FabSwingers.com forum: Moral Dilemma

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was in the pub on Friday and in popped my mate and his wife. Myself and the wife have played with these countless times and they were the first couple we had ever been with. He is more cock and enjoys watching whilst she likes her girly fun. We have known each other for years as our kids grew up together.

Had a bit of a chat, he asked was I going to the football, I said as I had to take my daughter and grandson to the firework display and didn't want to be late as the wife was working and will meet us there.

We arrange a meet up in a couple of weeks which we know what willl happen and the 4 of us will all enjoy.

I think nothing of it and I leave and tell them we will txt over the weekend to arrange our night out.

The following morning around 11:30 I get a txt message from Katie. To my surprise it was her asking if I wanted to pop round whilst he was at the football as she was home alone. She sent a pic of what she was going to wear and how much she wanted fun and it could be our secret and our partners didn't have to know and it could be regular. I said NO it woll effect our friendship going behind their backs as we are friends and will only go round there with their knowledge.

Well the images and messages just kept on coming and I was rock hard and the thought of fucking her was running through my mind. But I just couldn't as it could ruin everything, I wanted too but had to decline.

Well the messages are still coming and I by god does she turn me on.

Now this were the dilemma comes in to it !!

Should I go round there or keep it as it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bum her.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I was in the pub on Friday and in popped my mate and his wife. Myself and the wife have played with these countless times and they were the first couple we had ever been with. He is more cock and enjoys watching whilst she likes her girly fun. We have known each other for years as our kids grew up together.

We arrange a meet up in a couple of weeks which we know what willl happen and the 4 of us will all enjoy.

I think nothing of it and I leave and tell them we will txt over the weekend to arrange our night out.

Well the messages are still coming and I by god does she turn me on.

Now this were the dilemma comes in to it !!

Should I go round there or keep it as it"
keep it as it is or lose your friend and possibly your wife or partner

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Don’t do it mate!

The fact it’s your lil secret means you would be cheating on your Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You already know this answer to this op , you said it yourself when you first said no

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No dilemma...swinging is about openness and honesty.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Football? In Wales?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Surely as a swinger there is no dilemma? Tell you Wife what's going on and tell the other woman to stop. Adultery is adultery and totally not swinging. I don't see how there's any grey area here regardless of what you've done with her in the past when all parties involved were consenting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ask your wife what she thinks. You dilemma will very quickly be sorted.

This woman is no friend of yours or your wife's

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why not show your mate and your wife the messages....I'm sure you'll find out what the answer is

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Send her my way

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Don't do it

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Obviously your friendship means Nothing to you or your marriage ,so go for it,what could possibly go wrong.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Why not show your mate and your wife the messages....I'm sure you'll find out what the answer is

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't do it, surely a quick fumble isn't worth ruining a friendship, especially when you can meet her anyway without the lies and deceit.

Mrs

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Report her to the police for harassment

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Otherwise you'd have blocked her and told your mrs.

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By *kcouple1973Couple
over a year ago

colchester

"No dilemma...swinging is about openness and honesty."
this!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This isn't actually a moral dilemma. It's a straight choice between going behind your partner's and mates back and not.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Football? In Wales? "

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why not show your mate and your wife the messages....I'm sure you'll find out what the answer is

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single chap on Fab cannot accommodate but plays as a couple?

I suppose stranger things have happened?

In any event I wouldn’t go there as the ensuing cluster fuck may outweigh the momentary lapse into pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plot twist, you go round and your mrs is waiting for you..

Never trust a woman offering sex, we don't do that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plot twist, you go round and your mrs is waiting for you..

Never trust a woman offering sex, we don't do that shit."

Further plot twist. You go round and his mate is waiting for him dressed as his mates wife.

Men do that kind of thing.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Football? In Wales? "

I'm seldom dissapointed by forum replies.

This was no exeption.

Winston

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Further plot twist "he woke up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plot twist, you go round and your mrs is waiting for you..

Never trust a woman offering sex, we don't do that shit."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Further plot twist "he woke up"

Firm but fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not buying this.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Great story bro

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I'm not buying this."

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

I...

I don't know what this is...

It sounds marginally more realistic than the rest though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

Is it not nectar points now?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

Is it not nectar points now?"

posted about green shield to se how many ole feckers on today lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

I...

I don't know what this is...

It sounds marginally more realistic than the rest though."

They were the 1960s equivalent of a loyalty card. You were given green shield stamps with purchases, stuck them in a book then exchanged them for goods. It took about ten years to get enough for the smallest item

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

Is it not nectar points now?

posted about green shield to se how many ole feckers on today lol

Me!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

I...

I don't know what this is...

It sounds marginally more realistic than the rest though.

correct lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Block her and show your wife the messages. Cut all contact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bum her."

Another vote for a bloody good rogering.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

My advice would be me to post this in the correct part of the forum.

Also, if you wish to improve the story, you mention "Katie" withiut having explained who she is. So, at first we don't know if that's your friend's wife, or daughter, etc.

So, I'd tighten up that bit. Apart from that, it's not a bad start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

I...

I don't know what this is...

It sounds marginally more realistic than the rest though.

correct lol

Awww bless.

Learn something every day.

Loyalty coupons and creative writing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the wife and mate won’t know won’t hurt them!!

Give her the good news!!!

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"No dilemma...swinging is about openness and honesty."

exactly this

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Too late temptation got the better of him he's done the dirty deed

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No, it's simple

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

I...

I don't know what this is...

It sounds marginally more realistic than the rest though.

correct lol

The Green Shield Stamp redemption shops, where you exchanged your million stamps for 4 soup bowls, eventually morphed into the Argos catalogue Shops.

Anyone remember the Co-op stamps, they were Blue.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I'm not buying this.

not even if you get green shield stamps with it!!!!

I...

I don't know what this is...

It sounds marginally more realistic than the rest though.

correct lol

The Green Shield Stamp redemption shops, where you exchanged your million stamps for 4 soup bowls, eventually morphed into the Argos catalogue Shops.

Anyone remember the Co-op stamps, they were Blue. "

My first hubby where he worked they got the greensheild stamps if they were not late every Friday got pages of them! Got most of our baby stuff with them! She's 50 next year a green sheild stamp baby lol! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do people find these threads to resurrect them lol.

FWIW the very first thing I would have done when the first message dropped is show my partner it. The second would be avoid the other couple like the fucking plague. It's a ticking time bomb and the devastating effects of it going off will last the rest of your life.

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