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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" I'm with you on this, makes me think they are a total wuss. | |||
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"There's worse things to be called. A work colleague often calls me baby girl and that does make me rush to the loo to vom sometimes " | |||
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I mean I wouldn’t call her those names so a complete random is an instant delete.
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"Babe snd trouble are the two I dislike the most. Trouble in particular snd I seem to be attracting quite a few who use that" See you took how charming I was for granted! | |||
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"Any pet names, from someone I don't know, on here, makes my stomach turn "Yup. | |||
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"Babe snd trouble are the two I dislike the most. Trouble in particular snd I seem to be attracting quite a few who use that See you took how charming I was for granted!" Oh I could never take you for granted, you’ll always remind me  | |||
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I have a nickname that my husband calls me as a direct result of calling me Babe once  | |||
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"There's worse things to be called. A work colleague often calls me baby girl and that does make me rush to the loo to vom sometimes
"A guy at work calls me kiddo. He's on the same hierarchical level as me. I hate it and have made my views clear. I'm tempted to complain, to be honest! | |||
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"What would you like to be called? " I like to be called hounds little slut | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" Or Babe so cringy | |||
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"What would you like to be called? " I'm guessing whatever name they have put up on here. | |||
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"Babe snd trouble are the two I dislike the most. Trouble in particular snd I seem to be attracting quite a few who use that" Trouble is doing the rounds atm. | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" awwww baby | |||
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"What would you like to be called? " Personally I prefer to be called by my username until they find out my real name x | |||
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"These days it seems it doesn’t matter how you address a woman they will have a problem with it !! "Not at all. From someone I know well and if discussed then I don't mind. | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" No not at all, nor "babe" "Hun" or anything like that. Mrs | |||
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"No it doesn't appeal when anyone I don't know calls me any version of Hun,baby,babe etc. It just makes me cringe a bit when I see it in opening messages." Where same we ignore the message an also cock pics we block them | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" Oh baby you just so hot, i wanna put you in a diaper and feed you rusks, lol. Would you prefer they call you mama? Or Babe? Seriously though, would you like being called a nickname or just your normal name? | |||
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"A lot of you seem to hate pet names but I sometimes use lovely or sweetie, not meant in a cringy way, but does it come across as cringy?" For me, yes it comes across as cringy | |||
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"A lot of you seem to hate pet names but I sometimes use lovely or sweetie, not meant in a cringy way, but does it come across as cringy? For me, yes it comes across as cringy" I appreciate that, thank you sweetie | |||
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"What would you like to be called? Personally I prefer to be called by my username until they find out my real name x" Judy  | |||
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"What would you like to be called? Personally I prefer to be called by my username until they find out my real name xJudy "Karen | |||
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"What would you like to be called? Personally I prefer to be called by my username until they find out my real name xJudy
Karen "awww Karen you suit that name | |||
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I hope all the guys in this thread have taken notes if ‘babe’ is their go to pet name.
Familiarity breeds contempt | |||
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"These days it seems it doesn’t matter how you address a woman they will have a problem with it !! "Spoke facts and nothing but facts | |||
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"* Cringe*
I hope all the guys in this thread have taken notes if ‘babe’ is their go to pet name.
Familiarity breeds contempt "Hey Babe, how`s you? BLOCKED..Okay i`ll get my coat. | |||
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"These days it seems it doesn’t matter how you address a woman they will have a problem with it !! "° Henceforth I shall address you as "Gertrude". It's a term of endearment. X | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" Sorry babs | |||
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"baby, babe, hun, honey, any of those.. nope " "Oi you" OK then? | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" Sorry to hear that, Sweetcheeks | |||
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"Detest pet names from strangers. " I agree. I would never use a pet name with someone I haven’t interacted with before and only use them once its been agreed. | |||
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"So what do you want to be called? What is not a term that you would not find offensive? Jesus ffs " On here, a username?! I can't think of any kind of conversation that would need for me to be called anything but that, before I knew someone enough for anything else | |||
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"But prior to being cheated on, you were OK with the pet name? " Jesus man, had a meet cancel on you tonight or what? You're going to do yourself an injury at this rate! And I managed all of that without calling you sugartits! Amazing! | |||
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"Do you wear a name badge in your public role? And the public don't have to dance to your tune. It's clearly not meant as offensive. Understand that people are different, and respect the people who pay your wages. Public servant, perhaps ask your supervisor to put you in a role where you don't have to face the public. I'd put you in a role that doesn't cause you so much anxiety and distress, unbelievable it really is. Explain to your supervisor that you are a swinger and prefer to be called as much? " 1,nobody knows who you are talking to 2,are you replying to every poster that disliked this practice? And 3,can you tell us an instance where you absolutely cannot converse with someone without referring to them without their name or without calling them a pet name? Oh and 4,breathe! | |||
