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Drinking wine from a plastic glass is just not a sexy look
What other things in clubs wind you up or just don't sit right with you? Possibly something you would overlook but you know vanilla friends would recoil in horror at. | |||
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"I've never been to a club, because of being a single man, but this would also put me off. Why plastic cups? Are swingers more likely to start glassing people than ordinary punters?" More likely to be barefoot? | |||
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"I've never been to a club, because of being a single man, but this would also put me off. Why plastic cups? Are swingers more likely to start glassing people than ordinary punters? More likely to be barefoot? " Also offputting! Hmmm. Pretty sure clubs aren't going to be for me. | |||
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"I've never been to a club, because of being a single man, but this would also put me off. Why plastic cups? Are swingers more likely to start glassing people than ordinary punters?" Broken glass. | |||
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"Spunk floating in the hot tubs. " Jack Frost nibbling at your nose. | |||
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I wouldn’t say anything annoys us as such but there are things we’ve observed about clubs & club goers - that’s all I’m prepared to say as wouldn’t want to be offensive | |||
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"At least they have plastic gin glasses too
I wouldn’t say anything annoys us as such but there are things we’ve observed about clubs & club goers - that’s all I’m prepared to say as wouldn’t want to be offensive "Go on PLEASE say it!! You can’t say that and not tell us   | |||
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"At least they have plastic gin glasses too
I wouldn’t say anything annoys us as such but there are things we’ve observed about clubs & club goers - that’s all I’m prepared to say as wouldn’t want to be offensive
Go on PLEASE say it!! You can’t say that and not tell us "PM me hun | |||
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"Spunk floating in the hot tubs. I *know* nobody is meant to play in there. But they do … "One reason we don't get in the hot tubs. People definitely play in them. | |||
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"I bloody love going to swingers clubs, im not a confident woman by any means but wierdly I feel more like myself and comfortable once i'm in and dressed down than I ever do in real life. However
Drinking wine from a plastic glass is just not a sexy look
What other things in clubs wind you up or just don't sit right with you? Possibly something you would overlook but you know vanilla friends would recoil in horror at. "the cliques of people but I suppose it's inevitable that you stick to people you know  | |||
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"When people don't knot their condoms and unsuspecting people stand on it "They don’t knot them and put them in tissue lol | |||
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"There are a huge array of clubs. Some are small and intimate, some very exclusive and expensive, some warm and welcoming and some huge and overwhelming. No two clubs are the same. Plastic glasses are practical as you don't want someone smashing one in a communal play area or dark room. I love clubs and as a single woman they are safer than visiting strangers houses or 1-2-1 hotel meets. I've been to some luxurious places and some seedy places and enjoyed myself all the same. Its not all about what the club has to offer, its also about what you are putting in to the evening. If you're going to nit pick over decor or music rather than go with the flow and have a fun time then that's your prerogative. " I can't disagree with any of this about swingers' clubs: as I say, I'm completely ignorant. But if I'm going out for cocktails or dinner,the glasses,the decor,the clothing of other customers,etc all matter to me. I'd not go in somewhere that wasn't aesthetically appealing. Very much personal opinion, of course, but I don't think it's uncommon. | |||
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"There are a huge array of clubs. Some are small and intimate, some very exclusive and expensive, some warm and welcoming and some huge and overwhelming. No two clubs are the same. Plastic glasses are practical as you don't want someone smashing one in a communal play area or dark room. I love clubs and as a single woman they are safer than visiting strangers houses or 1-2-1 hotel meets. I've been to some luxurious places and some seedy places and enjoyed myself all the same. Its not all about what the club has to offer, its also about what you are putting in to the evening. If you're going to nit pick over decor or music rather than go with the flow and have a fun time then that's your prerogative. I can't disagree with any of this about swingers' clubs: as I say, I'm completely ignorant. But if I'm going out for cocktails or dinner,the glasses,the decor,the clothing of other customers,etc all matter to me. I'd not go in somewhere that wasn't aesthetically appealing. Very much personal opinion, of course, but I don't think it's uncommon." Of course there are clubs that decline membership because of the way people look. | |||
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" Of course there are clubs that decline membership because of the way people look. " I'd heard that, but thought it was more based on physical appearance than dress? | |||
