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By *iss Kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West

Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "

for many on here it will be aesthetics same as on dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both as well.

But compatibility of personalities is essential.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

If she can suck start my lawnmower - she’s a keeper!!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It's the looks that bring you in, and it's the personality that keeps you there.

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By *iss Kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"If she can suck start my lawnmower - she’s a keeper!! "

So a gardening enthusiast lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need spark the ability to talk with someone sbout anything not just a shag life in general suppose thats personality but i think its more than that its a feeling of excitement and enthusiasm when we talk if thats there yhen i know being with them in person will be explosive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

It's difficult to get a handle on someones personality online, you can get a vague idea (depending on how honest they've been in the profile) so in a virtual world looks are always the initial attraction how far it develops after depends on personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first looks as that’s all you know. If they’re decent then obviously that will pique your interest further.

I wouldn’t meet someone who looked great but was a tit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

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cant fuck a look unless its blue steel with a really tiny cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix of both. I’m not shallow but there needs to be some attraction but a great personality makes someone a lot more attractive.

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Personality every time

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

You have to have both really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

cant fuck a look unless its blue steel with a really tiny cock "

Or a blue rinse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

cant fuck a look unless its blue steel with a really tiny cock

Or a blue rinse! "

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I've been with people on looks alone and was very disappointed. Personality alone doesn't always do it for me either, so it has to be a combination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be the hottest girl but if you've got a shit personality I can't bear talking to you. Which is fine if you're into silent sex.

On the flip side if you look like a frying pan I probably won't feel in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t be missing out on a top shagger because someone told me they love animals but can’t tell their spirit animal

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Both. I will give a bit on one if the other is particularly strong but at the end of the day I am choosy AF and they have to be the full package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be both. I can’t connect without both.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Looks. I go on looks first every time. Personality comes later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. I will give a bit on one if the other is particularly strong but at the end of the day I am choosy AF and they have to be the full package"

May I interest you in my body and charm?

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By *amuelsquestMan
over a year ago

Sutton at hone

Personality

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I also don't infer personality from looks as so may seem to do. A good personality isn't a reward for being perceived to be less attractive. I've known really decent people with all sorts of different physical appearance and the same goes for really horrible people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw peeps im a cunt before you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be the hottest girl but if you've got a shit personality I can't bear talking to you. Which is fine if you're into silent sex.

On the flip side if you look like a frying pan I probably won't feel in the mood "

Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"At first looks as that’s all you know. If they’re decent then obviously that will pique your interest further.

I wouldn’t meet someone who looked great but was a tit."

What about if he was great but looked like a tit?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's the looks that bring you in, and it's the personality that keeps you there.

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This.

I doubt anyone on here would be conversing for too long with someone theybdidnt find physically attractive in the slightest if looking for meets.

For repeat meets personality is more important but there's nothing wrong with a good old knee trembler with a hottie you don't want an ongoing conversation or interaction with, especially I'm a club environment.

Many are here for sexual thrills rather than to make long term friends, so devastating wit, sparkling repartee and a wide knowledge of interesting facts aren't essential.

A

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Shagging someone based on looks if they have no personality is a vapid and shallow fuck.

Shagging someone with a personality when you aren't attracted to them physically is either a pity fuck or a desperate one.

It's never either or. It has to be a combination of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be the hottest girl but if you've got a shit personality I can't bear talking to you. Which is fine if you're into silent sex.

On the flip side if you look like a frying pan I probably won't feel in the mood

Couldn't have put it better myself! "

You don't look like a frying pan by the way...

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Im sorry to disagree with so.e people here...but personally here ony gets you no replys at all...most of people here go for looks..not judging but as own experience personality its amazing but here dont worth much.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Shagging someone based on looks if they have no personality is a vapid and shallow fuck.

"

Sex doesn't always have to have meaning though. Sometimes it's nothing more than a physical encounter and that's fine for some. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes.

A

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I need a bit of both or it just won’t work.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Shagging someone based on looks if they have no personality is a vapid and shallow fuck.

Sex doesn't always have to have meaning though. Sometimes it's nothing more than a physical encounter and that's fine for some. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes.

