FabSwingers.com forum: Ever been accused of "not being real"?

By *InKent OP Couple
over a year ago

sittingbourne

Couple months back had a message from a singleton, usual high, how you doing, responded politely saying very well thanks. That was followed up by can I come to yours tonight? Which we politely declined.

Then we had a stream of messages stating we weren't "real" as we declined the kind invitation to visit. Being bored on the commute home we actually had a ping pong dialogue explained that the sites not a knocking shop where you think anyone with a profile will fuck you because you asked?

Finished with "you're both fake & should be kicked off FAB!" All biazzare, bearing in mind we have plenty of history on here but our individual was convinced it was all fake.

Anyone else suffered similar where people spiral their dummies our if you say no thanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time.

People don’t believe that “Tom Hardy” is on fab.

Their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been called fake, but have been called a timewaster because I dont want to meet single guys currently

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Couple months back had a message from a singleton, usual high, how you doing, responded politely saying very well thanks."

This was your mistake, learn from it then you winter need to make whiny posts again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on this but other apps yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called fake by someone after pointing out the pics they sent me had numerous hits on tineye and asking when they'd given up doing porn in the USA

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"All the time.

People don’t believe that “Tom Hardy” is on fab.

Their loss. "

Do you get a better response if you tell them it is Laurel and Hardy?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve had it a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time.

People don’t believe that “Tom Hardy” is on fab.

Their loss.

Do you get a better response if you tell them it is Laurel and Hardy?"

Only on my couples profile.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes a woman contacted me, polite chit chat but when I said I wouldn’t share a face pic as I had no intention of meeting she got abusive, told me I was fake and was going to report me.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think it's easier for them to believe you're fake ,instead of that you don't want to meet them op.

Some are properly entitled and think a reply means they are in ,years ago I answered a message and later when I said no to ta meeting he asked why I'd replied ?!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not been called fake, but have been called a timewaster because I dont want to meet single guys currently

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Had a cpl that I pulled out of a 4 way meet on as male on my side couldn't make it. Explained a few days ahead it wasn't going to work for me either then. Got numerous messages stating I'd wasted their time/they'd gone out of their way to arrange (they'd not). Loads of guilt tripping... Basically I didn't want to have sex with them

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

Yup. A lot. Even when we had verifications from socials and meets.

Now I embrace the fact I don't exist. I'm just words on a website and that's ok.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Baiting.. Walk away and allow your silence be the loudest message..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes a woman contacted me, polite chit chat but when I said I wouldn’t share a face pic as I had no intention of meeting she got abusive, told me I was fake and was going to report me.

I assume she went with her gut. Nice race tough

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Got called "childish" for not wanting a solo meet with a guy a little while ago, if that counts.

Been accused of being fake several times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get stuff like that all the time because I decline random meets from random people.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Given my profile name you'd think they wouldn't dare call me out.

I tend not to react in the way many people expect which in itself upsets them.

So if they come at me blowing smoke up my arse and then follow that up with a quick mood change when I don't reciprocate the smoke blowing I ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly, but the medication and regular electro therapy have helped calm the voices down.

A little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, on my Nell profile. It was on a forum thread too, so all very public. The guy in question thought I was a bloke and that I'd stol*n my own pics. He was very sweet and apologetic when I dm'd him and proved I was me by mentioning things we'd discussed im private in previous years.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Usually when I cum.

It’s just a puff of dust these days

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Usually when I cum.

It’s just a puff of dust these days

Fuck you've never been sexier to me. Forget the soppiness in my box, fill me with tales of your old age.

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By *InKent OP Couple
over a year ago

sittingbourne

"Given my profile name you'd think they wouldn't dare call me out.

I tend not to react in the way many people expect which in itself upsets them.

So if they come at me blowing smoke up my arse and then follow that up with a quick mood change when I don't reciprocate the smoke blowing I ignore them. "

We are always polite, 99/100 messages reply, that particular day just say on train for commute home together, with nothing else to do entered into a dialogue to try and understand their logic, well at least u till it was our stop!

