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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know you found THE RIGHT ONE?

When you love 'annoying' them and they find it adorable.

How do You know?

Go!

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I know I've found the right one when they are replying to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When silence is comfortable and shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew as soon as I saw her. Dunno why.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The moment their lips wrap around my bobbies helmet she’s ‘the one’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just know.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You just know.

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just know.

I know

I love how you know.

We would be so good together Rex. Please just leave your imaginary wife already and let me finger your asshole each and every night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know. It's hard to describe but you definitely know.

MrWho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just know.

I know

I love how you know.

We would be so good together Rex. Please just leave your imaginary wife already and let me finger your asshole each and every night."

Guys I don't usually cry but...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You just know.

I know

I love how you know.

We would be so good together Rex. Please just leave your imaginary wife already and let me finger your asshole each and every night."

I would love a wife who loves fingering my bullet hole who’s not imaginary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You just know.

I know

I love how you know.

We would be so good together Rex. Please just leave your imaginary wife already and let me finger your asshole each and every night.

I would love a wife who loves fingering my bullet hole who’s not imaginary "

You know when rex has found the one when his penis hole moulds into a smile

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift.

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

Just before we were married (a few weeks ago) Belle said to me "To understand it, we had to find it."

I dont know how I knew when we met, but I did.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

When you can read each others minds... literally. Watching television or walking down the street and you know what the other is thinking

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies"

I'd say that might be leaving it a little late

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

When he's an absolute dick but you still make his coffee how he likes it and love the bedtime cuddles, all whilst wanting to poke him in the eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know you found THE RIGHT ONE?

When you love 'annoying' them and they find it adorable.

How do You know?

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no idea, I've been single 5 years

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"You know. It's hard to describe but you definitely know.

MrWho."

Very true

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift."

This. THIS.

They just feel like home.

I had this with someone here once upon a time. We just were. His embrace felt like home. Liked I always belonged there.

The last one was tough to let go, we both felt it, knowing it was probably the last time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift.

This. THIS.

They just feel like home.

I had this with someone here once upon a time. We just were. His embrace felt like home. Liked I always belonged there.

The last one was tough to let go, we both felt it, knowing it was probably the last time.

Oh I do agree - 'they just feel like HOME'

PERFECT.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies"

Do you mean you can only appreciate it once it's gone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just before we were married (a few weeks ago) Belle said to me "To understand it, we had to find it."

I dont know how I knew when we met, but I did."

Sincere congratulations

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

The voices told me so

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

You just feel it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You just feel it...

Do you experience it physically too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When silence is comfortable and shared.

That's interesting. Cosy silence is a tale teller indeed. Just being someone's space keeper.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies

Do you mean you can only appreciate it once it's gone?"

No, you appreciate it when you're together but when they die it feels like your heart has been ripped out. There's a big hole in your life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies

Do you mean you can only appreciate it once it's gone?

No, you appreciate it when you're together but when they die it feels like your heart has been ripped out. There's a big hole in your life."

It's fascinating how sometimes old couples die shortly within of each other. It's like they cannot carry on without their other half isn't it?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"How do you know you found THE RIGHT ONE?

When you love 'annoying' them and they find it adorable.

How do You know?

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When they make you a simp card and send it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just know ..the trick is to know when you know , if you let that fish back into the water you will never..ever .. catch it again ..you will know what it happens ...make sure you realize it then .

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"How do you know you found THE RIGHT ONE?

When you love 'annoying' them and they find it adorable.

How do You know?

Go!

The right one usually sits beside the left one - unless the dog stole it

I'm sure my trainers are annoyed when I put my feet in - not much they can do about it

Mrs

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies

Do you mean you can only appreciate it once it's gone?

No, you appreciate it when you're together but when they die it feels like your heart has been ripped out. There's a big hole in your life.

It's fascinating how sometimes old couples die shortly within of each other. It's like they cannot carry on without their other half isn't it?"

What are you trying to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When he's an absolute dick but you still make his coffee how he likes it and love the bedtime cuddles, all whilst wanting to poke him in the eye

This.

Still make his morning cuppa. Granted...I may spit in it but I've never claimed to be an angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know you found THE RIGHT ONE?

When you love 'annoying' them and they find it adorable.

How do You know?