A"

It wasn't an instruction. It's how I approach it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sorry to disagree with so.e people here...but personally here ony gets you no replys at all...most of people here go for looks..not judging but as own experience personality its amazing but here dont worth much. "

Of course they do. This is a site about sex and attracts people that like to have sex with multiple partners. Any flirty social media site is based on looks initially.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Looks but if they are devoid of personality that wouldn't work for me.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I need to be physically attracted first, then find out if the personality is attractive to me after that

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Shagging someone based on looks if they have no personality is a vapid and shallow fuck.

Sex doesn't always have to have meaning though. Sometimes it's nothing more than a physical encounter and that's fine for some. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes.

A

It wasn't an instruction. It's how I approach it. "

And that's fine.

Many won't see it as shallow or vapid though. Just recreational sex.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t look at her personality when I’m ploughing away in her love hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sorry to disagree with so.e people here...but personally here ony gets you no replys at all...most of people here go for looks..not judging but as own experience personality its amazing but here dont worth much. "
dunno it get me pretty far iv clocked fab twice over

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By *iss Kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"I don’t look at her personality when I’m ploughing away in her love hole "

Shallow lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Shagging someone based on looks if they have no personality is a vapid and shallow fuck.

Sex doesn't always have to have meaning though. Sometimes it's nothing more than a physical encounter and that's fine for some. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes.

A

It wasn't an instruction. It's how I approach it.

And that's fine.

Many won't see it as shallow or vapid though. Just recreational sex.

A"

And that's also fine.

I don't do recreational sex because it's vapid and shallow. What others do has no influence on my opinion.

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By *elly200TV/TS
over a year ago

Hythe

I look for........ Well not personality, that comes with time and if you click together x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Personality looks.

Looks by themselves without any form of personality, or worse a horrid personality, does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here it's looks that'll catch your eye. But it's personality that would make me want to meet the person after we've chatted.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Both, preferably at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, preferably at the same time."

At the same time!? Kinky...

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Im sorry to disagree with so.e people here...but personally here ony gets you no replys at all...most of people here go for looks..not judging but as own experience personality its amazing but here dont worth much. "

This smacks of sour grapes to me. I now use the forums - in part - as a filter. The personality of some guys that post regularly on here is very attractive including when they either are outside the age range on my filters and/or I would probably overlook them on appearance alone if they were to message me 'cold'.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Both, preferably at the same time.

At the same time!? Kinky..."

I know, right? Kinky af

I think they call it “threesome” on here or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good personality can often be the thing that makes a person very sexy

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Physical attraction first

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's the looks that bring you in, and it's the personality that keeps you there.

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Exactly this

Mrs

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

If someone can make me laugh, thats the sexiest thing in the world, i melt (not literally). So both physical attraction and personality for sure

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Both

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Looks catch my attention, personality keeps it.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Personality, as it can have an attraction of its own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both I got to like what I see, but personality is what keeps me interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go for looks and personality is not important at all that's why I love Rex

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Looks to start x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Looks

If I don't fancy him into the friendzone he will go

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Good job I have a personality is all I'll say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good job I have a personality is all I'll say "

Since when?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality comes first because if I don't like that I won't bother talking to them long enough to see a picture of them.

If they then turn out to be hideous I'd have to bin them off.....

Sorry not sorry

So to be brutally honest I'd need both options

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By *mightyMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Personality & brings good banter to table

looks not important

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "
me too no point in looking beautiful if you have the personality of a wet fish

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By *iss Kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins me too no point in looking beautiful if you have the personality of a wet fish "

Agree

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

If its purely for something physical, in a club setting, looks. On here the personality will make or break it. But lets be honest, if you werent attracted to them initially then it would be a non starter

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins me too no point in looking beautiful if you have the personality of a wet fish

Agree"
I'm guessing you have a personality

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I wouldn't choose either there has to be attraction at the start and a personality I like to keep me interested enough to actually meet them.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Good job I have a personality is all I'll say

Since when? "

Cheeky Bloody Wench

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By *imnher17Couple
over a year ago

Mirfield

For us -

Mrs - looks

Mr - personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, preferably at the same time.

