FabSwingers.com forum: Who likes married

By *inkyguyUK OP Man
over a year ago

worcester

I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is wrong so no I don’t

It’s not nice

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Most on here don’t like cheaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me thanks

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Dude, expect all the do gooders to post very shortly. Get your tin hat ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Liars = zero horn

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"

Think you have commitment issues wanting to play with somebody who will leave you anyway..

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We’ve turned down a number of men who’s OH either doesn’t know they’re stepping out or they say the OH knows and they have permission we say no to them as well as that’s definitely not our thing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m separated, so still technically married. Some have found it a turn on

Not so much for me, it doesn’t bother me if someone is separated but I don’t like cheaters

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By *lasVe4asWoman
over a year ago

The East End

Cheaters don’t do it for me, it’s a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m separated, so still technically married. Some have found it a turn on

Not so much for me, it doesn’t bother me if someone is separated but I don’t like cheaters "

I think separated is different to fucking behind someone back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off. The feeling of being cheated on and lied to is not something I'll forget in a hurry, I'd hate to be the cause of someone else's pain by helping their partner cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t listen to them, everybody loves a cheating husband.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope I find it the opposite ,totally turns me off.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Cheating is wrong so no I don’t

It’s not nice "

Exactly this

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nope cheating hurts! Wouldnt want to play a part in that betrayel! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m separated, so still technically married. Some have found it a turn on

Not so much for me, it doesn’t bother me if someone is separated but I don’t like cheaters "

Some still think your married if you tell them your not yet divorced….

I do like the idea of a hot wife though. There’s something sexy about being part of someone’s fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"

I couldnt care less what anyones relationship status is. We each have our own reasons for doing what we do. Some say its a turn on others dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Married people can have their reasons for looking elsewhere for sex and I've came to understand these over time and, in some cases, are sympathetic.

But I think it's pretty fucked up to specifically get off on fucking a married person.

I find this especially unattractive in women.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Married men are easier to deal with as you know the expectations from the start, however if it becomes a continuous thing it is hard not to get feelings involved.

I'd never want to break up anyone's family & wouldn't commit to someone who is cheating.

I do admit it does have an attraction as it is very passionate & lustful.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

I'm OK with married providing tne hubby is aware. Not into cheaters

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Married..... Yes.

Cheating.... No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is supposed to be about trust and respect with your partner…

My point of view is if a guy or woman cant respect their own partner why would they respect another ?

That’s a big gtf for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, doesn't really turn me on. But if I like them it wouldn't put me off unless I knew their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most folk don't say anyways,and as I'm not looking to date someone I'm not going to insist they jump through hoops to prove their singledom either really. Whatever is going on with someone I'm seeking consensual fun with is their own business not mine (I do have a sexual health testing chat though).

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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Swinging is supposed to be about trust and respect with your partner…

My point of view is if a guy or woman cant respect their own partner why would they respect another ?

That’s a big gtf for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks….. instant turn off !

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By *ateshugsMan
over a year ago

Isle of Man, (Crosby ish)

As an MM who is here with a wife who consents, all the a-holes who are here without, have tainted anyone who is legitimate, having any chances of connecting with a lot of people.

Annoying, when it comes down to folk not believing what I say when liars have said the same, but that is the way it is.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Turn off. The feeling of being cheated on and lied to is not something I'll forget in a hurry, I'd hate to be the cause of someone else's pain by helping their partner cheat. "

As above

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"Most on here don’t like cheaters"

Mainly because they run so fast and have wicked teeth and claws.

Oh, those cheetahs. . .

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

"Most on here don’t like cheaters

Mainly because they run so fast and have wicked teeth and claws.

Oh, those cheetahs. . . "

But they ARE the fastest animal on Earth, so at least 'em credit for that!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Most on here don’t like cheaters

Mainly because they run so fast and have wicked teeth and claws.

Oh, those cheetahs. . .

But they ARE the fastest animal on Earth, so at least 'em credit for that!

They make damn tasty crisps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After going through this myself, meeting someone who is outright cheating is definitely not a turn on for me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look through new joiners and see lots of women here admitting being attached without partner knowing.

Probably more who don't admit it.

I'm up front about it,if you don't like it, it's fine with me.

I'm too old to give a shit what others think.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

More of a turn off, I’ve been on the receiving end of a cheat. Not a nice experience, I wouldn’t want to be the one who breaks a man.

The mr

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I find more issue with people who don't understand polyamorous relationships and are quick to judge. Lots of gatekeeping here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"

Each to their own but it's not for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dude, expect all the do gooders to post very shortly. Get your tin hat ready. "

Posters are only giving their opinion, do gooders or do badders have nothing to do with it , they're only giving their opinion to a question asked .