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I tend to find they are the one, when they don't want to be with me and prefer someone else. I then like to put myself through an untold amount of heartache and upset, before realising I'm being ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he finds my humour humorous and thinks I am as funny as I perceive myself to be (fair fucks, I am funny like) and likes munching as much as I do then were onto something good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I find him, I'll let you know. Slippery buggers these men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I find him, I'll let you know. Slippery buggers these men

Fishy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies

Do you mean you can only appreciate it once it's gone?

No, you appreciate it when you're together but when they die it feels like your heart has been ripped out. There's a big hole in your life.

It's fascinating how sometimes old couples die shortly within of each other. It's like they cannot carry on without their other half isn't it?

What are you trying to say?

Just that two people can be so attached to each other that their heart gradually breaks leading to joining their late partner. What did you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I find him, I'll let you know. Slippery buggers these men

Fishy!

I would settle for a merman too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you know you found THE RIGHT ONE?

When you love 'annoying' them and they find it adorable.

How do You know?

Go!

Not ridiculous. Just little but late catching up on owns feelings I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I find him, I'll let you know. Slippery buggers these men

Fishy!

I would settle for a merman too

Keep swimming dear. You'll bump into one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you both think you’re the lucky one

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"I think you only know when you are with someone until one of you dies

Do you mean you can only appreciate it once it's gone?

No, you appreciate it when you're together but when they die it feels like your heart has been ripped out. There's a big hole in your life.

It's fascinating how sometimes old couples die shortly within of each other. It's like they cannot carry on without their other half isn't it?

What are you trying to say?

Just that two people can be so attached to each other that their heart gradually breaks leading to joining their late partner. What did you think?"

That you thought I (we) were old. My "right one" was 60.

And it's not a gradual breaking of the heart. It's very sudden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time"

^^this

Plus just knowing they're off somewhere doing 'them' things being 'them' and soon you'll see them and touch & smell them and when your senses are full of them you breathe deeper and easier than when they are far away. It's like your soul rests because it is no longer searching. The peace....is immense.

But you are energised by their presence also. Life comes in to It's sharpest resolution. Appetites are whetted for more of everything that pleases you and them. A hunger for living life to it's fullest with a sidekick and co-conspirator...

They are the one you want to tell first, see first, hear first.

They are the one...

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

You just know. Nobody else gets you the way this person has. You understand each others body language, you can read their feelings as the barriets are down. you can't wait for their touch, kiss or holding your hands. Its a connection like no other you have experienced. You can't wait to be with them and hate it when they leave to even go to work as you could spend every min of the day with them. You sleep better when they are beside you and sleep worse when they are not there. You just can't be without them. That my friends is a deep and passionate love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time

^^this

They are the one you want to tell first, see first, hear first.

They are the one..."

Oh I just love this reply!!I would like this..

.until then really hot men please message... I'm.likely to ignore the message but I'm pretty crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find the one ?

That’s easy ; Just follow the signs :

1 - ignores you .

2 - blocks you .

That’s the one . I have a bag full of ones .

Does anyone want one ?

Helps yourselfs of my 1 o 111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111

No . This one here no . This one is special n I really like her . Not 100% she knows it

Maybe one day she will find out .

I said No . Get off . There … plenty in the “ up for grabs bag “ as many ones as u need ^^

I had 10 min sleep

and have my daughter tomorrow

can’t sleep

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Knowing you can say what you feel

Crying without feeling ridiculous

That electricity of touch

That knowing look

Finishing the others sentence

Physically needing to be with them

Knowing that it is ok to be apart

When you feel the pain/joy/ambivalence they do

When you want to and actually do become a better human being because of them

Doing that thing they love

Ignoring that thing you dont

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift."

Beautifully put Meli. I had this once

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I’m not sure there is one right one. Right ones seem to come along when you need them but I know it because it’s an amazing feeling. The feeling of just knowing, of not being afraid, of finishing sentences or typing the same word at the same time. It’s an electric shock when touched. Feeling like your face hurts with smiling. Knowing that however short or long this person is around that they are the person that you think about when you wake up and the last thing on your mind at the end of the day.

Oooooh it’s just lovely.

V x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift."

