FabSwingers.com forum: Hotels becoming cock-blocks / awkward hotel experiences

By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

More and more hotels seem to be putting enhanced security in place e.g needing to swipe room key to access lifts or external doors. There’s probably good reason for it safety wise but it’s becoming harder and harder to find hotels where visitors can just come straight to room from outside.

I wonder if it’s also to stop as much shenanigans going on haha. Do hotel staff take it as a given people are going to shag in rooms or is if frowned upon? I’d feel awkward asking the hotel to call up to the room if it was me.

What’s the most awkward hotel experience you’ve had?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Hotel staff don't care what you do in the room as long as it's legal, consensual and you don't leave a mess or make a noise.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Never had an awkward experience in an hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself

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By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though.

"I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself "

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I feel much safer knowing it's all key card access. I just stayed in London, on my own. I wouldn't feel great knowing anyone can walk in and access floors etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had issues when it’s men on desk. Might slip em a fiver or let them watch if this happens again

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I felt most awkward walking out of a hotel room after meeting my long term partner there.

It was a quicky as he'd been working a lot and had to get over the other side of London afterwards.

Booking in was fine, as he left instructions at reception to let me up.

He left about 10 minutes before me and the two girls on reception had a look of WTF on their faces as I dropped my key card off.

This was because I was a 56 yr old, fat woman in jeans and comfy shoes, and he was a tall, fit, handsome 40 year old in an expensive suit.

I felt their eyes burning into my back as I walked out

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though.

I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself "

If you're with them you will have the card. I think they might raise an eyebrow if you invite twenty people though

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself "

Or book in with them.

I've done that many times.

Most staff don't bat an eyelid even though I'm usually much older than the man I'm with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I felt most awkward walking out of a hotel room after meeting my long term partner there.

It was a quicky as he'd been working a lot and had to get over the other side of London afterwards.

Booking in was fine, as he left instructions at reception to let me up.

He left about 10 minutes before me and the two girls on reception had a look of WTF on their faces as I dropped my key card off.

This was because I was a 56 yr old, fat woman in jeans and comfy shoes, and he was a tall, fit, handsome 40 year old in an expensive suit.

I felt their eyes burning into my back as I walked out

Respect!

It gave them something to talk about

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I felt most awkward walking out of a hotel room after meeting my long term partner there.

It was a quicky as he'd been working a lot and had to get over the other side of London afterwards.

Booking in was fine, as he left instructions at reception to let me up.

He left about 10 minutes before me and the two girls on reception had a look of WTF on their faces as I dropped my key card off.

This was because I was a 56 yr old, fat woman in jeans and comfy shoes, and he was a tall, fit, handsome 40 year old in an expensive suit.

I felt their eyes burning into my back as I walked out

Respect!

It gave them something to talk about

I bet they did too. I look like his mother lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had a problem, but then I meet in the lounge before going up

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I felt most awkward walking out of a hotel room after meeting my long term partner there.

It was a quicky as he'd been working a lot and had to get over the other side of London afterwards.

Booking in was fine, as he left instructions at reception to let me up.

He left about 10 minutes before me and the two girls on reception had a look of WTF on their faces as I dropped my key card off.

This was because I was a 56 yr old, fat woman in jeans and comfy shoes, and he was a tall, fit, handsome 40 year old in an expensive suit.

I felt their eyes burning into my back as I walked out

Respect!

It gave them something to talk about

I bet they did too. I look like his mother lol "

None so judgemental as the young towards the older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though.

I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself "

If that’s the case I just either lead the way and let them follow behind and then just swipe and then all get in the lift…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s so guys can’t arrange blokes from here to come and fuck their wives without them knowing.

I had to wait for him to drop a key card out of the window.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It’s so guys can’t arrange blokes from here to come and fuck their wives without them knowing.

I had to wait for him to drop a key card out of the window. "

Flaming hotels! They ruin everything

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

its more as a security and stop other things from happening.

As customers you would all be up in arms if someone broke into your room and pinched your stuff.

Its also another block against another set of people selling you maybe surprised on what goes on.

Plenty of business meets are used at hotel rooms so class them as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you just, go down and bring them in?

That's what I've done? Usually after a drink at the bar first anyway. What a gent I am!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes I came across this in Glasgow once when I went on a meet, I wanted to use the toilet but of course the toilets were beyond the card key door

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I had issues when it’s men on desk. Might slip em a fiver or let them watch if this happens again "

Why would you need to slip them a fiver? You're allowed guests in your room.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Can't you just, go down and bring them in?

That's what I've done? Usually after a drink at the bar first anyway. What a gent I am!"

Yep. We always meet in the bar first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only issue I’ve encountered was a doorman at a hotel in Manchester asking for our room number and names that were down.

Luckily it was only two of us and we had booked the room, but that could’ve been a problem say id booked a room and a couple tried to get in that were meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just send the lift down to them if I don't want to put any clothes on. It's annoying but at least it's safe on the hotels part when its locked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually just send the lift down to them if I don't want to put any clothes on. It's annoying but at least it's safe on the hotels part when its locked."