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Yes I get accused of being fake ...but I am what I am..a young 53yo

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes.

Mainly when I wouldn’t send them photos

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and it's usually just a couple of bits of me that people accuse of not being real

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I suppose ultimately I don't believe most people online are real.

I am on other platforms and I rarely believe that the person messaging me is what they say they are.

Here it's different. People have profiles and verifications and distinct personalities. I don't care if the profile posting on a thread is a dude or a chick or a dude pretending to be a better version of themselves or a chick pretending to be 10 years younger.

If things progress to a different stage of familiarity then maybe "reality" becomes important.

Also it's just occurred to me that fake profiles might be profiles who have no interest in meeting and are *just* here to be time wasters. Which might be just a blind spot to me. Maybe that's how other people have always seen it.

If so we need a face plant emoji inserted here

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Yes had it a couple of times from men I've never even spoken to, they just msg me to tell me I'm fake really a man and they were blocking me, don't understand the need to tell me they are blocking me as I had no clue who they were in the first place.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Maybe I have just been someone’s imaginary friend all my life

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We were accused of not being real because I didn't want to video call someone who I wasn't interested in meeting.

We're definitely fake.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Yep, on another site, I had a photo of me holding a towel "hands free" if you catch my drift.

Guy messages me saying (no previous history)

"yes mate, we can all use Photoshop..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing is

Nope I don’t

And my pics can be found on loads off web sites

Mmmm odd that isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happens to me because I can't meet a time she wants

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"All the time.

People don’t believe that “Tom Hardy” is on fab.

Their loss. "
Tom Hardy can I have your autograph please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had the same accusation when I lost my erection at hull’s gloryhole in September.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, got accused of being a fake because I didn’t want to meet a couple but in my profile says I’m bisexual. I am but, I just don’t want to meet couples that want to use me to fulfill THEIR fantasies and not to create a scenario that satisfies everyone involved. Have blocked couples from messaging me ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a fake once on a different site.

I had sent a rather demure face photo and the recipient said "those tits don't go with that face" and claimed I had pilfered the tit pic from internet.

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

A couple of times, almost had me an existential crisis.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Just the once, can’t say it bothers me though

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

lancs

Yep every female that messages me thinks im fake, if i was faje ild look alot better then i do

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Ahhhh yes I recall a forumite accusing me of being a man. Took great pleasure in having a dig at any opportunity. I was a silhouette when I used to meet so ppl are sceptical although I think this had more to do with refusing to meet

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yes often and normally after saying no thanks

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Nobody thinks I’m fake because a fake profile would be better looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago at a festival I wasn’t even sure I was real.

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By *InKent OP Couple
over a year ago

sittingbourne

"Many years ago at a festival I wasn’t even sure I was real. "

We've had some of those moments!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Sometimes fake, sometimes a time waster as I don’t want to meet them within the next hour from a first message yawn.

I am totally fake

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

I moved on up out of the ghetto so I ain't real now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes im often called too good to be true and it turns out i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably get those every other day. Block, delete and move on x

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Quite a few times, one guy even asked me why I was stealing pics from Google

he told me I was fake and my pics weren't mine

I then replied saying if I was going to 'steal' womens pics from Google I'd make sure the woman was a lot hotter than me!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

All the time.

Usually from people with no pictures or just multiple cock shots. They mostly have no verifications despite being her for ages, and often the profile info is scant.

Interestingly, it's usually when I ask them to explain which part of 'not seeking men' they didn't think applied to them.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Usually when I cum.

It’s just a puff of dust these days

Fuck you've never been sexier to me. Forget the soppiness in my box, fill me with tales of your old age."

Soppiness in your box… you been stealing Prosecco again?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, a few times!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"Couple months back had a message from a singleton, usual high, how you doing, responded politely saying very well thanks. That was followed up by can I come to yours tonight? Which we politely declined.

Finished with "you're both fake & should be kicked off FAB!" All biazzare, bearing in mind we have plenty of history on here but our individual was convinced it was all fake.

Anyone else suffered similar where people spiral their dummies our if you say no thanks?"

