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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!"

I’m not impressed. My personal opinion , anyone who needs to go on a course, really isn’t safe to be doing this.

Common sense. Effective non verbal Communication and interpersonal skills, not being a twat. You can’t teach that

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!

I’m not impressed. My personal opinion , anyone who needs to go on a course, really isn’t safe to be doing this.

Common sense. Effective non verbal Communication and interpersonal skills, not being a twat. You can’t teach that "

I would say being willing to learn where safe impact areas are, code of conduct and Consent, are a 1000 times better than wally with a belt, same as with rope play, serious accidents can and do happen. This is why I attend a monthly rope munch, safe play is of utmost importance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!

I’m not impressed. My personal opinion , anyone who needs to go on a course, really isn’t safe to be doing this.

Common sense. Effective non verbal Communication and interpersonal skills, not being a twat. You can’t teach that "

I'd rather play with someone who is invested in self improvement to be a safe partner than someone who just does it.

There are areas not safe to hit, things not suitable to hit with, combining ties and impact can cause problems etc.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Happy thumping ? This isn't my idea of impact play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy thumping ? This isn't my idea of impact play"

Thump&Hump does have a certain ring to it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!

I’m not impressed. My personal opinion , anyone who needs to go on a course, really isn’t safe to be doing this.

Common sense. Effective non verbal Communication and interpersonal skills, not being a twat. You can’t teach that "

They'll need to start a course for common sense soon.

Countless times I've had to warn people about being mindful of where the organs are located. Some People think the back is fair game to be "whack happy" and don't consider the kidneys for example. Kudos to all those willing to learn and those prepared to teach.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"Happy thumping ? This isn't my idea of impact play"

This was, I thought, a humorous play on "humping" (as MrsDreavus noticed) and not a direction in regard to play. I shall curb attempts at humour in the future.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!

I’m not impressed. My personal opinion , anyone who needs to go on a course, really isn’t safe to be doing this.

Common sense. Effective non verbal Communication and interpersonal skills, not being a twat. You can’t teach that "

You can learn to do it safely, areas to avoid, aftercare and the like.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"Off the back of a kink thread some months ago, just a message for those wanting to learn impact play and can get to Croydon. There is a workshop on the 27th November. If you are on the site that cannot be mentioned you can look for it there. Site regulations prevent me giving more info

Happy thumping!

I’m not impressed. My personal opinion , anyone who needs to go on a course, really isn’t safe to be doing this.

Common sense. Effective non verbal Communication and interpersonal skills, not being a twat. You can’t teach that "

You are of course entitled to your opinion.

An alternative view is that people into BDSM should do the research and learning before doing anything to another person. That is not only in regard to impact but the whole spectrum of interacting. There is importantly the safety aspect for people who are new. A workshop allows for an introduction to a range of instruments and how to use them safely in a non judgemental and safe environment.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

For all those who want to be high flyers in the world of impact play....I always find the best way to start is at the bottom.

Badum tisch.....

A

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"For all those who want to be high flyers in the world of impact play....I always find the best way to start is at the bottom.

Badum tisch.....

A"

Please report to the headmaster's office!

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

The most basic rule is to always remember that there is a nervous system attached to whatever you are hitting.

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