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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it strange that someone sends messages asking to meet, you reply, things are going well, you arrange to meet (next week) and that's it no more messages, he comes on line, let's see what happens next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s broom you off

Your not a “top priority” in his made as your next week

Would say he’s already shown the hump and ghost

Just missed the hump

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Many talk the talk but don't walk the walk unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or changed their minds?

Pretty sure that's allowed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was on his way to the north shore to pick a pineapple with his dad and he was in a car accident and has been left with anterograde amnesia and can’t recall anything from his short term memory.

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By *erts19Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"I find it strange that someone sends messages asking to meet, you reply, things are going well, you arrange to meet (next week) and that's it no more messages, he comes on line, let's see what happens next week "

Whenever this kind of thing happens, I like to think that the person has been chased away by 1000 mouse sized mountain lions. They can’t reply because they are too busy and I shouldn’t hold out hope that they’ll survive so should move on

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"Many talk the talk but don't walk the walk unfortunately. "

This seems to be the case. I don't understand why people do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or changed their minds?

Pretty sure that's allowed too."

^^ This as I did it once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry i had a wank

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Or perhaps because you have arranged a date he doesn’t want to bombard you with messages between now and then?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"^^ This as I did it once "

You’ve only changed your mind once? Are you SURE you’re a woman?

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

Currently waiting outside a village for a pre arranged meet. All of a sudden, no sign of him online, just wasted an afternoon.

Some suck you into believing they are going to turn up, I should have been wise to this one.

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By *erts19Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


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Some suck you into believing they are going to turn up, "

… and others turn up and suck you?

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury


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Some suck you into believing they are going to turn up,

… and others turn up and suck you?"

That's always nice

Well, time to take heels off, go home and have a cuppa

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

One of my pet peeves this. In some cases I think that the guy believes that he has a meet in the bag if he wants it. He is then either: 1. Looking to see if something better comes along and you become his contingency plan or 2. He is preoccupied with setting up future meets because the one with you is now banked and no more effort is required. In both cases with me they usually pop up at the 11.5 th hour and expect to meet. They can fuck right off. If a guy can't communicate and show me respect then he isn't worthy of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or changed their minds?

Pretty sure that's allowed too.

^^ This as I did it once "

And why not?

If it fell through, block and move on.

It's barely worth thinking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most surprising thing about this is that he sent you a message and you replied.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe he didn't want to seem pushy ,so will get in touch in a few days to check it's all still one etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that someone sends messages asking to meet, you reply, things are going well, you arrange to meet (next week) and that's it no more messages, he comes on line, let's see what happens next week "

Their loss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or perhaps because you have arranged a date he doesn’t want to bombard you with messages between now and then?"

I'm hoping that's the case, we have met for a social, so maybe you're right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of my pet peeves this. In some cases I think that the guy believes that he has a meet in the bag if he wants it. He is then either: 1. Looking to see if something better comes along and you become his contingency plan or 2. He is preoccupied with setting up future meets because the one with you is now banked and no more effort is required. In both cases with me they usually pop up at the 11.5 th hour and expect to meet. They can fuck right off. If a guy can't communicate and show me respect then he isn't worthy of my time."

Like you, I would expect a message or 2 before we meet

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think that people can have mismatched expectations on communication before and after. Maybe he just wants to let things build? Maybe he's unable to type more letters than b, a and f so is stuck.

Why not send him the message and go from there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my pet peeves this. In some cases I think that the guy believes that he has a meet in the bag if he wants it. He is then either: 1. Looking to see if something better comes along and you become his contingency plan or 2. He is preoccupied with setting up future meets because the one with you is now banked and no more effort is required. In both cases with me they usually pop up at the 11.5 th hour and expect to meet. They can fuck right off. If a guy can't communicate and show me respect then he isn't worthy of my time."

I can’t believe anyone would do that to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad really but it's fab ,the amount of Timewasters here is unreal , some people never have any intention of meeting , they just want the attention that messaging can bring .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^ This as I did it once

You’ve only changed your mind once? Are you SURE you’re a woman?"

Haha yeah only done it once as was chatting on here for weeks, took he’s number but the constant messaging put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it strange that someone sends messages asking to meet, you reply, things are going well, you arrange to meet (next week) and that's it no more messages, he comes on line, let's see what happens next week "

Just send him a friendly message, he might not be messaging you because he thinks yous are meeting next week so he might be waiting till closer to the time.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)


"Or perhaps because you have arranged a date he doesn’t want to bombard you with messages between now and then?

I'm hoping that's the case, we have met for a social, so maybe you're right "

Probably this. As the saying goes, ‘when she says yes, stop asking’

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Many talk the talk but don't walk the walk unfortunately. "

Totally agree.

It's probably about 75% don't meet.

Lots are upfront and only use the site to browse the forums and chat. Bit like a Facebook page where you can flash your bits.

I have no problem with the chatters, ranters, conspiracy theorists and nutters but do have a problem with those that say they want to meet but don't, they also tend to be multiple offenders too.

That's why socials, clubs, parties and holidays are so much better.

Good luck.

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