FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions please

By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

Ok, so my brothers ex wife (7year apart) is on here. I didn’t know as she messaged me first. Basically she somehow knew that it was me, don’t know how. Anyway so we both know what’s what etc.. and had a couple outdoors fun in groups with brilliant people il add. But now she has asked to meet up just me and her. She’s stunning and in a way I’d love to but also having a feel like I’m not sure if that makes sense. Please give your opinions nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno , stranger things have happened I guess. And she’s been apart from your brother for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ho’s before bro’s.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

My opinion.....nope ! It's too complicated to go there.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I guess when you're a single guy on fab, you have to take whatever comes your way, regardless of the potential fall out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have a family together it would be a no go area for me.

If it was to be conducted in private then ur both adults.

Nobody can decide but yourself OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They split 7 years ago.

She wants to meet you.

I assume you want to meet her…

Go for it, I see no harm in it.

I guess it depends how far she would take it, relationship probably not because it would be awkward for your brother and any family occasions. But if you are just swinging and having some fun together then it’s harmless…

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By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

True is that, there has never been anything before even when they we’re together. Also I can’t get now out of my head what my brother used to say about her. She’s absolutely filthy, a different level to what he’s ever had previously. My brother would slap me in a good way for not and also if I did. Can’t win haha

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"If they have a family together it would be a no go area for me.

If it was to be conducted in private then ur both adults.

Nobody can decide but yourself OP.

Nothing good has ever come from the phrase “that’s not how your brother did it!”……..

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By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

They don’t have any family together but I get what your saying. No matter what I would never relationship side between us and I kinda know she’s same. I think she just knew and now knows that I have fun on sites like this… and obviously she does and maybe it is a safer/easier option in a sense because we know each other

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Would you be ok if he hooked up with a meaningful ex of yours?

Would it cause family drama that you could do without?

If it was a love affair it would be different, maybe worth it all - but just for casual sex? - is it really worth the potential drama?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm done but best if you're both discrete.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

And I think you need to keep in mind that although you might go into this with all good “just FWB” intentions. Feelings can and do develop.

It has potential to get messy.

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By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

Yes I would honestly, anything for family isn’t it? And there wouldn’t be no drama at all even if he found out before I said anything to him etc.. some won’t like what I’m going to say but me and my brother have had fun nights together in same room and we all swapped. We all know how it is…

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

I’d say no.

If your brother found out at best it would probably cause some awkwardness between you both at worst it might cause a massive rift.

Is worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I would honestly, anything for family isn’t it? And there wouldn’t be no drama at all even if he found out before I said anything to him etc.. some won’t like what I’m going to say but me and my brother have had fun nights together in same room and we all swapped. We all know how it is…"

Keeping it in the family I see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always comes down to peoples onions

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I don't have a brother but I probably wouldn't. But sounds like you have a relationship where you chat about personal stuff, so why not just ask if he'd mind you casually hooking up with his ex? Don't necessarily need to say how you've got chatting.

Though if you don't think he'd be bothered, I'm less sure what the dilemma is, especially as they've been separated for such a long time.

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

no way what if she tells your Brother could ruin your family why is she doing this for revenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may depend on how much you value your relationship with Ur bro.

If you do ... Talk to him.

If you can't... That is probably telling in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've already crossed the line so what are you worried about?

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By *ewandexcited99Man
over a year ago

Dublin

If it was your brother meeting your ex how would you feel. If it wouldnt bother you then go for it.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

My opinion, if you are close with your brother - don’t do it. You never know for sure her motives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's on here she will read this bs anyway

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Keep going op

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By *lean_CutMan
over a year ago

Rasen area

Go for it!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

In my opinion you are playing with fire mate!

Plenty more fish in the sea, why mess with your brother’s ex. It’s a no go, unless ofcourse you not close to your brother

, but still would suggest passing unlikely to end well

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

How she recognised you from a few dicks pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How she recognised you from a few dicks pics

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maybe they are twins ... (Never thought about this before...)

