FabSwingers.com forum: Nasty Statuses on here.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess it depends on your location but I often notice most statuses on here are rather nasty. As soon as anyone seems to get annoyed you see a status normally having a go at someone’s appearance or appendage size. This isn’t gender specific either.

Yes I suppose one can become frustrated with people but there really isn’t any need for that.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If they mention names, report them.

Can't say I've seen much of that though.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I occasionally use it to vent my spleen (as I am doing ATM). But try to keep it polite and respectful. Some are downright offensive and I hate the ones where people are bleating on about how shit Fab is and they are going to leave.

Fine. There's the door. Off you fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any negative or nasty statuses just shows what they are like and the report and block button are always there to be used.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Any negative or nasty statuses just shows what they are like and the report and block button are always there to be used. "

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Noticed an increase in man bashing posts recently

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

They can be a helpful filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I occasionally use it to vent my spleen (as I am doing ATM). But try to keep it polite and respectful. Some are downright offensive and I hate the ones where people are bleating on about how shit Fab is and they are going to leave.

Fine. There's the door. Off you fuck"

Seen one yesterday saying “I’m deleting this”

What’s the point saying that. If you delete yourself the status would disappear anyway

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"They can be a helpful filter

I agree. Pictures are fine and a profile can be vague but the status updates and what they write on the forum lets you see into their soul a bit more

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

"I guess it depends on your location but I often notice most statuses on here are rather nasty. As soon as anyone seems to get annoyed you see a status normally having a go at someone’s appearance or appendage size. This isn’t gender specific either.

Yes I suppose one can become frustrated with people but there really isn’t any need for that."

and long may they continue because they are the best filters on fab nasty status and nasty messages and nasty post't are thee best filter on here as are the constant moans or entitled views so let them carry on it make thing so much easier on here ...block nlock block

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"They can be a helpful filter

I agree. Pictures are fine and a profile can be vague but the status updates and what they write on the forum lets you see into their soul a bit more"

Amen to this!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They can be a helpful filter

I agree. Pictures are fine and a profile can be vague but the status updates and what they write on the forum lets you see into their soul a bit more"

And the green arrow ties it all together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid anyone with a passive aggressive status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty or crass statuses let you know that the profile owner is a bit of a twat. I block so many people on the updates page by their statuses. It's a great filter as most people don't write a profile.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Trouble is some take this site to seriously! But it does make as someone else said a good filter x

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've sometimes peeked at a profile and noticed that the status carries a desperate attempt at someone who rejected the owner of the profile.

I guess if they believe that the person they intended it for gets to see it then it makes them feel better like a five year old who throws something at someone who threw something at them.

I just gently close the door and tip toe away.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"

There's grumpy bastards wherever you go, and poor people.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally spot on

Spot off........ regional stereotype

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally spot on

Spot off........ regional stereotype"
well we are compared to our southern shandy drinking poshos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"

There's something to that. I live in the South and I'm loaded but also a miserable bastard.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't really see much of this maybe because I use filters so I have a great bunch of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"

Absolute nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like attracts like. If they are nasty they will attract the type of people they are ranting about.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"

I'm guessing this was another study, apparently up north its rich picking as well as very friendly with the joys of happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love an aggressive status from a woman! Means they are feisty and God have mercy on me but I can't help but find that fun to flirt with!

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Doesn’t bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"

No. I live in Newcastle Upon Tyne and it’s a very friendly place on the face of it. I don’t think posts online gauge in any way happiness of a region. They’re too thought out as opposed to the randomness of a night out or a shopping trip meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally spot on

Incorrect. I’m as north as you can get. My feed is littered with misery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn’t bother me in the slightest "

I’d suggest opening a thread, reading and posting on it suggests you do. In fact your passive aggressive comment only goes to prove as an example to folks on here’s miserableness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t bother me in the slightest

I’d suggest opening a thread, reading and posting on it suggests you do. In fact your passive aggressive comment only goes to prove as an example to folks on here’s miserableness."

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t bother me in the slightest

I’d suggest opening a thread, reading and posting on it suggests you do. In fact your passive aggressive comment only goes to prove as an example to folks on here’s miserableness."

Eh ?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally spot on

Incorrect. I’m as north as you can get. My feed is littered with misery."

Berwick is more northern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally spot on

Incorrect. I’m as north as you can get. My feed is littered with misery.

Berwick is more northern."