At the same time!? Kinky...

I know, right? Kinky af

I think they call it “threesome” on here or something like that "

Sometimes people just want too much ya know?!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Both, preferably at the same time.

At the same time!? Kinky...

I know, right? Kinky af

I think they call it “threesome” on here or something like that

Sometimes people just want too much ya know?!"

I know, how rude, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, preferably at the same time.

At the same time!? Kinky...

I know, right? Kinky af

I think they call it “threesome” on here or something like that

Sometimes people just want too much ya know?!

I know, how rude, right? "

Meh

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

They're not really separate though, someone's personality influences how they present themselves.

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Personality for me. You can find beauty in personality

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I would say personality as for me people become more attractive if i like them as a person. If i dont like their personality then i cant be attracted to them, even if i can appreciate that they are a good looking person. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality wins

Every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be the hottest girl but if you've got a shit personality I can't bear talking to you. Which is fine if you're into silent sex.

On the flip side if you look like a frying pan I probably won't feel in the mood

Couldn't have put it better myself!

You don't look like a frying pan by the way..."

Haha, why thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not really separate though, someone's personality influences how they present themselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality for me. You can find beauty in personality"

But can you find bigger tits in a personality?

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"Personality for me. You can find beauty in personality

But can you find bigger tits in a personality?"

Unfortunately, so. Sometimes come across decent looking people who ended up being big tits

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

If it's a hook up personality wouldn't matter too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality for me. You can find beauty in personality

But can you find bigger tits in a personality?

Unfortunately, so. Sometimes come across decent looking people who ended up being big tits "

You’ve just described me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, preferably at the same time.

At the same time!? Kinky...

I know, right? Kinky af

I think they call it “threesome” on here or something like that

Sometimes people just want too much ya know?!

I know, how rude, right? "

Just be grateful you look good though to have them both on your platter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, looks. There's a lot of good lookers but not many with much personality.

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "

Thank god for that, I might still have a chance then!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Well, if I make you laugh, I’m halfway there

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

My personality is sexy as all hell, to be fair. I'd fuck it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both although your looks won’t do anything for me, if your personality doesn’t match

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, looks. There's a lot of good lookers but not many with much personality. "

And then you have some with too much personality

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By *red and Wilma 75Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The better the personality the better the looks !!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I love flicking through profile’s thinking what a lovely personality she has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks 100% but them I'm shallow and superficial as fuck

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Personality. Hands down.

I have only met 2 women on this planet that were as gorgeous on the exterior as their inner personality.....

They may have a smashing slapable? bum.

A cracking pair of pins.

Great fluid walk without hunching their shoulders. Rather than a noisy Liz Truss stomp. Says a lot about a person does their walk. You can gauge a lot!

A sexy inner swagger. Ooo yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love flicking through profile’s thinking what a lovely personality she has "

It's so refreshing to see a man with good values who isn't here just for the tits.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I love flicking through profile’s thinking what a lovely personality she has

It's so refreshing to see a man with good values who isn't here just for the tits."

I’m a new aged man. I type what I think others want to read. The tits just come second to me

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Need both to win me over.

I have neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need both to win me over.

I have neither "

Lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, looks. There's a lot of good lookers but not many with much personality.

And then you have some with too much personality "

And some like you whose big personality is beautifully matched by their big...glasses.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"Need both to win me over.

I have neither

Lies "

No, I need both.

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By *asterAndFuckToyCouple
over a year ago

Newport

personality for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks would be good.. yet I've not met a looker yet

I will shag anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here, looks. There's a lot of good lookers but not many with much personality.

And then you have some with too much personality

And some like you whose big personality is beautifully matched by their big...glasses. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both as well.

But compatibility of personalities is essential. "

This, definitely. Even if I think at first sight I might not...personality and compatibility wins me over

J(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, for sure. Confidence and attitude is what makes someone attractive, to me at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality everytime

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have to find them physically attractive in some way but personality matters. If I ended up meeting some drop dead gorgeous person but their personality was awful then I would walk away.

