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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Sitting in the autumn sunshine this morning, I noticed a young dad and his boy (probably about three or four years old) collecting apples from a public park. The dad even climbed up one of the trees and it was really entertaining to watch the interaction between father and son. They were chatting about the cake they were going to make, then the little one needed a wee so dad had to come down from the tree he had just climbed after several attempts to launch himself up... The boy was full of worldly "Why" questions and they seemed so happy with being in each other's company.

Having finished they walked up to me to offer me some apples which I thought was another lovely gesture. I felt the urge to tell the dad that he looked and sounded like an amazing dad to have, which brought out a massive smile.

What happy event have you had or witnessed lately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son told me just sitting around spending time with me was the best thing.

Im sure his opinion will change once he hits his teenage years.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I read a thing on Reddit.

A man had no child care one day so took his 7 year old daughter out on her bike while he tried to do his usual run. Half way through she stopped and said "dad, this is the best day of my life"

He ended it by saying "if anybody needs me I'm out buying a pony"

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"My son told me just sitting around spending time with me was the best thing.

Im sure his opinion will change once he hits his teenage years."

Absolutely precious moments - we won't get them back in the same way once they are grown up.

Not saying you cannot have great moments with your kids at any time in life but there is something very special about that innocent spontaneity with which they acknowledge you at a young age, isn't there?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I read a thing on Reddit.

A man had no child care one day so took his 7 year old daughter out on her bike while he tried to do his usual run. Half way through she stopped and said "dad, this is the best day of my life"

He ended it by saying "if anybody needs me I'm out buying a pony" "

That is hysterical... wondering whether the pony was going to take his place or the daughter was going to ride it...

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Been singing songs with my son today and going to movies together later, the uncomplicated nature of youth reminds us how spontaneous fun can be!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Been singing songs with my son today and going to movies together later, the uncomplicated nature of youth reminds us how spontaneous fun can be!"
Doesn't it just.....it seems a million miles away from inflation, crises, wars, and politics... so healthy, so healing!

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

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"Been singing songs with my son today and going to movies together later, the uncomplicated nature of youth reminds us how spontaneous fun can be! Doesn't it just.....it seems a million miles away from inflation, crises, wars, and politics... so healthy, so healing! "

Footloose and fancy free, dropping all your cares really does make you feel better.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Time spent with my son is hands down the best time I have. Football and pillowfights today, den-building last week, maybe baking gingerbread men tonight. Just the most innocent, pure love in all the world. I'm banking every beautiful second against the inevitable time when I become the most embarrassing man in the world.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Random kitchen dancing with the little ones while I try to tidy always makes me smile

Mrs

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Time spent with my son is hands down the best time I have. Football and pillowfights today, den-building last week, maybe baking gingerbread men tonight. Just the most innocent, pure love in all the world. I'm banking every beautiful second against the inevitable time when I become the most embarrassing man in the world."
And after that embarrassing time, the previously built relationship will return in a different but also loving format.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Random kitchen dancing with the little ones while I try to tidy always makes me smile

Mrs "

OMG I used to do that with mine - come to think about it I still do. They video me on the mobiles and sent to their friends who would LOVE their mums to do that!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Random kitchen dancing with the little ones while I try to tidy always makes me smile

Mrs OMG I used to do that with mine - come to think about it I still do. They video me on the mobiles and sent to their friends who would LOVE their mums to do that! "

It's one of those instant happy moments,same with the Mr when he just has a random little kitchen dance, it's the little things x

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Random kitchen dancing with the little ones while I try to tidy always makes me smile

Mrs OMG I used to do that with mine - come to think about it I still do. They video me on the mobiles and sent to their friends who would LOVE their mums to do that!

It's one of those instant happy moments,same with the Mr when he just has a random little kitchen dance, it's the little things x"

Absolutely - more of those at any time, please! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time spent with my son is hands down the best time I have. Football and pillowfights today, den-building last week, maybe baking gingerbread men tonight. Just the most innocent, pure love in all the world. I'm banking every beautiful second against the inevitable time when I become the most embarrassing man in the world."

You may be the most embarrassing man in the world for a bit but it swings back round again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved making up silly poems and stories with my young one, now a teen. Caught him doing the same with a young nephew recently. My work is done here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a dad thing but love when I have eldest grandson on way home have radio 2 on and we both sing along he cringes when I start moving with it tells me to stop doing grandad things and turns stereo down.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I loved making up silly poems and stories with my young one, now a teen. Caught him doing the same with a young nephew recently. My work is done here."
Awwww that is sweet!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not a dad thing but love when I have eldest grandson on way home have radio 2 on and we both sing along he cringes when I start moving with it tells me to stop doing grandad things and turns stereo down."
Hey Grandads or Dads... does not matter. What DOES matter is that you have a great relationship with him.

Children are not brought up by their parents alone but by their grandparents and extended family, neighbours, schools etc. That is another fab experience you described there.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Not a dad thing but love when I have eldest grandson on way home have radio 2 on and we both sing along he cringes when I start moving with it tells me to stop doing grandad things and turns stereo down.Hey Grandads or Dads... does not matter. What DOES matter is that you have a great relationship with him.

Children are not brought up by their parents alone but by their grandparents and extended family, neighbours, schools etc. That is another fab experience you described there. "

This is so true!!! And I’m loving watching the relationship my parents have with my kids, nephews & nieces change & grow.

J x

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I go skiing with my boys every year for last 6 years. Always only 3 of us. Their mum resisted to go even when we were married so when we split we kept going 3. This year I told them we probably will skip ski holiday as I am little bit busy. They said our ski holidays are the best holidays and they always look forward to it. My heat is melted, I am going to find at least 3-4days for it

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"

You may be the most embarrassing man in the world for a bit but it swings back round again. "

Thank you!

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