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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Hi everyone

When I message people I often say if they’re not interested and not going to reply, then take care and stay safe.

I was wondering, because of messages and how things are interpreted when read, if that comes across as threatening? I certainly don’t mean it in a threatening way.

Would you see it in a dodgy way or that it’s just a friendly way of saying “take care byeee”?

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I think that’s nice. Not threatening at all.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't find that threatening, its quite sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, not threatening at all and is a nice way to end a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're over thinking things.

It makes a refreshing change from-

"Fine. Fuck you then."

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No not at all threatening! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never think that was threatening OP, you're just being respectful and decent

Take care

NBVN x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am a over thinker and yeah "stay safe" would send my mind into a wtf moment

I say "thank you and have a nice day"

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Ah okay thanks everyone for the reassurance. Sometimes you just don’t know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being on the receiving end, but I will often finish a conversation which is clearly going nowhere with something similar. 'Good luck', or whatever. There's never a reason to be rude.

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"I am a over thinker and yeah "stay safe" would send my mind into a wtf moment

I say "thank you and have a nice day" "

You see that’s what I mean! I am an over thinker for sure which is good in my profession but not always good for general life I’ll start wishing a nice day instead actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're over thinking things.

It makes a refreshing change from-

"Fine. Fuck you then.""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

When I message people I often say if they’re not interested and not going to reply, then take care and stay safe.

I was wondering, because of messages and how things are interpreted when read, if that comes across as threatening? I certainly don’t mean it in a threatening way.

Would you see it in a dodgy way or that it’s just a friendly way of saying “take care byeee”? "

Seriously though OP, some folk will read into or take offence at the silliest or most innocent of things. You know how it's meant. You have no control over how it is interpreted.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's not threatening at all. Anyone who takes it that way has issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take care is a nice thing to say. It's not threatening at all, it's kind x

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By *ayHaych OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"Hi everyone

When I message people I often say if they’re not interested and not going to reply, then take care and stay safe.

I was wondering, because of messages and how things are interpreted when read, if that comes across as threatening? I certainly don’t mean it in a threatening way.

Would you see it in a dodgy way or that it’s just a friendly way of saying “take care byeee”?

Seriously though OP, some folk will read into or take offence at the silliest or most innocent of things. You know how it's meant. You have no control over how it is interpreted."

Yeah to be fair that is true.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

No not threatening

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Respectful way of saying no thanks

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya


"Hi everyone

When I message people I often say if they’re not interested and not going to reply, then take care and stay safe.

I was wondering, because of messages and how things are interpreted when read, if that comes across as threatening? I certainly don’t mean it in a threatening way.

Would you see it in a dodgy way or that it’s just a friendly way of saying “take care byeee”? "

Not threatening atall infact it’s very pleasant! People can just be a — holes

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Kinda ace Ventura ish.

Alrighty then...

Ok take care bye bye.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I thought most went with good luck and happy fabbing to you

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