You can get attracted to someone once you get to know their personality, even if you weren't physically attracted to them initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks are important for attraction but personality is everything. but the world don't work like that. from a man side if your not good looking or have six pack then enjoy being alone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People nowadays are always chasing the next best . Thinking grass is greener.

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "

Both, I don't think you can go for one or the other? They're not a negotiation trade off

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Looks would be good.. yet I've not met a looker yet

I will shag anything "

I’m on my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love flicking through profile’s thinking what a lovely personality she has

It's so refreshing to see a man with good values who isn't here just for the tits.

I’m a new aged man. I type what I think others want to read. The tits just come second to me

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I wish more men were like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People nowadays are always chasing the next best . Thinking grass is greener. "

The grass isn't always greener. Sometimes it's brown.

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By *rying2niteMan
over a year ago

Egremont

For a relationship, personality.......for a quick fuck.....looks

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Personality

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Only both will do

If I'm not attracted then I wouldn't try in the first place and if she has no personality then I wouldn't stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be the hottest girl but if you've got a shit personality I can't bear talking to you. Which is fine if you're into silent sex.

On the flip side if you look like a frying pan I probably won't feel in the mood "

Paper bag

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Personality.

I've had a plethora of the fittest, hottest, sexiest women thrown on my lap but the majority of them couldn't handle a conversation let alone handle a cock.

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#ThisIsAjokeByTheWay

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"People nowadays are always chasing the next best . Thinking grass is greener.

The grass isn't always greener. Sometimes it's brown."

Sometimes it's a Post-It note stuck to some slurry, with the word 'grass' scrawled in crayon.

I still would, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality. Without my glasses I probably cant see what you look like anyway. Its all the talking I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People nowadays are always chasing the next best . Thinking grass is greener.

The grass isn't always greener. Sometimes it's brown.

Sometimes it's a Post-It note stuck to some slurry, with the word 'grass' scrawled in crayon.

I still would, though."

*visualises it*

Yes. I would too.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Personality everytime!

Not all that glitters is Gold

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Personality. Without my glasses I probably cant see what you look like anyway. Its all the talking I need. "

I look amazing.

You do trust me, don’t you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say both you need to be attracted to someone mentally and physically x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality. Without my glasses I probably cant see what you look like anyway. Its all the talking I need.

I look amazing.

You do trust me, don’t you? "

*squints

Of Course

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Personality 100%!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality 100%!!

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I've got a great big personality I'm sure you'd like underneath these tight clothes...

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Personality 100%!!

I've got a great big personality I'm sure you'd like underneath these tight clothes... "

I’m sure plenty of people are all about your body but honestly for me the attraction and chemistry is the personality. You can be the fittest person ever but without the banter to back it up that’s an ick. There’s a reason funny guys can bed hot as fuck women

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By *punky89Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I’m not saying looks is everything, but there has to be an attraction, and everyone is a attracted to different things, so everyone should be a winner really lol

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Personality, but there also needs to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality 100%!!

I've got a great big personality I'm sure you'd like underneath these tight clothes...

I’m sure plenty of people are all about your body but honestly for me the attraction and chemistry is the personality. You can be the fittest person ever but without the banter to back it up that’s an ick. There’s a reason funny guys can bed hot as fuck women"

My body?! Who's talking about my body here?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both really more face for me than body and personality

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, body and hair.

Shallow? You’re dam right!

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Personality can turn a 5 into a 9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "

Agreed , personality is everything

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH


"Im sorry to disagree with so.e people here...but personally here ony gets you no replys at all...most of people here go for looks..not judging but as own experience personality its amazing but here dont worth much. exactly my point...looks not personally...

Of course they do. This is a site about sex and attracts people that like to have sex with multiple partners. Any flirty social media site is based on looks initially."

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Both... But attractive rather than what is considered "good looking" they aren't the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be both. I can’t connect without both. "

I agree with this comment.

even the best looking person can have an off putting personality but you have to have the initial physical attraction to begin with in order to find out if they have a good personality, personality is the more important thing over all though

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Both... But attractive rather than what is considered "good looking" they aren't the same thing! "

One is useless without the other

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

Someone not initially attractive to me can become super sexy if their personality shines

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By *SilentPMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Both, there has to be physical attraction because without that its robotic sex.