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"No I don't like the name baby, The last person to call me that had been called a piece of shit and a cunt repeatedly by me, after they had lied to me, and thought calling me baby and offering steak and sex would be a good idea. It really wasn't. So naturally I just cringe at it. T" I'd crumble if someone offered me steak and sex | |||
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"I don’t take offence to any term of endearment xx " exactly its meant as a compliment and different people from different areas say them in different ways | |||
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"just here to say threads and the forum in general are such great filters...*taking notes* "Ain't that the truth! | |||
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"Do you actually get messages when you are not interested in meeting, just browsing? What do you call a browser? I would call you, why bother " Huh? I don't understand this or your previous answer. | |||
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"Jesus you are a breath of fresh air, you are the typical person who gets offended by not being offended, it is just so pathetic that people moan yet not one poster has said their preference of how they are reffered to. Get with the program ffs " You go girl  | |||
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"Good God no. I hate being called baby by anyone. I also hate 'babe'. Babe is a well known pig. " I always say this haha | |||
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"I don't really get called baby by random folk. I quite like terms of endearment in my old age, before I'd be outraged that someone had the audacity to use such an awful thing but now? I don't really have the energy or time to get up in arms about it. Some I'd even go so far as to say I quite like. People don't really deliver them in a patronising way with me." This  | |||
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"Hate it. Mr doesn't have any "cutesy" pet names for me...it's generally "shagger", "dolly bastard" or "sexy arse" if he's feeling fruity." my wife says come on rampant rabbit. | |||
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"So it's condescending? So what do you want to be called? Instead of being a diva, don't make people guess, say your preference, Jesus it's so fucking simple, state your legislative ruling and explain how you want to be referred as, ffs this platform has bought about some people who are proper having themselves, " Username will suffice. I would hope a person contacting us would have common sense to do so. | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. " Do you not ask? | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? " I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. " Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. " I read it the opposite, that the person who uses pet names with a stranger is a bit desperate | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. I read it the opposite, that the person who uses pet names with a stranger is a bit desperate " Ahh, yes, that makes more sense. | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. I read it the opposite, that the person who uses pet names with a stranger is a bit desperate " Yeah me too | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. " The OP asked about the word ‘baby’ which she said she finds cringy. I agree and in my opinion screams of desperation. It’s not difficult to understand | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. The OP asked about the word ‘baby’ which she said she finds cringy. I agree and in my opinion screams of desperation. It’s not difficult to understand " | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. " on whose part and why desperation some people naturally say babe as part of their everyday communication with others, women say it to guys also, the main problem here is that women receive so many messages that it's lost its meaning, women are sick of it and many compliments, I hasten to add not all women | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. Do you not ask? I’m adult enough to gage if what I say in a PM will be well received or not. I can’t remember ever being pulled up in a PM about it. Like I said, I would never use the word ‘babe’. Then I don’t understand? If you aren’t using pet names, what’s the issue? I also don’t understand why not liking pet names screams desperation. The OP asked about the word ‘baby’ which she said she finds cringy. I agree and in my opinion screams of desperation. It’s not difficult to understand "My covid brain is not working, it’s ok to not understand something and to ask. | |||
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"I‘m not treading on eggshells wondering if something I say will be well received by a potential ’play mate’. If they don’t like it then they’re not on my wavelength, no biggy really. The whole ‘babe’ thing screams of shear desperation, in my honest and humble opinion. on whose part and why desperation some people naturally say babe as part of their everyday communication with others, women say it to guys also, the main problem here is that women receive so many messages that it's lost its meaning, women are sick of it and many compliments, I hasten to add not all women "I think the OP is discussing random guy’s messaging her and calling her babe in availed attempt to get into her knickers. | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x" Don’t worry about it Doll Face | |||
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"Hate pet names and nicknames. Both suggest that the person using them thinks of you as an object rather than a person. Hun is my least favourite. I would rather be called Attila lol. Strange concept, use a person’s name or username. These usually don’t offend." Agreed | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x Don’t worry about it Doll Face "Don't mind Doll face as long as they are referring my likeness to Chucky | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x Don’t worry about it Doll Face
Don't mind Doll face as long as they are referring my likeness to Chucky "Nobody puts baby in the corner | |||
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"Do you like being called "baby" by some random? I find it so cringy especially when they are younger than me x Don’t worry about it Doll Face
Don't mind Doll face as long as they are referring my likeness to Chucky "If I got you as that doll for Xmas, I’d be excited to take you to my bed  | |||
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"I have been getting this a lot in my recent messages and it really boils my piss for some reason. Baby is a personal thing to me and being called it by a complete stranger is just a no go Chrissy x" Agree xx | |||
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"I have been getting this a lot in my recent messages and it really boils my piss for some reason. Baby is a personal thing to me and being called it by a complete stranger is just a no go Chrissy x Agree xx" My pet name is Minnie, she's a lovely 8 year old tortoiseshell. That's the only pet name I'll use. | |||
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