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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

A lot of folk out there think us swingers are at it with everyone we meet which Isn't true

For most people have not that much time to give to this

Most folk who this are lucky if they can give the life style can do this once maybe twice a month

For folk have work family life care commitments with some time family members community commitments with gruops they belong to and so forth

Then when do have time to play half the time this dont happen for a good 50% of this socialsing

For swinging to take place lots of things have to have happen venue time scales have to march you have to find those people you have a spark with

Now a lot out there think this is free for all which it isn't

Most folk who this are choosy who they go with wont go with anything

There are a small number that do a good number of them tend to have something wrong with them

Its this minority that making hard work of it for at least 50% of swingers if not more

Newbies join have the wrong idea message folk in the most clumsy way and piss folk off

if the real ture message got out there about swinging we have far more join our world of swinging we would have less idiots dawn in to the site

So folk how do we get the message out there for the most swingers are not at it with everyone one we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s inpossble to get that message out to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. "

Annabelelecter is a fantastic name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am.

Annabelelecter is a fantastic name! "

Thank you… thank you….

I’m here all week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will never stop it. For new people its like a kid in a candy store. What can i have next.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


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There are a small number that do a good number of them tend to have something wrong with them

"

I am not sure what you mean by this. The way I am reading it - it sounds incredibly judgemental to say people who meet often have “something wrong with them”!

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. "
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Why?

Just out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity."

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions "

If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions

If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it? "

It’s basically closed over down there

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions

If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?

It’s basically closed over down there"

A true tragedy.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions "

Why not indeed…..logic and simplicity.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"It’s inpossble to get that message out to everyone "

Maybe Ant & Dec could spread the work on their myriad of TV shows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions

If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?

It’s basically closed over down there

A true tragedy."

Indeed it is, so can you let the masses know I’m at it 24/7. In fact, I’m never off a cock.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions

If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?

It’s basically closed over down there

A true tragedy.

Indeed it is, so can you let the masses know I’m at it 24/7. In fact, I’m never off a cock. "

I will let everyone know for you once I have dealt with the three wives who are still queuing by the bedroom door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .

Why?

Just out of curiosity.

Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions

If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?

It’s basically closed over down there

A true tragedy.

Indeed it is, so can you let the masses know I’m at it 24/7. In fact, I’m never off a cock.

I will let everyone know for you once I have dealt with the three wives who are still queuing by the bedroom door."

Good boy

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We IM’s and ahh’d over going from fantasy to reality because we too had the same misconceptions over swingers. Never having knowingly known any ourselves, we thought exactly that. Though still inexperienced, We have how come to understand that people get it to swinging for so many reasons, and look to interact, play and get enjoyment from of it in so many different ways. It’ll like saying all people who eat, eat junk food, and yes, lots of people do. Some far more than others. Some because it’s all they like. Some because it satisfies their craving for the time. Some are more selective about what they put inside their bodies and that’s normal too.

To labour the analogy further… Some want to stuff you, some want to be stuffed by you. Some want just to feed you or be fed by you and, for us, we are very lucky to have found some lovely people who want to teach us how to cook new things so we can enjoy and appreciate just how much verity of great food there is out there if you’re open to trying

#thoughtForTheDay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'idiots' out themselves in first messages so they are easy to avoid.

Some people do meet very often and it may appear that they will fuck anyone who asks. They aren't wrong for doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'idiots' out themselves in first messages so they are easy to avoid.

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That’s why I rarely send the first message

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think compared to regular people we are like rabbits, they have sex with just one person for years, decades even.

I think there’s a similar feeling between poly people and club people

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'idiots' out themselves in first messages so they are easy to avoid.

That’s why I rarely send the first message "

Send two at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that."

And that everyone just joins in...

Porn has a lot to answer for!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The endless battle of those who 'think' they are 'swingers' to educate those who behave in a different way amuses me at times.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that."

Shame though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any old tree will do this is a myth hanging one on a christmas tree is not a good idea

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that."

Must admit that’s how I imagined it to be until Lexi dragged me to one one night kicking and screaming!

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I found swingers to be waaaay more picky than "normal" folk in in general much more switched on about sexual health.

Mr

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.

Must admit that’s how I imagined it to be until Lexi dragged me to one one night kicking and screaming! "

And I bet you were disappointed that you had fo go looking for naked people

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.

Shame though "

You organise it, I'll come x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.

Must admit that’s how I imagined it to be until Lexi dragged me to one one night kicking and screaming!

And I bet you were disappointed that you had fo go looking for naked people "

Haha. Yeah she took me upstairs!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.

Must admit that’s how I imagined it to be until Lexi dragged me to one one night kicking and screaming!

And I bet you were disappointed that you had fo go looking for naked people

Haha. Yeah she took me upstairs! "

Ooh...you're naked legs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.

Shame though "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the biggest myths about swinging exist among swingers themselves.

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