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"

You do

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

People puffing their little chests up & feeling morally superior, good effort from the OP.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Dude, expect all the do gooders to post very shortly. Get your tin hat ready.

Posters are only giving their opinion, do gooders or do badders have nothing to do with it , they're only giving their opinion to a question asked ."

Exactly! X

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I don't judge, having said that is it a turn on - not specifically it's the person I'm interested in not their circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been a few guys that have happened to be attached and straight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off for me personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People puffing their little chests up & feeling morally superior, good effort from the OP. "

Oh come on!! People can only answer the question from a moral standing point. It’s just yours or their opinion to wether it is a superior view or not.

This question will always be brought up almost daily, and I don’t think peoples moral views will change. Or do they?…

I dunno.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I’m always upfront with my status and yes I don’t get meets but it’s all fun with the banter in the forums

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

"People puffing their little chests up & feeling morally superior, good effort from the OP.

Oh come on!! People can only answer the question from a moral standing point. It’s just yours or their opinion to wether it is a superior view or not.

This question will always be brought up almost daily, and I don’t think peoples moral views will change. Or do they?…

I dunno."

Yes or no then surely?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"Dude, expect all the do gooders to post very shortly. Get your tin hat ready. "

You're not a 'do gooder' just because you don't agree with it. Or have an opinion on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really for us but each to their own x

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Not really for us but each to their own x"

Respectfully said

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

As people who have both been on a receiving end of cheating - huge turn off. I still have ptsd from what I went through emotionally.

Cheating isn't horny or sexy - its fuckig gross.

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks cheating is not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Cheating destroys people and I want no part in it.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Nope, I'll pass

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would never facilitate in helping a man cheat on his wife. Why a woman could do that do another woman is beyond me x

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

It's a no from us, you take us both, or neither. Also wouldn't meet one half of a couple, with or without the other half of the couples permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still feel bad for cheating on a geography test in year 5.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Cheating for me is a big no no ..

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

So you’re not interested in who they are as a person? It’s just their relationship status that you find attractive? That’s major objectification

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We have a huge level of trust in our relationship and don’t entertain inviting someone to be a part of it that cheats

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"So you’re not interested in who they are as a person? It’s just their relationship status that you find attractive? That’s major objectification "

If they're a cheater - frankly to us it doesn't matter who they are as a person as they are a liar first and foremost.

We do care about what non lying and cheating people's personalities are though and are very much interested into getting to know them.

I'm sure 99% of all swingers do not have sex with someone for their relationship status or type of genitals alone - there needs to be some minimal mental attraction at the very least.

I'm sure many keys in a bowl, shag everything that has a hole people would disagree by crying out "but this is a seeeexxxxx siiiiteee"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure many keys in a bowl, shag everything that has a hole people would disagree by crying out "but this is a seeeexxxxx siiiiteee"

That "this is a sex site" thing is their perception of it that fits what they want out of the site.

Many who get involved in swinger lifestyle actually want more than sex out of it.

Even if it was purely just a 'sex site' it still doesn't give people remit to try and find sex by being dishonest not only too their partners but also to others they try to engage with.

There are websites specifically set up for that if that's what beeps your jeeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love playing with married ladies, providing hubby is aware and OK with it.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Not nice. And really easy to not do.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Swinging is supposed to be about trust and respect with your partner…

My point of view is if a guy or woman cant respect their own partner why would they respect another ?

That’s a big gtf for us

sadly all so called respect for their partner goes out the window the minute they decide cheat

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moral Police will be all over this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Moral Police will be all over this

Too late, already attended and found anyone cheating guilty and banished to the colonies overseas.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"

Alice does. Most of her meets are via Ashley Madison.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"

It is not cheating if her husband is watching or/and joining

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Moral Police will be all over this

Too late, already attended and found anyone cheating guilty and banished to the colonies overseas. "

As close as that? I am surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure many keys in a bowl, shag everything that has a hole people would disagree by crying out "but this is a seeeexxxxx siiiiteee"

That "this is a sex site" thing is their perception of it that fits what they want out of the site.

Many who get involved in swinger lifestyle actually want more than sex out of it.

Even if it was purely just a 'sex site' it still doesn't give people remit to try and find sex by being dishonest not only too their partners but also to others they try to engage with.

There are websites specifically set up for that if that's what beeps your jeeps.

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

People talking like cheating isn't commonplace on fab, maybe not like the men but yes even plenty of women doing so.

The forums aren't a good guage of the full picture, as the majority of fab users don't post on them and aren't here to make friends or exchange pleasantries. However there will be people also in complete denial and have seen this happen here too

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