FabSwingers.com forum: Pointers to help

By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

Hi I'm struggling to get any joy on here I know there are many guys and it's hard to compete just wondering if any ladies had any pointers that may help me in the right direction please

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By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

PM if you prefer to give private advice thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would probably just go unlos now op

Before the flame squad comes in

Desusted with what I seen in the lounge to day

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By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

Sorry to sound stupid I'm lost what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d probably post some better pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to sound stupid I'm lost what you mean"

Basically

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Someone asked for help and the fire squad shot him out off fab

Utter shocking to say the lest from people who clame to be good people told bs

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hi I'm struggling to get any joy on here I know there are many guys and it's hard to compete just wondering if any ladies had any pointers that may help me in the right direction please"
I have a pointer..... Such a lovely dog

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By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

I'm thick skinned worst case I just block there profile

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thick skinned worst case I just block there profile

Blocking dose not work on the forums

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatches"
batten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point in case both should be hit with the hammer

No contbushin to the subject and take the piss out the op very nice people aren’t they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatches"

Batten. There are two Ts.

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By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

"I'm thick skinned worst case I just block there profile

Blocking dose not work on the forums "

I know but it just helps show who have nothing better to do than write negative stuff on a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would probably just go unlos now op

Before the flame squad comes in

Desusted with what I seen in the lounge to day "

Me too

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatchesbatten

My spelling is awful..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would probably just go unlos now op

Before the flame squad comes in

Desusted with what I seen in the lounge to day

Me too

Yip was a bad one

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Hello mate. Obviously not a lady but I always say be yourself. It’s ok to ask for advice but you’ll have so many different answers you could end up being something you’re not and uncomfortable with it. Good luck butty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hi, I'm a male member seeking attention to and discovering that "fancy a fuck" doesn't work...so I thought I'd post on here and get attention that way ..... DM me your abuse please

Ta muchly

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Not a lady but I'll give the same advice I give anyone that asks.

Put serious effort into your profile. If you're not sure what that means browse other male profiles and see what theirs looks like in terms of words and pictures. But never copy - be yourself otherwise you're just pretending to be someone else to boost your chances.

Other than that? Clubs, socials and don't rely just on Fab. If you struggle in the real world it'll be ten times harder online.

I've just seen the other 'advice' thread mentioned previously. The OP on that one was given good advice as well as some blunt. But there's no easy route, quick fix or magic wand.

If what you're doing isn't working then change it. But don't expect anyone to do the work for you and don't think any one piece of advice will be the answer to your prayers - it won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatchesbatten

My spelling is awful..

1 or 3 dots. 2 don't work

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatches

Batten. There are two Ts."
I've told him lol

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Would probably just go unlos now op

Before the flame squad comes in

Desusted with what I seen in the lounge to day

Me too

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Nice pic hippy

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat op. Treat fab like a social club. Good luck!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Oh hi, I'm a male member seeking attention to and discovering that "fancy a fuck" doesn't work...so I thought I'd post on here and get attention that way ..... DM me your abuse please

Ta muchly

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Maybe few more pics? X

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

No need to be defensive in your profile, vast majority of women here have kids!

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By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

"No need to be defensive in your profile, vast majority of women here have kids!"

Ok thanks I've just edited it so hopefully doesn't come across so negative or defensive

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By *aughty Chav Lad OP Man
over a year ago

brierley hill dy5

"Maybe few more pics? X"

Thanks for advice I have pm you about your suggestion

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Don't put yourself down in your bio, that's not attractive.

More, creative photos, from flattering angles.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"As i am not a lady, i am unable to help you but i cant resist.

Punctuation would be a start.

And now i shall baten down the hatchesbatten

1. Capitalise the letter I when it is alone.

2. There should be an apostrophe in can't.

Hit those battens harder.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

O.P.

Take a picture from a different angle. The one you have gives a very distorted view of your body.

THEN

Delete the text on your profile and do a few sentences of what you can offer to anyone who meets you. Sexwise and personality wise... not cake or flowers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think about changing your name, get more pics from different angles.

Then I would rewrite the bio so it’s easier to read. Don’t put yourself down, plenty of women like dad bods on here.

No pms thanks

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"No need to be defensive in your profile, vast majority of women here have kids!

Ok thanks I've just edited it so hopefully doesn't come across so negative or defensive "

It's a good point but most folks should be understanding

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I recommend that you read several forum posts from guys looking for help, to get a general feel of the typical issues and tips.

It helps if you can understand what somebody wants when they view a user. They'll probably want to get confident that you could be a good potential partner. They'll want to find your personality and physically attractive, as best it's able to tell from a Web page.

How you achieve it is your challenge and choice. People respect honesty but remember that companies selling products don't labour the nitty gritty of their less interesting product parts, dirty oily parts on used cars etc, when you want a car for the pleasure and freedom, etc that it can provide.

Look at a lot of men's profiles and get a feel for how they do things - not to copy, but to do things better, in your own way. We don't generally want cock pics but we do prefer to grasp a feel for your physical self, as we'd potentially be in intimate physical contact with you.

Get out to socials and clubs. DY5 is in a great position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pictures, your profile one hurts my eyes.

Your username gives me the ick. Not sure why.

Went to read your profile, got two words in and gave up. Punctuation is your friend. It's a wall of text. No breaks, no lines, no full stops. So I didn't even read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thick skinned worst case I just block there profile

That’s the attitude that’s needed

And second. Don’t think of it as ‘competing’. Or you’re saying it’s a competition, and life, swinging, sex isn’t.

I don’t compete with anyone in here, in fact, I’m unsure if anyone would want to play the same game as me

3rd. Get to a social or a club, you won’t regret it.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I would have to agree with others about your username; you don’t really come across as a chav

The bio is fine, just some punctuation to make it easier to read and never take photos from underneath … I’m crap with a camera but know this is a big no no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to agree with others about your us… I’m crap with a camera but know this is a big no no! "

I’d take photos if I was under you..

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I would have to agree with others about your us… I’m crap with a camera but know this is a big no no!

I’d take photos if I was under you..

then I’d look like roadkill x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to agree with others about your us… I’m crap with a camera but know this is a big no no!

I’d take photos if I was under you..

then I’d look like roadkill x"

It’s okay, I’m good with photo shop.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Try the clubs

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By *ittenAndTheFoxCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Not perfect op but that is much better than what you have. As others have mentioned change the name !!!!! “chav” has to go, also experimenting with camera angles is fine but don’t just post up the first one you take and definitely not just pictures of your dick ffs your pictures are effectively your first impression…. Most importantly be you, definitely take no for an answer and stay respectful

I have just recently moved into the DY5 area. I'm a cheeky chap once I get to know you

I come across quite shy sometimes but once I’m comfortable I’m very outgoing. Looking for some naughty fun with some naughty friendly people. If your looking for a six pack I’m obviously not your man but I rock the dad bod hard

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More than happy to chat and get to know each first (maybe meet socially).

I do love to have a laugh and a good conversation.

My kids always come first however if I say I’m going to meet I will be there.

I'm a genuine guy just after some genuine fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The name alone would put me off if I was looking for a single man.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

That whole "I'm shy at first then a cheeky chappy when you get to know me" makes me think of someone who doesn't have enough personality to carry a conversation sober then has a few beers and starts shouting stuff like "LADS" and "GET YER TITS OUT LUV"

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