Awwww….. until it ends then you struggle to get to work without throwing up , for weeks, months , waking up out of dreams half thinking it was all a dream and then BANG ….. and eventually shrivel up and turn into a horrible little raisen

But yeah nice while it’s good

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

When they vanish from your Fab life through natural attrition, for whatever reason, leaving behind indelible memories and the residual fragments of their existence...that's how I know she was the one¹.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

If I ever find it, I'll let you know (I won't, I'll be too happy to give a fuck)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you both think you’re the lucky one "

Ah i say that often. Thanks for sharing this sentiment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I ever find it, I'll let you know (I won't, I'll be too happy to give a fuck)"

Happiness as a journey rather than a destination?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When they vanish from your Fab life through natural attrition, for whatever reason, leaving behind indelible memories and the residual fragments of their existence...that's how I know she was the one¹."

Any chance she might return? People do change their hearts. Some.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s so rare I click like that with someone that it’s like a party popper/fireworks go off over their head. I take that as a sign.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not sure there is one right one. Right ones seem to come along when you need them but I know it because it’s an amazing feeling. The feeling of just knowing, of not being afraid, of finishing sentences or typing the same word at the same time. It’s an electric shock when touched. Feeling like your face hurts with smiling. Knowing that however short or long this person is around that they are the person that you think about when you wake up and the last thing on your mind at the end of the day.

Oooooh it’s just lovely.

V x "

Feeling like your face hurts when smiling. Heh. I relate! My dimples get numb

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s so rare I click like that with someone that it’s like a party popper/fireworks go off over their head. I take that as a sign.

An aura of love!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift.

Beautifully put Meli. I had this once "

Do you think you can have it more than once?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift.

But yeah nice while it’s good

Wouldn't ones soul be poorer without that experience though ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You just know. Nobody else gets you the way this person has. You understand each others body language, you can read their feelings as the barriets are down. you can't wait for their touch, kiss or holding your hands. Its a connection like no other you have experienced. You can't wait to be with them and hate it when they leave to even go to work as you could spend every min of the day with them. You sleep better when they are beside you and sleep worse when they are not there. You just can't be without them. That my friends is a deep and passionate love. "

They truly become almost engraved into your existence.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We were 13 and 14 just kids but it felt right from the first date ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find the one ?

That’s easy ; Just follow the signs :

1 - ignores you .

2 - blocks you .

That’s the one . I have a bag full of ones .

Does anyone want one ?

Helps yourselfs of my 1 o 111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111

No . This one here no . This one is special n I really like her . Not 100% she knows it

Maybe one day she will find out .

I said No . Get off . There … plenty in the “ up for grabs bag “ as many ones as u need ^^

I had 10 min sleep

and have my daughter tomorrow

can’t sleep

Sometimes I found that putting others first too early backfires. You focus on adoring you. Developing you. Growing you. Getting to know you. It will come.

Hope you managed to get some sleep. Enjoy your daughter and relax.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was 41 when i found the one. He was 64. Despite the age difference I just knew id never felt like it with anyone else. I just knew we would always be together until death parted us.

Sadly my beloved jay passed away on 17th of october. Theres no words to describe how i feel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Knowing you can say what you feel

Crying without feeling ridiculous

That electricity of touch

That knowing look

Finishing the others sentence

Physically needing to be with them

Knowing that it is ok to be apart

When you feel the pain/joy/ambivalence they do

When you want to and actually do become a better human being because of them

Doing that thing they love

Ignoring that thing you dont

You grow without a pressure, don't you. You don't settle, you evolve. "Become a better human being".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a tingly sensation in my balls x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I get a tingly sensation in my balls x"

Isn’t that just lust? Or full balls? Or an itch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a tingly sensation in my balls x

Isn’t that just lust? Or full balls? Or an itch? "

Wow what happened to you that you are that much of a cold soul? It's LOVE Luna, LOVE

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was 41 when i found the one. He was 64. Despite the age difference I just knew id never felt like it with anyone else. I just knew we would always be together until death parted us.

Sadly my beloved jay passed away on 17th of october. Theres no words to describe how i feel"

I am so sorry to read this. I cannot imagine the pain of your loss and how it must feel, so fresh and so heartbreaking to say goodbye to your loved one.

I hope this post doesn't impact in a negative way, but on the contrary, brings those loving memories, even if the smiles are accompanied by tears. Hugs...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We were 13 and 14 just kids but it felt right from the first date ..."

