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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

STAY AWAY.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

"

You really have to ask?

Really ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes without saying. Stay well clear

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Play with him??? I’d be having serious words as the why he’s cheating on his wife!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Do you really need to ask?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.

This is just, *chef's kiss* beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to stay away, it probably won't end well if you don't.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some mates you are if you'd fuck him behind his wife's back!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Go for it. What could possibly go wrong……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some mates you are if you'd fuck him behind his wife's back!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are your friends in real life then surely you’d want to steer clear of putting yourself in a situation that could end their marriage.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Some mates you are if you'd fuck him behind his wife's back!"

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I feel you know the answer if you have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wot they said ^ except don’t question him on his motives for being here - it’s his journey that led him to the site for whatever reasons he has, and he will have to live with any consequences arising from it without outside assistance!

But yeah. Steer clear!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Don't even go there, that is a disaster waiting to happen if you meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many red flags do you need for it to be a no?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Block him, never mention it. Gee! Maybe he’s reading this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey, I can't believe this has attracted this much attention...especially when it's such an obvious answer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it. What could possibly go wrong……"

I'm with Nora.

Ignore that detractors.

This is going to be marvelous.

One request, please come back with regular updates.

Ta.

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Sounds like a bad idea overall I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds exciting, go for it.

But I would have just kept quiet about it, saved all the obvious comments.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Well in theory it sounds exciting.

But, in reality, if she finds out she could wring his neck and blab about so called friends turning out to be swingers who enticed her hubby to sleep with them, to anybody who will listen.

That’s the sort of thing you read in The Sun!

So if you value discretion…..maybe just block him.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We would stay well away and if I would tell his wife but that’s probably just me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I wouldn't go near him. It's too close to home and could easily get messy, especially because you know his wife.

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By *irtuousBullMan
over a year ago

lake district

It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun

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By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Take one bad situation

Chuck in two grenades

Stir it, and et voila, you’ve created a steaming shitcake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay well clear. And block his profile immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drain someone else’s balls. Not me though I’m busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun "

Men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun

Men. "

#notallmen

Wait that reads more like no tall men.

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By *acknickMan
over a year ago

london


"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

"

100% stay away. Nothing good can come of it. You'll be walking yourself into a whole load of agro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well in theory it sounds exciting.

But, in reality, if she finds out she could wring his neck and blab about so called friends turning out to be swingers who enticed her hubby to sleep with them, to anybody who will listen.

That’s the sort of thing you read in The Sun!

So if you value discretion…..maybe just block him."

Yeah, this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun

Men.

#notallmen

Wait that reads more like no tall men."

Yes. It does read like that.

*slenderman gif*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun

Men.

#notallmen

Wait that reads more like no tall men.

Yes. It does read like that.

*slenderman gif* "

Well thats my next Halloween outfit sorted.

If I ever do a Halloween themed party.

I won't.

Nice suit though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To play devil's advocate... Sure, fuck him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dangerous, very dangerous! Stay away. Simple x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As most have said ,avoid

The potential for drama is massive if she finds out .

Plus why potentially ruin a friendship too .

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Do morals just get left at the FAB door?

So because you’ve found out he’s on FAB you now think it’s ok to fuck him behind your mates back

GTFO

K

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Ask his wife if it's OK.

She may say go for it.

Or she may be surprised, angry, gobsmacked at both him and you and decide to make everyone's life hell by publicising his and your activities at the pub, supermarket, school gates etc.

Maybe take a few moments to consider the potential consequences and then weigh up if a shag is really worth it.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some mates you are if you'd fuck him behind his wife's back!"

Couldn’t agree more Sparkle…just the fact they are considering to fuck him but not telling the wife (that is supposed to be their friend too) gives me such cringe…

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Could spell disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could spell disaster. "

Could be a top shagger. Only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont fuck real life friends or there wives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

"

Are you friends with his wife? How do you know she doesn't know he's on here?

Do your other friends etc know that you are on a Swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it. It's his problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine getting asked to go round for Christmas dinner, how's your Christmas been then? Well I've been cheating on my wife if with her best friends I'm sure that would go down very well at the table

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Have you already spoken to him about this at all, is he aware you are on the site or have you just seen that he is on here and not let him know who you are yet? Certainly the risks of everything blowing up if you peruse this are very high, maybe talk to him about the ideas of ethical non manogamy although presumably he feels it’s not something he could ever talk to his wife about, or maybe she does know and is ok with him doing this sort of thing but doesn’t want that to be common knowledge.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

"
you know the answer to that so why you asking?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If I met a mate that was cheating on here I would stay away

Not worth fallout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

"

Your adults and if you want to explore it then you should

Don't place any pressure and see if they are even interested in playing

I will probably get some flack on this but ah well

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her

Is it ok to play with him in this situation..

Or should we stay away

"

How would it be if you approached him and he doesn't want to play with you guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As convenient as it would be

For friends or very local

It’s just a big no no

Fab and real world do not mix that’s how things get messy

The amount off people that don’t understand this concept is astounding to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"STAY AWAY. "

In capitals too.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

OP do what you want to.

For me the messy drama fall out is too high for a quick fuck.

Although as many have found out, the unkowing wife is probably on here having a good time

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I’m disappointed in the majority of answers I’m reading here.

Where’s your sense of adventure!

Get in there, fill yer boots, nothing ventured and all that.

Let us know how it pans out OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

As they say

Don’t shit on you’re own door step

So to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the wife hot, can I have her number?

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