Yeah had a few like this

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I was once accused of being fake by someone with no veris. I pointed him in the direction of my 50 plus public visible verifications, including many by some of the most frequent contributors to the forums...

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We we're out dogging one night. I fem didn't get the vibe from the chap who was chatting to us. So we declined.

He was telling us all about " dogging, as he'd been doing it for 9 months". How its done ect ect. When we said no, he accused us of being newbies and dick teasers.

. I have stockings older than the 9 months he's been dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think sometimes ppl don't realise this is not like a dating site, it's about being able to have the option if that person's for you or not, unfortunately ppl seem to take this heart

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Couple months back had a message from a singleton, usual high, how you doing, responded politely saying very well thanks.

This was your mistake, learn from it then you winter need to make whiny posts again

What is the forum for if not whining and queries??? I ask thee! - Xeno

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

No i’m not even that lucky

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You've been on here long enough to know that's just something people say when knocked back. It is obvious from a quick glance at your account that ye are a real account. So I really don't know why it would bother you that some random person calls you fake. Especially still after a few months.

I've been called it a few times do I give a damn ...nope not at all.It usually comes from people and couples who think you should drop everything to meet them.Or because I won't do sex talk,send pics on demand or give them my phone number. I couldn't care less if they think I am a fake because of it. Because they are not people I would want to meet or interact anymore with anyhow. And the fact they showed their attitude stinks is the equivalent of the rubbish taking itself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was online at 3am and had 2 different men saying I'm fake. Apparently women on a sex site can't be gay, they must want to fuck men. Silly me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I was online at 3am and had 2 different men saying I'm fake. Apparently women on a sex site can't be gay, they must want to fuck men. Silly me.

I've had a couple of people say they thought you and I were the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I’m a fake , a liar , a cheater , and I’m a slag cause I had sex with a black Caribbean lady .

How a fake managed a meet is my favourite part

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I was online at 3am and had 2 different men saying I'm fake. Apparently women on a sex site can't be gay, they must want to fuck men. Silly me.

Yes, obviously you must be fake because lesbian sex has not been invented yet

And any woman that has ever had sex with a man cannot possibly ever want to have sex with a woman

And women who like women must be totally repulsed by the concept of a website where they can chat with both women and men about topics that include sex plus every other possible topic

And also nobody has ever met you (except for the people that have met you) so definitely yes you must be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being god almighty, I am often accused of not being real.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Many many times.

And also being a fat ugly cunt when I say no, instead of the beautiful milf I was before I said no.

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By *InKent OP Couple
over a year ago

sittingbourne

"You've been on here long enough to know that's just something people say when knocked back. It is obvious from a quick glance at your account that ye are a real account. So I really don't know why it would bother you that some random person calls you fake. Especially still after a few months.

No it never bothered us, out of boredom o train asked questions to see where thete logic came from. Interesting to see we aren't alone with interacting with oddballs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was online at 3am and had 2 different men saying I'm fake. Apparently women on a sex site can't be gay, they must want to fuck men. Silly me.

I've had a couple of people say they thought you and I were the same person. "

Oh no, I'm so sorry! You're great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was online at 3am and had 2 different men saying I'm fake. Apparently women on a sex site can't be gay, they must want to fuck men. Silly me.

Yes, obviously you must be fake because lesbian sex has not been invented yet

And any woman that has ever had sex with a man cannot possibly ever want to have sex with a woman

And women who like women must be totally repulsed by the concept of a website where they can chat with both women and men about topics that include sex plus every other possible topic

And also nobody has ever met you (except for the people that have met you) so definitely yes you must be fake

I am merely a figment of your imagination Polly. No more cheese before bedtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes! Mainly by the pic-hunters irked that I can't (because of my career) post face pics for all and sundry

"Meh.... you MUST be fake then"

...says profile with a silhouette, no green flag and no veri's to a profile meet verified over 50 times!

Teehee!

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’ve been accused of being fake as we don’t have face pictures on public display on our profile.