I was a witness to few relationships starting like that. It always felt so surreal to me but it worked! Not for all. But quite few. My congratulations.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I was 41 when i found the one. He was 64. Despite the age difference I just knew id never felt like it with anyone else. I just knew we would always be together until death parted us.

Sadly my beloved jay passed away on 17th of october. Theres no words to describe how i feel

I am so sorry to read this. I cannot imagine the pain of your loss and how it must feel, so fresh and so heartbreaking to say goodbye to your loved one.

I hope this post doesn't impact in a negative way, but on the contrary, brings those loving memories, even if the smiles are accompanied by tears. Hugs...

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No its not affecting me in a negative way. Ive started using the forums again which i havent for over a year. Although im heartbroken i keep smiling at the happy memories which are many

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over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time

^^this

They are the one you want to tell first, see first, hear first.

They are the one..."

The pattern of enhancement is quite palpable at times. The excitement tastes better and the tranquility feels as protective bubble from the world's challenges.

Being priority and making someone experience that, simply is such a mind transformation. A domino of self love begins. Blessing to those damaged hearts, who through discovering wonders of affection get healed, like a broken ceramic piece filled with molten gold and reassembled to everyone's amuse.

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over a year ago

"I was 41 when i found the one. He was 64. Despite the age difference I just knew id never felt like it with anyone else. I just knew we would always be together until death parted us.

Sadly my beloved jay passed away on 17th of october. Theres no words to describe how i feel

I am so sorry to read this. I cannot imagine the pain of your loss and how it must feel, so fresh and so heartbreaking to say goodbye to your loved one.

I hope this post doesn't impact in a negative way, but on the contrary, brings those loving memories, even if the smiles are accompanied by tears. Hugs...

No its not affecting me in a negative way. Ive started using the forums again which i havent for over a year. Although im heartbroken i keep smiling at the happy memories which are many"

I am glad. Wouldn't want to add more hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he finds my humour humorous and thinks I am as funny as I perceive myself to be (fair fucks, I am funny like) and likes munching as much as I do then were onto something good

Commonalities in daily habits certainly help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When he's an absolute dick but you still make his coffee how he likes it and love the bedtime cuddles, all whilst wanting to poke him in the eye

This.

Still make his morning cuppa. Granted...I may spit in it but I've never claimed to be an angel

It's not that different than sharing other fluid right?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"It works. The messages. The happiness you feel. The ease of just being in their presence. Even without words.

You can bicker. Say daft things. Wobble. But you know that they're a constant. You can be all of you. Accepted. Loved.

You can't imagine them not in your life in some sort of capacity. Ever. They make you better. Your life. Your desire to be.

They feel like the comfiest of blankets and at the same time one of the most exhilarating adventures you've had.

And they light up your soul in a way that feels foreign and ever so familiar at the same time.*

*This post is sponsored by passionfruit mojitos, soppy bitches everywhere and Taylor Swift.

Beautifully put Meli. I had this once

Do you think you can have it more than once? "

I hope so. It’s evaded me so far. My husband died 9 years ago

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I know when I know

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Some people like to think they’ve found the right one. I suppose they are the right one until they become the wrong one, which can happen more often for some people than for others.

Who knows?

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over a year ago

"Some people like to think they’ve found the right one. I suppose they are the right one until they become the wrong one, which can happen more often for some people than for others.

Who knows?

It all down to perspective and time situated

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over a year ago

"Some people like to think they’ve found the right one. I suppose they are the right one until they become the wrong one, which can happen more often for some people than for others.

Who knows?

It all down to perspective and time situated

It is *"

Is*

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Some people like to think they’ve found the right one. I suppose they are the right one until they become the wrong one, which can happen more often for some people than for others.

Who knows?

It all down to perspective and time situated "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people like to think they’ve found the right one. I suppose they are the right one until they become the wrong one, which can happen more often for some people than for others.

Who knows?

They know. Until they don't anymore. And then they know again. Person is usually right or not. Sometimes timing is a bitch, sometimes it's outside interference.

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

Whe. You can both just be yourselves without needing to fear scaring/upsetting the other one. When you both can read the other ones moods well enough to understand when a hug and reassurance is needed, or just some space.

Irs a million other things. But that's just 2

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