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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

does what you put in your subject line make any difference to getting your message opened quicker do you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can make a difference.

If I can see the 1st line and it just says Hi there, Meet now, Are you free, How's fab treating you or a new commen one sex? Then I probably will not be opening it and it will go straight into the deleted messages vortex never to be seen again.

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

what would be a good one to put in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see something related to my status, or something on my profile so I know they've actually read it. Also reduces the chances of a standard copy/paste job a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it can make a difference.

If I can see the 1st line and it just says Hi there, Meet now, Are you free, How's fab treating you or a new commen one sex? Then I probably will not be opening it and it will go straight into the deleted messages vortex never to be seen again. "
the new common 1 'sex' that's a winner surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what would be a good one to put in x"

That's where it gets tricky because what my appeal to me wouldn't to another person. I think the key is to make it look appealing and worth opening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it can make a difference.

If I can see the 1st line and it just says Hi there, Meet now, Are you free, How's fab treating you or a new commen one sex? Then I probably will not be opening it and it will go straight into the deleted messages vortex never to be seen again. the new common 1 'sex' that's a winner surely "

Honestly I've had several messages recently that I have literally just said

Sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sum have it to make shour you have read they profile

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me, a good head line would be something they picked out of the profile rather than non-specific compliments and cut and paste.

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We don't get that many messages, so tend to open and read them before even noticing the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people ask a question or comment in the subject line and then just put something like hi in the message box ... we often miss the question or comment

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I often struggle with that first impression especially with the message headline.

How about,

I Dare you to read this ?

Or

If you dont read this, the kitten gets it ?

I generally use, Your pictures are beautiful or a compliment about their staus, profile or pics.

It is so difficult to make that important first impression, especially in writting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often struggle with that first impression especially with the message headline.

How about,

I Dare you to read this ?

Or

If you dont read this, the kitten gets it ?

I generally use, Your pictures are beautiful or a compliment about their staus, profile or pics.

It is so difficult to make that important first impression, especially in writting."

The 1st one would make me delete it the 2nd one would make me curious as to what the message contained so I'd probably open it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often struggle with that first impression especially with the message headline.

How about,

I Dare you to read this ?

Or

If you dont read this, the kitten gets it ?

I generally use, Your pictures are beautiful or a compliment about their staus, profile or pics.

It is so difficult to make that important first impression, especially in writting."

The kitten one would make me laugh so I'd have a look.

Also it makes it easier to find the message if the rest of the inbox is full of subject lines like

Hi

Hi

Hi

X

Sex

X

Hi

Sex hi

If you don't read this the kitten gets it!

Hi

X

Xx

Hi

Wuu2

Fuck now

Hi

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I only open the ones that are titled .....

YOU'VE WON !

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By *ark847Man
over a year ago

Ashford

I'm really struggling I try and make my messages as friendly as possible, always read the profiles and just get blanked. How can I meet people or chat if no one reads the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really struggling I try and make my messages as friendly as possible, always read the profiles and just get blanked. How can I meet people or chat if no one reads the message "

Do a forum search for profile advice.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

If i resume messaging again, The kitten gets it is the next one i'll try then !

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

It can definitely make it not get opened if it's a bad one.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

How about..

"Insert witty subject line here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. Call it an engaging headline.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like mine to be relevant to the topic, such as Attic Saturday night, or Leeds this weekend, etc,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely makes a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly makes a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep makes a difference.. sometimes xx

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I actually hardly pay attention to the subject line. I mostly look at the message but imagine the 2 are quite interlinked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often struggle with that first impression especially with the message headline.

How about,

I Dare you to read this ?

Or

If you dont read this, the kitten gets it ?

I generally use, Your pictures are beautiful or a compliment about their staus, profile or pics.

It is so difficult to make that important first impression, especially in writting."

Oh no! Not the kitten

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It doesn't to us because we are not inundated. Most messages only contain two or three words and we can see those fully in the preview. If that's all somebody has written it's most likely to go in the bin. If somebody has written more then we'll read it. It's not really down to the subject.

The vast majority of messages are pointless crap that go straight in the bin.

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