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"How she recognised you from a few dicks pics

Could be the penis sleeve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The technical name for this situation is Doing a Giggsy.

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By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

"How she recognised you from a few dicks pics

The men in our family have a black freckle on our cocks. Everyone of us really do. Also I maybe sent private pics to her and she recognised my living room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How she recognised you from a few dicks pics

The men in our family have a black freckle on our cocks. Everyone of us really do. Also I maybe sent private pics to her and she recognised my living room. "
black eyed penis !

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I know someone who married his brother's ex-wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so my brothers ex wife (7year apart) is on here. I didn’t know as she messaged me first. Basically she somehow knew that it was me, don’t know how. Anyway so we both know what’s what etc.. and had a couple outdoors fun in groups with brilliant people il add. But now she has asked to meet up just me and her. She’s stunning and in a way I’d love to but also having a feel like I’m not sure if that makes sense. Please give your opinions nicely "

The only plausible explanation is that you and your brother are cock twins.

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By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

That’s brilliant tbf haha

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If you think your bro will be ok with it,why not run it past him and then you'll have your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True is that, there has never been anything before even when they we’re together. Also I can’t get now out of my head what my brother used to say about her. She’s absolutely filthy, a different level to what he’s ever had previously. My brother would slap me in a good way for not and also if I did. Can’t win haha"

If she's filthy then go for it. Nothing else matters, fuck her every which way. Maybe she'll do a 3some with you and your brother.

Wank fantasies are fun......

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By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

Each to there own isn’t it. I just wanted a diverse opinions from people on here. Iv got it and thanks to you all. Bottom line is, no we’re not actually cock twins! (Is that a thing haha) were amazingly close as it should be but I know he’d bollock me if I actually didn’t also. Yea she might be doing it to get sumat on my brother that’s why I told him straight away when we knew each other. He did ask if I’d been anywhere outside having kinky fun what I mentioned earlier. Told him we have and he literally said he had done that with her a fair few times and he said that’s her thing and he wouldn’t expect anything less from her being a kinky type of a woman.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I tend to be if the opinion that if two adults are single and want to be in a relationship then nobody else matters unless there are children involved. However I would probably not get involved with my hypothetical sister's ex husband regardless of the time passed since they separated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I think its the line you don't cross, fair enough 7 years is a long rime separated but I still think its not right, regardless to how long they been separated thats you're brother, no woman is worth the possibility of losing your brother out of your life.

have you considered the possibility that somehow he finds out ? can you say hand on heart that he wouldn't care ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess when you're a single guy on fab, you have to take whatever comes your way, regardless of the potential fall out

oh wow

again with all single men own fab are the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess when you're a single guy on fab, you have to take whatever comes your way, regardless of the potential fall out

oh wow

again with all single men own fab are the same lol"

OP have you thouht that if you go there and your brother finds out, there is a good chance he's going be convinced its happened while they were together ?I wouldn't risk losing a brother out buy life personally but that's just my opinion on it,

hope you work out what you wanna do soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brothers used to fuck each others exs all the time no bother to them

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Each to there own isn’t it. I just wanted a diverse opinions from people on here. Iv got it and thanks to you all. Bottom line is, no we’re not actually cock twins! (Is that a thing haha) were amazingly close as it should be but I know he’d bollock me if I actually didn’t also. Yea she might be doing it to get sumat on my brother that’s why I told him straight away when we knew each other. He did ask if I’d been anywhere outside having kinky fun what I mentioned earlier. Told him we have and he literally said he had done that with her a fair few times and he said that’s her thing and he wouldn’t expect anything less from her being a kinky type of a woman. "

This thread has confused me all round. If your brother knows and is not bothered, it's just two consenting adults having a bit of fun, so follow your heart, OP. Sorry, dick. I mean dick.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both adults and know the score

Go for it and enjoy the fun

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