Was a moment when we unblocked single males.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Yes, we had a single woman messaging and saying she thought I (Luke) was a fantasist and that Hannah either didn't exist or had no interest in being on this scene with me. The verifications and photos didn't mean anything to her as they could be faked.

I repeatedly asked her what evidence she had that's what was actually happening and she would never admit that she didn't have any. It was all very strange. It was the only time that Hannah said we should block somebody.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

No, not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time.

People don’t believe that “Tom Hardy” is on fab.

Their loss. "

I've met a few Tom Hardlys ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes today from a single guy blank unverified profile who prefers quality over quantity with an age restriction of 18-99

Hmmm ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finished with "you're both fake & should be kicked off FAB!" All biazzare, bearing in mind we have plenty of history on here but our individual was convinced it was all fake.

Anyone else suffered similar where people spiral their dummies our if you say no thanks?"

Had a message from a female who didn't agree with my profile though,would l be untrue to myself if l changed it just for her ? ..course l would ..my page my profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On dating apps yes. They see my body and start saying that there's no way someone that looks like me would be interested in a bigger girl like them, and I'm just insulting them for the laugh.

Little do they know, they are exactly the type I go for and I'm not joking. Unfortunately they delete me before I can tell them that. That's why I gave them up.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I assume everyone that hasn't met me thinks I'm fake, it numbs the sadness a little and means I don't have to reach for the kleenex (mansize) when I don't get a meet

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Yep. Apparently my pics are fake, I’m married and I don’t live in Devon. Never mind eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume everyone that hasn't met me thinks I'm fake, it numbs the sadness a little and means I don't have to reach for the kleenex (mansize) when I don't get a meet "

Heavy cummer eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I’ve been accused of not being real

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I assume everyone that hasn't met me thinks I'm fake, it numbs the sadness a little and means I don't have to reach for the kleenex (mansize) when I don't get a meet

Heavy cummer eh

My friends know

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

On this profile no, but on my singles profile many a time I was, mostly when I didn't reply or it was there opening line

Tg x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. There are some dimmerwits who strangely assume that any person logged in requires others for sex ASAP and thus anyone who generously takes them up on their offer should be furnished with sexual delirium promptly. Anyone not honouring their sexual invitations are obviously fakes.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"On dating apps yes. They see my body and start saying that there's no way someone that looks like me would be interested in a bigger girl like them, and I'm just insulting them for the laugh.

Little do they know, they are exactly the type I go for and I'm not joking. Unfortunately they delete me before I can tell them that. That's why I gave them up. "

Actually just having a conversation about this very thing on a post i created earlier.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No one's ever called me a fake. I'm not sure if that's because I seem sincere or because no one cares enough to be bothered

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"On dating apps yes. They see my body and start saying that there's no way someone that looks like me would be interested in a bigger girl like them, and I'm just insulting them for the laugh.

Little do they know, they are exactly the type I go for and I'm not joking. Unfortunately they delete me before I can tell them that. That's why I gave them up. "

As someone that's been in that position, I think some of it stems from the bad eggs on sites like this and dating sites, they give you a bit of self disbelief in the back of your mind and so become wary when you're messaged by someone you wouldn't think would be interested in you

Tg x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Yes we have been called fake, and time wasters.

People who don't like no for an answer sometimes resort to being unpleasant because they lack emotional maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes! Mainly by the pic-hunters irked that I can't (because of my career) post face pics for all and sundry

"Meh.... you MUST be fake then"

...says profile with a silhouette, no green flag and no veri's to a profile meet verified over 50 times!

Teehee! "

We used to get that when I was part of a couple's profile. #

Profiles with no green flag, no ticks and no pictures asking "Are you real???"

"No mate, we've been CGI'd by Disney Pixlar just to dupe you... on a free site"

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Its often one of the knee-jerk reactions when someone doesn't like what they've just been told.

"How DARE you not do Fab how I want you to do it!!! You... you... you can't possibly be real then!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it once or two, one was after saying no and the other was after I said I could not meet right now

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By *rettyboylloydMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Its a double edged thing. I've certainly come across fakes on here - solo men pretending to be a couple or solo men pretending just to be a woman. So I get why many are cautious as been burnt and scolded too many times in the past.