In Aberdeen they call Newcastle the Midlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I've noticed but then I don't really search.

I avoid people with statuses like that or it in their profile if they message me.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"They can be a helpful filter

I agree. Pictures are fine and a profile can be vague but the status updates and what they write on the forum lets you see into their soul a bit more"

Never taken any notice of status, will take a peek in future.

For us, been on over 12 months, no real meets, no thanks.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes I suppose one can become frustrated with people but there really isn’t any need for that."
frustration here on fab starts high and gets worse lol

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I think it helps to understand and dispel the delusion that this is a community of friendly,supportive and open minded folks.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I rarely see negative statuses.

Might be that Londoners are more positive and happy.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I rarely see negative statuses.

Might be that Londoners are more positive and happy.

Especially eastenders... Gaw blimey guvnor down the frog and toad and up the apples and pears

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We tend to avoid the people that have them kind of statuses we’re here for fun not drama ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There so seem to be some toxic people on here

Surely just better to ignore and pass them by

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I much prefer a nasty status to a lamppost posting conservation status. Both are hilarious but there's usually a little more variety in the nasty ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nobody else see the irony here???

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

Hence why I mentioned the green arrow above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

Hence why I mentioned the green arrow above

Ah I missed your comment

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Has anyone thought that this could be a regional pattern. The people up north may be poorer but they are friendlier and seem happier generally"

They aren't poorer Tom. We might get paid more but we pay over the odds for a pint and a pasty.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I rarely see negative statuses.

Might be that Londoners are more positive and happy.

Especially eastenders... Gaw blimey guvnor down the frog and toad and up the apples and pears "

We're all Cheeky Chappies dahn ere

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on the updates when I want a giggle. Usually the same people update where I live and some are hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

Hence why I mentioned the green arrow above

Got to be honest, I'm not impressed.

Winston

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I think it helps to understand and dispel the delusion that this is a community of friendly,supportive and open minded folks."

I think the forums and FAB in general is indicative of society itself.

Meaning some nice people, some not so nice, some angry, nasty, bitter, lonely, jealous, dickhead, lazy, delusional, halfwit, fuckwit and some smelly people.

Think I'd fit in between the nice and not so nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

Hence why I mentioned the green arrow above

Got to be honest, I'm not impressed.

Winston "

Absolutely not a chance eh!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

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of course but not from a female perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

Hence why I mentioned the green arrow above

Got to be honest, I'm not impressed.

Winston

Absolutely not a chance eh! "

I know people

my posts. I feel like an amateur after that.

Winston

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Does nobody else see the irony here???

Hence why I mentioned the green arrow above

Got to be honest, I'm not impressed.

Winston

Absolutely not a chance eh!

I know people

my posts. I feel like an amateur after that.

Winston "

Put a status up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Anything that helps you to easily filter out any of the tens of thousands of users here is a godsend.

Block and ignore the unsuitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noticed an increase in man bashing posts recently

But you seem to think anything anyone says about a man that you don't like is man bashing.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I've definitely posted statuses when I'm disappointed in folks behaviour before. But tend to keep it brief, so people understand if it causes us to take a step back from fab - Xeno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I've definitely posted statuses when I'm disappointed in folks behaviour before. But tend to keep it brief, so people understand if it causes us to take a step back from fab - Xeno"

Out of interest... Why?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I've definitely posted statuses when I'm disappointed in folks behaviour before. But tend to keep it brief, so people understand if it causes us to take a step back from fab - Xeno

Out of interest... Why? "

Usually so friends can see at a glance why we've taken a step back

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I've definitely posted statuses when I'm disappointed in folks behaviour before. But tend to keep it brief, so people understand if it causes us to take a step back from fab - Xeno

Out of interest... Why?

Usually so friends can see at a glance why we've taken a step back"

Yeah I get that bit.. And of course.. To each their own... But isn't a "taking a step back for a bit" sufficient?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It happens but I don’t like to see it or read it. I’m not really sure what people hope to achieve by doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens but I don’t like to see it or read it. I’m not really sure what people hope to achieve by doing it. "

I wouldn't know as I very rarely look at status updates.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Doesn’t bother me in the slightest

I’d suggest opening a thread, reading and posting on it suggests you do. In fact your passive aggressive comment only goes to prove as an example to folks on here’s miserableness."

Really? I suppose you could also think of it as answering the first post that you posted. We can't all agree and we are allowed to say so

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, a nasty status should be reported please.

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