If they want robotic sex then the ladies might as well just buy a fucking machine and leave the men to wank while they watch or go down to the pub

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Personally all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

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Of course you can , looks only go so far ,a person's personality keeps you fucking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter how good someone looks if their personality is dead then 9/10 I’m not interested. I mean if the personalities dead then so sure will the sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter how good someone looks if their personality is dead then 9/10 I’m not interested. I mean if the personalities dead then so sure will the sex??"

Not necessarily. Some people are arrogant and borderline rude but then act like animals in the bedroom. I've definitely slept with women I haven't 'liked' before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People nowadays are always chasing the next best . Thinking grass is greener.

The grass isn't always greener. Sometimes it's brown.

Sometimes it's a Post-It note stuck to some slurry, with the word 'grass' scrawled in crayon.

I still would, though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

Of course you can , looks only go so far ,a person's personality keeps you fucking ."

If I'm not attracted to their looks I won't fuck them.

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

The energy

50/50 of both = a good go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

Of course you can , looks only go so far ,a person's personality keeps you fucking .

If I'm not attracted to their looks I won't fuck them. "

How COLD

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks attract you but personally wins overall

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

IMO attraction begins based on physicality but can only be sustained with personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially it’s looks, and over time you get the idea of you were right to think that they are the sexy person you hoped they’d be.

But now and again a person completely seduces you with their personality, and they consume most of you attention. They’re the ones that when you venture into ‘The sexy sex’ together, it’s like a bomb going off.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I personally go for the ones with the nicest tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality can turn a 5 into a 9"

As shallow as a grading system is. … I understand what this is saying.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "

Get real it's a hook up site Personality for most has little to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were looking for long term, personality tops it. The physical attraction can develop from this.

On here though, I have to find something about their appearance hot first but I wouldn't take it further if they're unpleasant when we chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins "

Many only want to see what their eyes lay on.

Many dont have time for personality, nor go beyond the Book cover so to speak.

All the new age trend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins

for many on here it will be aesthetics same as on dating sites "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the looks that bring you in, and it's the personality that keeps you there.

"

Spot on 110%.

Funnt howany do get it all wrong though. Assumptions! Lol

Demand lists are long and lengthy.

Far and few between.

Confess the value they actually bring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks. Can't fuck a personality.

"

Fuck a dummy.

Its the personality and mindset that carrys that body,unit and looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality every time"

Time shows all, esp the true colours of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be the hottest girl but if you've got a shit personality I can't bear talking to you. Which is fine if you're into silent sex.

On the flip side if you look like a frying pan I probably won't feel in the mood "

Sod's law heh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins

Many only want to see what their eyes lay on.

Many dont have time for personality, nor go beyond the Book cover so to speak.

All the new age trend. "

You have a poor opinion of people.

We all judge a book by it's cover, it's what keeps us safe. I make instant decisions about people all the time based on what they look like. If I'm walking alone on a dark evening and a figure approaches me in dark clothing with their face covered I'm not sticking around to find out if they're a nice person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sorry to disagree with so.e people here...but personally here ony gets you no replys at all...most of people here go for looks..not judging but as own experience personality its amazing but here dont worth much. "

A very tiny small window. If one fits what they like,want demand then its all go go.

Stats show = the ratio is very low for success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good looking personality I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality.

I've had a plethora of the fittest, hottest, sexiest women thrown on my lap but the majority of them couldn't handle a conversation let alone handle a cock.

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#ThisIsAjokeByTheWay"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why is it always good looking people who are deemed to have poor personalities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you go for. Obviously I would like both but personality wins

Many only want to see what their eyes lay on.

Many dont have time for personality, nor go beyond the Book cover so to speak.

All the new age trend.

You have a poor opinion of people.

We all judge a book by it's cover, it's what keeps us safe. I make instant decisions about people all the time based on what they look like. If I'm walking alone on a dark evening and a figure approaches me in dark clothing with their face covered I'm not sticking around to find out if they're a nice person."

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