But it can be a lashing out reaction too to yet another NO or yet another rejection etc...

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Yep we have countless times, even though we have numerous meet & cam verifications, still we are a single guy looking to waste people’s time!

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By *rettyboylloydMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Yep we have countless times, even though we have numerous meet & cam verifications, still we are a single guy looking to waste people’s time! "

How dare you have such a clear and unambiguous profile and avatar pic!!! Such clarity must be fake!!!

LOL

Sympathies guys... it beggars belief, it really does.

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Yes, I have been accused of not being real, when someone had downloaded and used my photos!

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Oh yes! Mainly by the pic-hunters irked that I can't (because of my career) post face pics for all and sundry

"Meh.... you MUST be fake then"

...says profile with a silhouette, no green flag and no veri's to a profile meet verified over 50 times!

Teehee!

We used to get that when I was part of a couple's profile. #

Profiles with no green flag, no ticks and no pictures asking "Are you real???"

"No mate, we've been CGI'd by Disney Pixlar just to dupe you... on a free site"

This used to happen to me all the time to me. It wasn't until I was verified by c.25 people that guys stopped asking me if I was real. Now it's the hot guys saying that they don't get rejected/ people refuse to meet them because the other party thinks they are fake!

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By *InKent OP Couple
over a year ago

sittingbourne

"Yes we have been called fake, and time wasters.

People who don't like no for an answer sometimes resort to being unpleasant because they lack emotional maturity.

And that's exactly why we definitely give them a wide berth then, now and anytime in the future!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finished with "you're both fake & should be kicked off FAB!" All biazzare, bearing in mind we have plenty of history on here but our individual was convinced it was all fake.

Anyone else suffered similar where people spiral their dummies our if you say no thanks?"

All the time. Guys don’t like being turned down and couples are sometimes worse.

We are looking for a handful of people to meet now and again but, apparently, not being ready to go now, for anybody, means that we aren’t real. The irony is, the people rejected are happy to overlook their objections until they can’t get their end away.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

It is obvious that this happens a lot.

I have had it in all the various forms …. Fake , time waster etc.

I give people one chance at being reasonable and I explain my situation, if they continue to be silly about it all. I block them.

If they are abusive I block and report!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Been accused of being ‘unreal’ - a dream, a fantasy

*stands on top of a rock and sticks out chest

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Not on here, but I often get labelled as a troll because of my depression. People can't seem to accept that maybe some me guys out there are sexless depressed losers. It's mind boggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody said my pictures were fake because I look like some celebrity called Adam Sandler but mama said he’s a handsome man so I took it as a compliment.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Hahaha I’ve been told I’m not real and I’m a time waster ,,,,,,,,, the person claiming I’m fake usually has no pics and no verifications.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Honestly a few times yeah because I can’t meet at a drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was called fake - I said if I was a fake I would pick more attractive pics than my mug haha

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Theres a distinction between being fake and not telling the whole truth

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By *entonMan
over a year ago

watford

"Hahaha I’ve been told I’m not real and I’m a time waster ,,,,,,,,, the person claiming I’m fake usually has no pics and no verifications. "
hahaha definitely not a timewaster and very very real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Frequently, when working from home I am often on chat. As its only the male on cam (clothed and chatting) as Red can't work from home, we're fake.

Is a running joke that she's just a holographic projection when she does appear.

I may get her have an H on her forehead sometime

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

"Hahaha I’ve been told I’m not real and I’m a time waster ,,,,,,,,, the person claiming I’m fake usually has no pics and no verifications. hahaha definitely not a timewaster and very very real

you know x

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Another thing that some people don't realize is that some of us meet people on a regular basis without the need to verify one another, especially when it's people we have mets dozens of times and who may not be members of this site anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’ve had this, I think they are trying to get you to meet them to prove you are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I’ve had this, I think they are trying to get you to meet them to prove you are real

Yep!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ,all the time.

Usually single blokes who want DP, and when we say no we get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milli vanilli weren't

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