FabSwingers.com forum: What’s it like to be a single woman on fab ?

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I hear there are no downsides, it's just an endless stream of lovely messages and meets with guys who show up, look exactly as they described, and are considerate of their needs in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I know this one.

Best bits - Lots of messages.

Not so good bits - men.

What could be better - men.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?"

All the cocks in my inbox.

Not enough cocks in my inbox.

More cocks in my inbox

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?"

I can block idiots

Can still see their posts on the forums

Not being able to still see them!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

All the cocks in my inbox.

Not enough cocks in my inbox.

More cocks in my inbox

Be careful what you wish for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always someone to chat with regardless of the time.

Most of those I'd meet at the drop of a hat are miles away.

I think folk should chill a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bits ?

The forums. I’ve met two guys and they were both nice.

Not so good bits ?

Men who can’t read my profile. Men who send me disgusting messages about what they want to do to me. Men who send me outright *abuse* because of what I’m looking for/my gender identity.

What could be better ?

More male couples (actual couples not two straight friends). The very few male couples actually replying to my messages, and not deleting my messages when I send a pic

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Always someone to chat with regardless of the time.

Most of those I'd meet at the drop of a hat are miles away.

I think folk should chill a bit more. "

This is true. Always someone to chat to if I am extremely bored (doesn’t happen often but it happens!)

The attention is always flattering

I enjoy my time on Fab. I certainly would not be here if I didn’t!

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

All the cocks in my inbox.

Not enough cocks in my inbox.

More cocks in my inbox

Be careful what you wish for!!"

Wishing?

More like praying and begging

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

All the cocks in my inbox.

Not enough cocks in my inbox.

More cocks in my inbox

Be careful what you wish for!!

Wishing?

More like praying and begging

If you insist !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an ego boost! Told I’m stunning with a perfect body a few times every minute. I know it’s fibs to get my attention but it’s better than being called a fat old boot lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Horrendous I imagine.

The mr

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?"

Best bits - I've made some wonderful friends on here, and had some fabulously filthy fun times. Oh also I'd never have discovered Chameleons if not for this site, and I bloody love it there!

Not so good bits - I love cock, and yet I've seen so many of them on here (mostly in my inbox, specifically not asked for) that I actually feel a little turn of revulsion in my stomach when I see another one

What could be better - a settings option where you can have any pic with genitals (remember you choose the radio button when uploading to say what this is, plus someone checks it before approval, so it's easy to flag which ones this applies to), auto covered up/pixelated/whatever with a "view picture" button on it to reveal it. That way the people that want to see everyone's junk can just leave that setting off and carry on as they are now, and people like me can turn it on and navigate this site/their inbox without wanting to regurgitate their breakfast.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Always someone to chat with regardless of the time.

Most of those I'd meet at the drop of a hat are miles away.

I think folk should chill a bit more. "

Definitely agree with your last point

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Best bits - Dick

Not so good bits - Dick

What could be better - Dick

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By *aby.girlWoman
over a year ago

St albans

Best bits- plenty of sexy men and women

Not so good - all the idiots with the one liner fancy a fu@k

Could be better- more sexy people in my area

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits- plenty of sexy men and women

Not so good - all the idiots with the one liner fancy a fu@k

Could be better- more sexy people in my area

I’ll have to move to St Albans !!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always someone to chat with regardless of the time.

Most of those I'd meet at the drop of a hat are miles away.

I think folk should chill a bit more.

Definitely agree with your last point

Well with a name like yours, I'd expect no less

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?"

Best bits - the forums can be very entertaining at any hour of the day or night if you’re bored. I have also received some genuinely lovely messages from people.

Not so good bits - The endless amount of dick pics and some of the vile pictures and messages received.

What could be better - I wish there was more messaging filters available. It would also be great if there was an option to blur explicit pics sent to your inbox so you can choose whether to view them or not.

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By *aby.girlWoman
over a year ago

St albans

"Best bits- plenty of sexy men and women

Not so good - all the idiots with the one liner fancy a fu@k

Could be better- more sexy people in my area

I’ll have to move to St Albans !!! Xx"

I actually used to live near brum before moving here

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Worst bits - I don't want cock 24/7 but guys assume you do when clearing messages at 4am

Could be better - easy to repeat 'men'. Wish there was a min threshold of info that everyone has to provide on their profile along with a training module in etiquette and behaviour that everyone has to pass

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits- plenty of sexy men and women

Not so good - all the idiots with the one liner fancy a fu@k

Could be better- more sexy people in my area

I’ll have to move to St Albans !!! Xx

The one that got away!! Shame I’m outside your age range to message!! Xxxx

I actually used to live near brum before moving here"

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Worst bits - I don't want cock 24/7 but guys assume you do when clearing messages at 4am

That would cut out a lot of rubbish!! Hopefully I’d still get through!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

Best bits - I've made some wonderful friends on here, and had some fabulously filthy fun times. Oh also I'd never have discovered Chameleons if not for this site, and I bloody love it there!

Good idea! Put this in the suggestions forum!

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

It’s great, and it’s not me being sarcastic, I’m being actually serious this time.

The only thing I would change is the way I self inflict a lots of limitations on myself, they need to go (and they will).

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s great, and it’s not me being sarcastic, I’m being actually serious this time.

