FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Your meet truns up with very dirty hands he clothes needing washing you could tell he finger nails had some kind of fungal infection he has bad breath bad teeth and you could tell he he not brushed them in years and wants to have sex with you

Yes I had a meet once who truned up to meet me like this

No I did not have sex with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d probably think about how it got that far.

I presume in his photos he was completely different?

Then how did his verifications look / did he have any?

Who knows what he was going through. It doesn’t sound too good sadly if he was in that state

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social only first.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

This is why I have socials first.

Pretty sure you can tell from pics if someone looks a bit grubby or has bad teeth though.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I've got a very delicate sense of smell. I would be physically sick if I tried to have sex with someone like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would just politely say not for me and make excuses and leave

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

"This is why I have socials first.

Pretty sure you can tell from pics if someone looks a bit grubby or has bad teeth though."
I looked at his photos they made him look better then he was you cant go of photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say who the fuck are you and why the fuck are you a scruffy hobo bloke and not that uberbabe i been sending cock pics to

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

You shag them, obviously. If not you're a timewaster!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I allways have social first! As have to b attraction in person and if he turned up not to my liking I would stay for the coffee to b polite but not arrange further meet x

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"Your meet truns up with very dirty hands he clothes needing washing you could tell he finger nails had some kind of fungal infection he has bad breath bad teeth and you could tell he he not brushed them in years and wants to have sex with you

Yes I had a meet once who truned up to meet me like this

No I did not have sex with him"

Imagine how he presents himself when he’s NOT meeting a woman

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Like others have said ,this is why socials are good .

If they've lied about pics,it's a no pressure environment and you can walk away .I never know if I'm really attracted to someone till I see them Ftf .

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Always have a social

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Social first here, I’d decline another meet if offered one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a tent and I'm cleaner than most people! You wouldn't think I lived in a tent anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes I had a meet once who truned up to meet me like this

No I did not have sex with him"

I would decline

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Always s social first

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd be concerned about them, wonder if everything was ok in general. Maybe go for a meal and hopefully gather further information.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I'd be concerned about them, wonder if everything was ok in general. Maybe go for a meal and hopefully gather further information."

If this is a serious response then you are a truly lovely human.

Me - sorry but you wouldn't see me for dust

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I'd be concerned about them, wonder if everything was ok in general. Maybe go for a meal and hopefully gather further information.

If this is a serious response then you are a truly lovely human.

Me - sorry but you wouldn't see me for dust"

Awe thank you, but for a person to get too this level obviously something can't be right. People develope mental health problems but still struggle and still want the finer things in life.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes I had a meet once who truned up to meet me like this

No I did not have sex with him"
shoot him put him out of his misery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first instinct would be concern, there's always an underlying reason why someone isn't looking after theirselves. I'd try to be a decent human being in that moment.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Look, I'd had a rough day.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

should of got the jet wash on him,,

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It might be hard to spend too much time with them, never mind having sex. I'd be concerned, as they don't sound in a good way. I'd probably make my excuses, wishing them well and depart. I'd expect to learn from it, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

We've all been there. I once had a social with a woman who looked absolutely nothing like her (presumably very old) photo. She seemed disproportionately offended when I bought her a coffee, sat and chatted for half an hour, dropped her off at her home (because it was raining and I'm a gentleman), then left with a polite "thank-you-but-no" and my trousers intact.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

This is why we have a social first, you can only get a certain sense of someone by message and pictures, but we need a good face to face before we agree to anything.

The mr

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

See lots of dirty fingernails on here, thankfully that's a good filter

- Xeno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d probably wonder why a man has turned up when I’m straight.

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