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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?

I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the early days of being here I’ve certainly had gents turn up before in a less than desirable state of hygiene so experience has told me it is something that unfortunately has to be specified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I'm concerned, it's a no brainer

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I thought it was a given too. Thorough shower, a good scent, and a couple of chewing gums before kissing

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"In the early days of being here I’ve certainly had gents turn up before in a less than desirable state of hygiene so experience has told me it is something that unfortunately has to be specified "

Really? I’m not doubting your word, just shocked that actually happens! Has that stopped since you made a point of saying it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind people now wearing perfume but cleanliness is crucial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?

I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet? "

I'd like to think we all do it...

I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins and I was watching him in the shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?

I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet? "

Of course people present themselves fully showered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I always thought it was a giving to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?

I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?

I'd like to think we all do it...

I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins

and I was watching him in the shower "

That’s recreational sex for you!

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?

I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?

I'd like to think we all do it...

I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins and I was watching him in the shower "

To be honest with you, that sounds like a bonus to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?

I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?

I'd like to think we all do it...

I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins

and I was watching him in the shower

That’s recreational sex for you!"

It was pretty awesome to be honest haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good hygiene is a must for me , i go well dressed ,exceptionally clean and smelling nice , but there have been times when I've got there and thought nope, and that's not nice to say I know but true I'm afraid

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Not that I have many I just think having a shower and being clean and fresh before a meet is just a decent thing to do.

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"Good hygiene is a must for me , i go well dressed ,exceptionally clean and smelling nice , but there have been times when I've got there and thought nope, and that's not nice to say I know but true I'm afraid"

Because of their personal hygiene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes trixie

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"Yes trixie "

Oh that’s really unpleasant, I’m sorry to hear that. I’m glad you have the confidence to just leave, good on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the early days of being here I’ve certainly had gents turn up before in a less than desirable state of hygiene so experience has told me it is something that unfortunately has to be specified

Really? I’m not doubting your word, just shocked that actually happens! Has that stopped since you made a point of saying it ? "

Yeah it definitely happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly lornajo, I have it in mine , just polite really isn't it

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I have a shower, a trim, brush teeth and make sure that i look smart and feel great. I would expect that from others so I like to think that's what they expect from me. Unless they want a dirty scruff in wellies, but that's just kinky, lol.

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"I have a shower, a trim, brush teeth and make sure that i look smart and feel great. I would expect that from others so I like to think that's what they expect from me. Unless they want a dirty scruff in wellies, but that's just kinky, lol. "

Exactly, I do what I would expect from my meet. But it’s beginning to sound like my expectations are actually more like hopes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who purposely doesn't shower? Makes myself as musty as possible? Raw man smell?

Course I shower!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene Is top priority for me I live in the shower ha ha

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I guess people ask for it because it’s not a given. Seems a bit odd though, wouldn’t you want to give yourself the best chance when meeting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who purposely doesn't shower? Makes myself as musty as possible? Raw man smell?

Course I shower!"

Like there's a dead badger under there...

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"Am I the only one who purposely doesn't shower? Makes myself as musty as possible? Raw man smell?

Course I shower!

Like there's a dead badger under there... "

What does he shower in

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Am I the only one who purposely doesn't shower? Makes myself as musty as possible? Raw man smell?

Course I shower!

Like there's a dead badger under there...

What does he shower in "

Badger musk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So ladies? What would your favourite man's aftershave you would like your meet to turn up wearing, what gets you going?

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By *rixie_Blonde OP   Woman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"So ladies? What would your favourite man's aftershave you would like your meet to turn up wearing, what gets you going?"

Badger Musk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"So ladies? What would your favourite man's aftershave you would like your meet to turn up wearing, what gets you going?

Badger Musk"

Fresh, rather than roadkill?

Always the classy option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in general I shower or bath twice a day, if im meeting someone I will shower was close to the time im meeting as I can, Hygiene is very important to me and I expect the same in return, ive seen that on profiles as well and thought it was weird that it needed to be mentioned,

I ended up putting it on my profile at one point as I thought it was the "done thing" to add, until a friend of mine said to take it off

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.

"

He's Mr Romantic

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Good hygiene is essential and should be expected (unless specifically requested according to individual kinks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.

He's Mr Romantic "

Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.

He's Mr Romantic

Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally! "

Come on, they are lemon scented !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good hygiene is essential and should be expected (unless specifically requested according to individual kinks)"

if I was asked not to shower or something like that id be out off the meet personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.

He's Mr Romantic

Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally!

Come on, they are lemon scented ! "

Even worse, who wants to suck a lemon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.

He's Mr Romantic

Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally!

Come on, they are lemon scented !

Even worse, who wants to suck a lemon! "

Superb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a question for everyone!

If you say you don't meet dmokers snd you turn up and they vape , do you take that as the same context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a question for everyone!

If you say you don't meet dmokers snd you turn up and they vape , do you take that as the same context?"

Sounds like a question for its own thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if they vape and smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleanliness is next to godlessness as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My routine before play: shower/shaving smooth all over, do an enema to make sure super clean arsehole (obviously not in shower) & then shower again, shave face, moisturise, cut and file nails, put on my stockings & knickers to get ready (packing bag containing slut wear, make-up, wig, plenty lube, etc.), ready to attend party smelling fresh & clean...!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people would generally assume that social integration would result in people always thoroughly cleaning themselves prior to a meeting for sex.

There are some outliers. Some assume that washing several hours beforehand is sufficient . Their self awareness is low and they are unaware of how much their cleanliness has disappeared, whilst sweating, using the toilet etc.

I've had men discuss meeting straight after being out at work all day - and I'm guessing that some may have lied about showering before work. I decline.

I ask people when they have showered, before finally meeting. I don't typically want people coming to meet, to then have a shower.

I've been really surprised by some people and their differing outlooks to mine and what I think is a typical expectation of hygiene. Just getting the right match of personality is hard, without adding hassles of hygiene too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Often asked on fab.

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By *rLothbrokMan
over a year ago

Lancs

I’ve worked with people, in hygiene strict environments, that turned in for shifts without showering. It doesn’t surprise me that some wouldn’t shower before other events of their day.

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