The only thing I would change is the way I self inflict a lots of limitations on myself, they need to go (and they will)."

Glad you are enjoying it!! Great pics by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are days when I feel here is great fun,Then boom a few nasty messages can make you feel like crap or that I don't belong here. Thankfully overall my experiences here are good.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"There are days when I feel here is great fun,Then boom a few nasty messages can make you feel like crap or that I don't belong here. Thankfully overall my experiences here are good."

Easy to say but ignore the nasty messages xx

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"It’s great, and it’s not me being sarcastic, I’m being actually serious this time.

The only thing I would change is the way I self inflict a lots of limitations on myself, they need to go (and they will).

Glad you are enjoying it!! Great pics by the way x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are days when I feel here is great fun,Then boom a few nasty messages can make you feel like crap or that I don't belong here. Thankfully overall my experiences here are good.

Easy to say but ignore the nasty messages xx "

I do try x

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By *iss Boot LoverTV/TS
over a year ago

tetbury

Not what you asked for, far from it but I have so so much respect for the women on here.

The messages someone like me gets are unbelievable and make me worry about some men. However, occasionally you get a nice message and I am sure the women do as well.

To all the women on here, thank you for putting up with everything on here and for sharing your stories, pictures, bodies and minds, it would be awful here without you.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I can honestly say! There are very few bad bits just a few men spitting their dummy out now and again! On the whole women get it easy going here x

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Best answer yet

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

It must be difficult to trust that you are meeting a genuine, nice person. And safety I suppose.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Worst bits - I don't want cock 24/7 but guys assume you do when clearing messages at 4am

That would cut out a lot of rubbish!! Hopefully I’d still get through!!!"

I'm delighted to inform you that you have met the preliminary requirements. You may proceed but remember - with Fab membership comes great responsibility. Use it wisely. Don't let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Pete

^This

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Best answer yet

Why thank you

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Pete

^This"

Looool

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

The forums

More single women who like kinky older men.

Getting stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the big dipper! Plenty of ups and downs

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s like logging into a porn site but with friendlier less sexually aggressive messages but with the same quantity of cocks to perve.

Win/win basically!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

All the cocks in my inbox.

Not enough cocks in my inbox.

More cocks in my inbox

Can't help wondering if you'd like my cock in your box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always someone to chat to

Quit with the random cock pics in my inbox

More localish guys who are looking for a fwb

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

When you're running low there's only one place to go

Cuz I get what I want when I want it

A phat cock and I get to sit on it

Big-dongs, Swingin' those great big dongs

Just Meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Worst bits - I don't want cock 24/7 but guys assume you do when clearing messages at 4am

Wish I qualified

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

Worst bits - I don't want cock 24/7 but guys assume you do when clearing messages at 4am

That would cut out a lot of rubbish!! Hopefully I’d still get through!!!

I'm delighted to inform you that you have met the preliminary requirements. You may proceed but remember - with Fab membership comes great responsibility. Use it wisely. Don't let me down"

Apparently I’m too old to message!! Maybe you could appear in my inbox xx I’d be most grateful!!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It's like the big dipper! Plenty of ups and downs

That would be some ride with you xx

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

When you're running low there's only one place to go

Cuz I get what I want when I want it

A phat cock and I get to sit on it

Big-dongs, Swingin' those great big dongs

Just Meat

OMG this is absolute genius. I bloody love it. I'm going to be channeling my inner Katy Perry and singing this all evening. You Sir are a legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say iv ever wondered

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Best bits - fabulous array of cock on tap 24/7 like Just Eat

When you're running low there's only one place to go

Cuz I get what I want when I want it

A phat cock and I get to sit on it

Big-dongs, Swingin' those great big dongs

Just Meat

OMG this is absolute genius. I bloody love it. I'm going to be channeling my inner Katy Perry and singing this all evening. You Sir are a legend "

Well that's perked up my day

Glad I could be of service

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

Best bits is all the variety of naughty fellas who wanna flatter me outta my knickers

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Chatting to and meeting some amazing people would be the best bits.

Worst bits chatting to and sometimes meeting some people who aren't so great.

Things that could be improved less of the goddamn stupid drama that goes on behind the scenes by some people.

Apart from that it's just fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?"

Best: I just have to tick 'Men' to get a massive ego boosted pissy yellow inbox.

Not so good: The buffet is cold.

Could be better: pixelated genital pics.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Best bits is all the variety of naughty fellas who wanna flatter me outta my knickers

I think I’ll be joining them !!

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Yorks/Lincs

"Best bits ?

Not so good bits ?

What could be better ?

I can block idiots

Can still see their posts on the forums

Not being able to still see them!

"Idiots " can be of either sex , blocking works both ways

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Best bits ? It changed my life by offering the possibility of me meeting like minded people

Not so good bits ? Whilst there is that possibility of meeting like minded people, those people very rarely wish to meet me.

What could be better ? People's attitudes, there seems to be a lot of angry folk on Fab, it would be great if they were able to be a bit more relaxed about the whole thing; after all swinging is supposed to be fun.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Finding amazing connections using strict filters so that I message first

Entitled men wanting instant gratification sex chats

Would love some more forum emojis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the little ball in hungry hippos.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Like the little ball in hungry hippos."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like the little ball in hungry hippos.

OK that was good

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