First meet when you're just in a robe in your room...

Nice...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though.

I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself "

If they're able bodied, could they not use the stairs?

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Why would you want a total stranger who you've never even met coming directly up to your room? I always meet them away from the hotel first. Sometimes I get a bad vibe and take it no further. With a dangerous man you've no chance if no one knows he's there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I felt most awkward walking out of a hotel room after meeting my long term partner there.

It was a quicky as he'd been working a lot and had to get over the other side of London afterwards.

Booking in was fine, as he left instructions at reception to let me up.

He left about 10 minutes before me and the two girls on reception had a look of WTF on their faces as I dropped my key card off.

This was because I was a 56 yr old, fat woman in jeans and comfy shoes, and he was a tall, fit, handsome 40 year old in an expensive suit.

I felt their eyes burning into my back as I walked out

You should have just said don't worry girls when your old enough you might be able to get yourself someone that good and sure if your not good enough give me a call and I can give you a few pointers. Then walked off with the smile of someone who had just been well satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Magnetic card copyer

And blank cards and just copy the hotel key card job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though.

I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself

If they're able bodied, could they not use the stairs?"

Still need a card to access those

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Why would you want a total stranger who you've never even met coming directly up to your room? I always meet them away from the hotel first. Sometimes I get a bad vibe and take it no further. With a dangerous man you've no chance if no one knows he's there. "

Yes exactly this!

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"The only issue I’ve encountered was a doorman at a hotel in Manchester asking for our room number and names that were down.

Luckily it was only two of us and we had booked the room, but that could’ve been a problem say id booked a room and a couple tried to get in that were meeting me."

I think most hotels that operate this it is after a certain curfew (10/11pm) but if you've been out for a social and it's worthwhile meeting them then nothing to stop you organising a play date, get them into the hotel earlier in the day, the next day/week/month

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though. "

When there's been more than just one play friend meeting in a hotel, I ask for two room cards, then pop outside to my car, and leave one on a tyre for the 'extra' to join us.....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Yeah the problem is most hotels need you to swipe a card before you can even get into the lifts now though.

I just walk into the hotel & lift with them no questions asked. Staff just presume you are heading up to a room yourself

If they're able bodied, could they not use the stairs?

Still need a card to access those

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had issues when it’s men on desk. Might slip em a fiver or let them watch if this happens again "

That's like the script from a really old, really dodgy movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more hotels seem to be putting enhanced security in place e.g needing to swipe room key to access lifts or external doors. There’s probably good reason for it safety wise but it’s becoming harder and harder to find hotels where visitors can just come straight to room from outside.

What’s the most awkward hotel experience you’ve had?"

If a person has a card for his/her room there should be no hassle for the elevator or room , just my tuppence worth , what's stopping a person from entering an hotel elevator or a room at the same time ? If people want to meet in an hotel l don't think anything will stop them but l agree with you it's all swipe cards for everything now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a huge problem if the person you are meeting is a munter and you don’t want to be seen with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a huge problem if the person you are meeting is a munter and you don’t want to be seen with them. "

There is always the stairs which can eliminate the elevator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar."

Who meets after 11pm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ? "

People who are out at a bar or event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ? "

Would say big social events whare you meet in a pub or such as the night is winding down people who have meet at them may slip away to they hotels for some good times with someone or people they meet at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do your own thing, nobody cares, the staff have probably seen it all before

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Magnetic card copyer

And blank cards and just copy the hotel key card job done "

Or scrap the Mission Impossible hijinks and just let them in. People are imagining a problem when there isn't one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ? "

Peter Sutcliffe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Magnetic card copyer

And blank cards and just copy the hotel key card job done

Or scrap the Mission Impossible hijinks and just let them in. People are imagining a problem when there isn't one. "

“Pete, you’re going to have to come and let me in, I left my magnetic card reader in my other purse”.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ?

Peter Sutcliffe. "

See, that's just going too far. Not funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ?

Peter Sutcliffe.

See, that's just going too far. Not funny. "

Somebody will always be offended at something somebody says.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ?

Peter Sutcliffe.

See, that's just going too far. Not funny.

Somebody will always be offended at something somebody says."

What makes you think I'm offended? I just don't find it joke worthy to reference a man who murdered at least 13 women. Women meeting people off here have enough to think about their safety without serial killers being referenced. Not funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels won't care who is there unless they believe you are 'stealing service' by using a room for double occupancy whilst only paying for single.

They will often have a curfew for security reasons as staff levels are lower at night and doors will be locked at 11pm or similar.

Who meets after 11pm ?

Peter Sutcliffe.

See, that's just going too far. Not funny.

Somebody will always be offended at something somebody says.

I laughed.

You don’t have to, that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Magnetic card copyer

And blank cards and just copy the hotel key card job done

Or scrap the Mission Impossible hijinks and just let them in. People are imagining a problem when there isn't one. "

True ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had issues when it’s men on desk. Might slip em a fiver or let them watch if this happens again

That's like the script from a really old, really dodgy movie"

Never heard of it. I advise watching less porn

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