FabSwingers.com forum: i know this happens but makes me grrrrr

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

been chatting to this couple , mostly me the fem and the other fem , getting on great chatting the small stuff throwing in a fair bit of flirty banter , same from both sides, saying we are going to see them new year when everything we both got going on at home has calmed down etc , all of a sudden deleted . We messaged wondering if it was an accident (maybe even on my part) sent another friends request, sent a message saying if we have done said anything were sorry and take care and good luck type of thing - and nothing - theyve been on read the messages , kept some and deleted some. ,. Not going to be a pest and mither them but from going from at least a couple of messages a day to nothing still kind of hurts and to be honest we find very rude . Ok moan over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had similar.. seemed like we were all getting on great.. had a few girly fone calls - and the guys chatted to and we all had a bit of a laugh on webcams together.. etc

suppose we were lucky - as we did get a sorry "we need to leave the site" and away they went..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Annoying thing to happen and rude in my opinion although many people get so many messages they might have felt you weren't their type after all and block you so you don't waste your time.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Theres nowt stranger than folk.....

Dont let it get you down. I used to let it get to me, blamed myself etc, but now i realise that although I am genuine, not everyone else is.

Move on and stay confident.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"been chatting to this couple , mostly me the fem and the other fem , getting on great chatting the small stuff throwing in a fair bit of flirty banter , same from both sides, saying we are going to see them new year when everything we both got going on at home has calmed down etc , all of a sudden deleted . We messaged wondering if it was an accident (maybe even on my part) sent another friends request, sent a message saying if we have done said anything were sorry and take care and good luck type of thing - and nothing - theyve been on read the messages , kept some and deleted some. ,. Not going to be a pest and mither them but from going from at least a couple of messages a day to nothing still kind of hurts and to be honest we find very rude . Ok moan over"

Maybe they have issues at the moment. Back off for a while and try again later. If they delete your message again - take it as a NO. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

after all the messages just one saying a change of heart would have been nice - we ourselves reply to all messages and have told people from the off if theyre not what we looking for etc -most reply with a thanks for letting us know and no hard feelings which leaves us feeling ok about the human race

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

they do have some home stuff going on as we both do at the moment - in fact it was some of this that seemed to gel the friendship - never mind onwards into next year we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens quite a lot for us, can't seem to sort a meet even after phone calls fem/fem, loads of chat get on friends list and then comes the silence crazy but think that just the way it is j

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