not too bad… which is usually pretty accurate honestly

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

As good as one can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im golden, pony boy"

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm alright ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine thanks..... as a complete stranger are you always concerned for the welfare of others.

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Living the dream!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I tend to say

"Things are good"

"I'm good" or variants on that.

When what I really want to say is a full on verbal waffle of everything that's going on because I never have one emotion or feeling, there's normally a lot going on but hey, I've learned social norms.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Sometimes I stop and actually have to think about it, rather than autopilot a "fine".

If I was being asked face to face by someone cute, like the OP, I would probably light up "really good now you're here" or something

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

All good

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By *aulboy1Man
over a year ago

newport

No one ever asks me

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I tend to say

"Things are good"

"I'm good" or variants on that.

When what I really want to say is a full on verbal waffle of everything that's going on because I never have one emotion or feeling, there's normally a lot going on but hey, I've learned social norms. "

Gotta love those social norms and expectations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one ever asks me "

How are you.?

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Fine thanks..... as a complete stranger are you always concerned for the welfare of others. "

Nope. But if I'm neither interested nor have the time to listen to a genuine answer, I simply don't ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's just a how are you message with not a lot else I don't tend to reply tbh

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By *aulboy1Man
over a year ago

newport


"No one ever asks me

How are you.?"

I'm fine ta, thanks for asking

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"No one ever asks me "

How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.

-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to.

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If it's just a how are you message with not a lot else I don't tend to reply tbh "

Guys get those too???

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Depends on who, when and where... But generally, I say:

I am well, thank you, how are you?

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Manchester, but Usually Dundee and around


"What's your standard answer when some one asks how you are? If you don't even think or self assess how you are feeling before replying?

Mine is I'm fabulous or fantastical. Must be an F thing.

I said it automatically yesterday, realised I wasn't, back tracked and changed my answer and they didn't give a shit anyway, the question is so often just a formality! ROFL "

It's amazing how giving the honest but unexpected answer can throw people... which shows they weren't honestly enquiring... they were just saying a rhetorical phrase as an opener...

It's okay to not be okay... I'd offer you a hug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's just a how are you message with not a lot else I don't tend to reply tbh

Guys get those too??? "

I have had them before - mainly from other guys but occasionally from a woman (not that many women message a single guy!)

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you

“Good,good”

Automatic, no thought in it whatsoever

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By *aulboy1Man
over a year ago

newport


"No one ever asks me

How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.

-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to. "

Haha OK I'm poorly but battling on , how are you

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Manchester, but Usually Dundee and around

OP, just noticed what you say about bottom photos...

Apologies if I am distracting you!

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"No one ever asks me

How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.

-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to.

Haha OK I'm poorly but battling on , how are you"

Oh no. Sending a get well hug your way x

Today I am rather chipper actually, thanks for asking

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By *aulboy1Man
over a year ago

newport


"No one ever asks me

How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.

-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to.

Haha OK I'm poorly but battling on , how are you

Oh no. Sending a get well hug your way x

Today I am rather chipper actually, thanks for asking "

Have a super day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Living the dream!"

Walking round with anal plug or something similar?

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Manchester, but Usually Dundee and around

OP I had hoped yo thank you for all the pic fabs... but it seems I'm out of your preferred age range.

Thanks anyway?

Keep chipper! You are looking oh so gorgeous!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm good ty x

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

I am very well thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm good ty x"

You look very good

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Living the dream

Aye, no bad, you?

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Well, I woke up this morning.....

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Nothing a bullet wouldn’t solve and yourself?

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Nothing a bullet wouldn’t solve and yourself?"

Ouch. Please put the bullets away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing a bullet wouldn’t solve and yourself?"

This isn’t the way Kenobi

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By *ew experiences for 2021.Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Im ok tar

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Nothing a bullet wouldn’t solve and yourself?

Ouch. Please put the bullets away! "

it stops any further questions

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Nothing a bullet wouldn’t solve and yourself?

This isn’t the way Kenobi"

So uncivilised right?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

‘Yeah, I’m ok’ regardless of how shitty a day I might be having. No one who asks actually ever wants to know

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Grand

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Tickety-boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay thanks you?

They reply I'm fine.

Good good.

Standard conversation

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

I always say I’m doing really well

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By *irBummyFingerMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Normal

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I always say ‘I’m terrible but thanks for asking’. Nobody knows how to respond with other than a nervous laugh

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I always say ‘I’m terrible but thanks for asking’. Nobody knows how to respond with other than a nervous laugh "

Ha, what would you say if they asked you to elaborate? Would you go into a troubled speech or say you're only joking? Or other?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"very good thanks"

If I want to continue the conversation, I'll add:

"and you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hows yous can elicit some interesting answers from us at times.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Busy.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I always say ‘I’m terrible but thanks for asking’. Nobody knows how to respond with other than a nervous laugh

Ha, what would you say if they asked you to elaborate? Would you go into a troubled speech or say you're only joking? Or other? "

I’d actually tell them all about my shit day

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?

If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?

If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking"

Now you mention it I do have this sensation going on all up in my balls...

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?

If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking

Now you mention it I do have this sensation going on all up in my balls..."

I'm flattered I make your testes tingle but I'm not that way inclined

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By *asmine xxxWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall, Bristol

I’m good thanks x

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By *ervice2000Man
over a year ago

derby

Good thanks. . . You?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?

If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking

Now you mention it I do have this sensation going on all up in my balls...

I'm flattered I make your testes tingle but I'm not that way inclined "

Damn it nothings easy around here!

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