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"There are a huge array of clubs. Some are small and intimate, some very exclusive and expensive, some warm and welcoming and some huge and overwhelming. No two clubs are the same. Plastic glasses are practical as you don't want someone smashing one in a communal play area or dark room. I love clubs and as a single woman they are safer than visiting strangers houses or 1-2-1 hotel meets. I've been to some luxurious places and some seedy places and enjoyed myself all the same. Its not all about what the club has to offer, its also about what you are putting in to the evening. If you're going to nit pick over decor or music rather than go with the flow and have a fun time then that's your prerogative. I can't disagree with any of this about swingers' clubs: as I say, I'm completely ignorant. But if I'm going out for cocktails or dinner,the glasses,the decor,the clothing of other customers,etc all matter to me. I'd not go in somewhere that wasn't aesthetically appealing. Very much personal opinion, of course, but I don't think it's uncommon." We always say it's the people you're with that make a good time, not the place. You could be sat in a palace but if everyone you were with were boring and didn't know how to enjoy themselves it wouldn't be very enjoyable. | |||
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"I would never touch a buffet at a club for obvious reasons .. "I enjoyed a buffet at the Vanilla Alternative last week. It was an amazing spread. It is totally possible for adults that enjoy a Liberal lifestyle to also have the ability to wash their hands before handling food. We are swingers not savages;-p | |||
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"There are a huge array of clubs. Some are small and intimate, some very exclusive and expensive, some warm and welcoming and some huge and overwhelming. No two clubs are the same. Plastic glasses are practical as you don't want someone smashing one in a communal play area or dark room. I love clubs and as a single woman they are safer than visiting strangers houses or 1-2-1 hotel meets. I've been to some luxurious places and some seedy places and enjoyed myself all the same. Its not all about what the club has to offer, its also about what you are putting in to the evening. If you're going to nit pick over decor or music rather than go with the flow and have a fun time then that's your prerogative. I can't disagree with any of this about swingers' clubs: as I say, I'm completely ignorant. But if I'm going out for cocktails or dinner,the glasses,the decor,the clothing of other customers,etc all matter to me. I'd not go in somewhere that wasn't aesthetically appealing. Very much personal opinion, of course, but I don't think it's uncommon. We always say it's the people you're with that make a good time, not the place. You could be sat in a palace but if everyone you were with were boring and didn't know how to enjoy themselves it wouldn't be very enjoyable." Yes indeed. Anywhere is fun with likeminded individuals x | |||
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" We always say it's the people you're with that make a good time, not the place. You could be sat in a palace but if everyone you were with were boring and didn't know how to enjoy themselves it wouldn't be very enjoyable." I don't know...I could have A LOT of fun alone in a palace. | |||
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"Clubs where the social area is also the disco- you can’t make introductory small talk when you have to shout to be heard over cotton eye joe, agado and eye of the tiger!" Yes, I get this. However I went to the Bi Fun Club and the music was perfect. There is a pub upstairs if you want to chat and be social. Downstairs the music and darkness set the sleezy, sexy mood | |||
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"When people don't knot their condoms and unsuspecting people stand on it
They don’t knot them and put them in tissue lol"Ha You will find that out soon enough in the cinema | |||
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"Clubs where the social area is also the disco- you can’t make introductory small talk when you have to shout to be heard over cotton eye joe, agado and eye of the tiger! Yes, I get this. However I went to the Bi Fun Club and the music was perfect. There is a pub upstairs if you want to chat and be social. Downstairs the music and darkness set the sleezy, sexy mood " Sounds great- don’t get me wrong, I’m not opposed to there being music for dancing and sleaziness, it’s just nice to also have somewhere for chat (and sleaziness, obvs) | |||
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"There are a huge array of clubs. Some are small and intimate, some very exclusive and expensive, some warm and welcoming and some huge and overwhelming. No two clubs are the same. Plastic glasses are practical as you don't want someone smashing one in a communal play area or dark room. I love clubs and as a single woman they are safer than visiting strangers houses or 1-2-1 hotel meets. I've been to some luxurious places and some seedy places and enjoyed myself all the same. Its not all about what the club has to offer, its also about what you are putting in to the evening. If you're going to nit pick over decor or music rather than go with the flow and have a fun time then that's your prerogative. I can't disagree with any of this about swingers' clubs: as I say, I'm completely ignorant. But if I'm going out for cocktails or dinner,the glasses,the decor,the clothing of other customers,etc all matter to me. I'd not go in somewhere that wasn't aesthetically appealing. Very much personal opinion, of course, but I don't think it's uncommon." That's a great shout! Been in around a dozen clubs, but have never visited one twice where I felt I needed to wipe my feet on the way out - and I've seen a few, one or two of which have been seen as being very popular on here.  | |||
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"When people don't knot their condoms and unsuspecting people stand on it
They don’t knot them and put them in tissue lol
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You will find that out soon enough in the cinema "It’s grim at least put it in the bin..ffs or if not at least in tissue paper | |||
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