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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What level of male stupidity?

Individuals are stupid not an entire demographic.

Anyone feeling tarred needs to look at themselves.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Stupid is as stupid does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been welcomed with open arms. Maybe it’s my great profile or maybe it’s my great sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What level of male stupidity?

Individuals are stupid not an entire demographic.

Anyone feeling tarred needs to look at themselves. "

Congrats on not understanding the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site isn’t the reason guys are bellends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but it dose make one more casuse to take steps

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"What level of male stupidity?

Individuals are stupid not an entire demographic.

Anyone feeling tarred needs to look at themselves.

Congrats on not understanding the question "

It's just you then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What level of male stupidity?

Individuals are stupid not an entire demographic.

Anyone feeling tarred needs to look at themselves.

Congrats on not understanding the question

It's just you then"

Shit, I knew my Masters Degree was a fluke

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me""

Nobody's behaviour reflects on anyone but themselves.

Thinking that any 'tarring' en masse happens is a convenient rationale for why some are unsuccessful and puts the blame on others rather than themselves.

If 'all single guys' were viewed the same by all couples and women, then how would any of them ever get meets?

Because plenty do. Regularly.

A

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

What let's guy down on here the most is that the majority (in our experience) don't bother to read a profile before messaging, then get shitty when they get rejected.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Are you talking about the lack of sexual discipline and self control that some guys on the site are notorious for?...I don't think so...as I rarely message first (or have a dick pic attached in my messages)

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Yes I think we do to a certain extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me""

No I don’t believe so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not saying i struggle in the slightest and have many friends on fab having been here a very long time over numerous periods.

I'm just asking generally, after all, isn't that what the forums are for?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Well some do some don't, the amount of profiles asking for help you look at profile nothing there no write up and all cock pics no helping them really they don't listen to good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me""

It's just you that's stupid?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me"

It's just you that's stupid? "

Yay!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

#allmen

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

OP it doesn’t help when guys start the man kicking threads. We get enough of that from the women in here. Stop using the “tarred with the same brush “ excuses . You make your own success or failure on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me""
why do you ask ? Do you feel tarred ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was wary of men before we joined fab, I am even more wary now having read some of the posts made in the forum that display the deep disrespect for other people in general and women in particular.

Do I think all men are like this? No, I don't. However in much the same way as I wear a seat belt to protect me despite knowing that there's a very low possibilty I'll be in an accident I choose to be wary of men to protect myself until I can ascertain that they're ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me"why do you ask ? Do you feel tarred ?"

Not at all, as my follow up post on this thread states. It's a general question, not as it now seems a reason to accuse the OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP it doesn’t help when guys start the man kicking threads. We get enough of that from the women in here. Stop using the “tarred with the same brush “ excuses . You make your own success or failure on here. "

Congrats on reading the thread before making an assumption of the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wary of men before we joined fab, I am even more wary now having read some of the posts made in the forum that display the deep disrespect for other people in general and women in particular.

Do I think all men are like this? No, I don't. However in much the same way as I wear a seat belt to protect me despite knowing that there's a very low possibilty I'll be in an accident I choose to be wary of men to protect myself until I can ascertain that they're ok "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I was wary of men before we joined fab, I am even more wary now having read some of the posts made in the forum that display the deep disrespect for other people in general and women in particular.

Do I think all men are like this? No, I don't. However in much the same way as I wear a seat belt to protect me despite knowing that there's a very low possibilty I'll be in an accident I choose to be wary of men to protect myself until I can ascertain that they're ok "

I was struggling how to word what I wanted to say so didn’t bother but you’ve pretty much done it for me.

In a way op yes it can affect all men because before I joined fab I was so much more trustworthy and not as wary. This place has made me wary of every single man and not able to trust a single one (especially on here) so if other women feel like this also then yes I think you’re right.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"OP it doesn’t help when guys start the man kicking threads. We get enough of that from the women in here. Stop using the “tarred with the same brush “ excuses . You make your own success or failure on here.

Congrats on reading the thread before making an assumption of the OP "

Maybe you should explain the thread because obviously it's not clear what you're getting at.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No, I’d say the ones who just have cock pics or basic profiles and moan about not getting meets probably get tarred with the same brush.

The guys who use their profile to give the best representation of themselves don’t.

K

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By *0IAN00Man
over a year ago

Dumfries & Galloway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman can make her own mind up when she sees replies or comments etc on the forums from guys .A woman is naturally wary if she receives a message that she doesn't like for whatever reason from guys but the bottom line is , in my opinion ,that they make up their own mind regards anything here.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I treat everyone differently and take others as I find them.

I've been made aware of and warned off a few people but at the end of the day, I'll make my own mind up.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I don’t feel like I am “tarred” just because I am male.

In my experience people on the site are generally able to make up their own minds - although a few people seem to let others tell them what they should think on a couple of WhatsApp groups.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Or they only listen to advice from women but still don't do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they only listen to advice from women but still don't do anything "

Why would you listen to women? They can’t even open jars never mind tell you how to pull.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Or they only listen to advice from women but still don't do anything

Why would you listen to women? They can’t even open jars never mind tell you how to pull."
lol true

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Get tarred with the same brush on this site due to the level of male stupidity?

Or shall I say "no, it's just me""

I don't think stupidity is exclusive to the males on this site but it fits a common narrative

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I think most men show their cards either on the forum, or in their profile, and most women here can spot red flags in conversation pretty well. So although there are a lot of bellends, generally the good ones will do well. The challenge is getting noticed by the right people at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t feel like I am “tarred” just because I am male.

In my experience people on the site are generally able to make up their own minds - although a few people seem to let others tell them what they should think on a couple of WhatsApp groups."

People always claim such groups don't exist.....

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I don’t feel like I am “tarred” just because I am male.

In my experience people on the site are generally able to make up their own minds - although a few people seem to let others tell them what they should think on a couple of WhatsApp groups.

People always claim such groups don't exist..... "

No such groups exist…. On whatsapp.

They are all on Telegram now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What level of male stupidity?

Individuals are stupid not an entire demographic…., "

A person is smart. People are dumb….

- K. Men in Black.

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