FabSwingers.com forum: This site isn’t what it used to be

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what sense?

I don’t think it’s changed

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Its definitely changed in the last 5 weeks alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Care to elaborate on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but for likely massively different reasons id bet i think its more the world either way

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope it's pretty much the same as it always been since I joined it anyhow .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, the forums were way more active when everyone was forced to stay at home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In what sense?

I don’t think it’s changed "

It just seems to have dropped off a little.I’ve so many people are rude this time round!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"In what sense?

I don’t think it’s changed

It just seems to have dropped off a little.I’ve so many people are rude this time round! "

The site goes in waves of activity and it always has. It was quiet last month but this month is

I don’t find people are rude but then I am not being harassed by single guys the whole time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Care to elaborate on this?"

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's constantly changing or it would be boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "

How does that make them rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In what sense?

I don’t think it’s changed

It just seems to have dropped off a little.I’ve so many people are rude this time round! "

What is it they do that’s rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "
theres a diffrrence with talking to someone and meeting them if you didnt do a good enough job seducing them thats on you not the site really

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

How would we expect the forums to stay the same when the world around us is changing, rather rapidly, at the moment?

Forums are a reflection of society and therefore, undergo change, good and bad.

And yes, sometimes it is just a bit of luck whether a thread becomes a bit aggressive or turns out to leave me with a real good feeling about people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

How does that make them rude?"

It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tits ain't what they used to be either, that's life

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It has in Edinburgh too many flakes, it's been getting worse here for the last 6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps im a happy time waister

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

everything cahnges sometimes for the better sometimes for the worse

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Pretty much the same as it was a decade ago...only less sky remote and cock pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pretty much the same as it was a decade ago...only less sky remote and cock pictures

Haha! They do seem to

Have disappeared

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Nothing is. That’s the nature of the world; everything changes, nothing stays the same. The sooner people get that, the better off everyone will be.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"How would we expect the forums to stay the same when the world around us is changing, rather rapidly, at the moment?

Forums are a reflection of society and therefore, undergo change, good and bad.

And yes, sometimes it is just a bit of luck whether a thread becomes a bit aggressive or turns out to leave me with a real good feeling about people.

Literally my favourite person, proving why again

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Back in our day….

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"How would we expect the forums to stay the same when the world around us is changing, rather rapidly, at the moment?

Forums are a reflection of society and therefore, undergo change, good and bad.

And yes, sometimes it is just a bit of luck whether a thread becomes a bit aggressive or turns out to leave me with a real good feeling about people.

Yes well said that lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not what it was before I typed this..

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Forums have been very samey for months. Same topics posted day after day. Used to be a time where there was a lot more undividuality....x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s massively changed over the last two years…

Pretty much as Sparkles commented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was definitely better when I was younger and more desirable, yes ..

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Pretty much the same as it was a decade ago...only less sky remote and cock pictures

Haha! They do seem to

Have disappeared "

See there is a god looking after us after all!!!!!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

All anecdotal it's the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All anecdotal it's the same."

I agree

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

It’s been the same for the last 10 years, faces may change but the rest is as is

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Pretty much the same as it was a decade ago...only less sky remote and cock pictures

Haha! They do seem to

Have disappeared

See there is a god looking after us after all!!!!!

And of course a can of lynx cock shot too

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not changed for me. I just treat fab as a social club to share thoughts, ideas and humour. Works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off since around 2008. The more things change the more they stay the same. The site is not any different, how some people use it may well have. It's the people that make it good/bad/ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 3 year break..seems the same to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fab

The names change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when there wasn't any mobiles or Internet. It was definitely different

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

When I say to my kids my knees are not what they used to be! They say what are they now?? Sorry the title reminded me of this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s pretty much the same. A lot of new people using the forums but still the same topics nothing drastic is new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site been the same for 11 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know tbh, l wasn't here years ago .

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Joined in 2008. The only real difference is they've added videos.

It's the same as it ever was bar that.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I remember when this was all just fields…

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"Does anyone agree?"

Yeah, it took a massive dive when I joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember when this was all just fields…"

Haha that’s a classic!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I remember when this was all just fields…"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember when this was all just fields…"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. Have been on and off the site for years and had some good meets with all sorts. But very few these days.

A lot of my old friends seem to have vanished.

Covid to blame maybe?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I know. Fewer desperate people willing to meet us!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Does anyone agree?"

You have been on 5 weeks

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Does anyone agree?

You have been on 5 weeks "

The clue is in the OP's profile name

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

Yepp way too many fakes now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My tits ain't what they used to be either, that's life"

They're still great though to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone agree?

You have been on 5 weeks

The clue is in the OP's profile name

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Does anyone agree?

You have been on 5 weeks

The clue is in the OP's profile name

Well maybe he needs to put more effort in with his profile. It’s dire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about anyone else but I think we need Erect Jim back. The hero we need, but don't deserve right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harder to get meets and the genuine people end up leaving.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think the site is much what is always was,I can't say the same for some peoples expectations of it though to be honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they used to sell a variety of goods with affordable payment options?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did they used to sell a variety of goods with affordable payment options?"

LOL

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I remember when it was all green fields

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Nope it's pretty much the same as it always been since I joined it anyhow ."
Oh no it isn't

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

Maybe its an age thing, but ten years ago the chatrooms were good for pulling when actually used for directing. You didnt need anything esle. I once got fixed up for 8 f78ucks in one week...they all turned up.! !!!! although one actually changed his mind ( quite rife in those days) and one couldn't cum but charmingly .allowed me to explore his delightful little flower bud with considerable gusto. Putting on a live show these days can go down a little drearily. you are luckky to get two ot three wanking and no negative comments.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

How does that make them rude?

It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet "

If they don’t want to meet that is perfectly cool.. if you don’t float there boats there has never been an obligation to go any further…. That last statement almost sounded like a sense of entitlement and that you are owed just for being here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

How does that make them rude?

It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet

Not at all. We can be talking for weeks and agree to arrange a meet then nothing happens! It’s frustrating. I get people have different tastes and wants and I totally respect that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I havent been on the site for along time. Nothing has changed apart from not knowing anyone on the forums"

Your profile is hidden. Where are you from?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

How does that make them rude?

It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet

Not at all. We can be talking for weeks and agree to arrange a meet then nothing happens! It’s frustrating. I get people have different tastes and wants and I totally respect that "

….. but yet you are complaining because they are not going at a speed you want to go…. Or maybe you said something that turned the “yes I maybe want to meet “ into a “nope, not happening!”

That respect doesn’t sound like you are respecting their decisions at the moment!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive forgotten how to post

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

How does that make them rude?

It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet

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why do you use that overused word ' entitlement' it's not applicable when like the guy says he's been chatting to them for ages, an expectation would be more appropriate

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet

How does that make them rude?

It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet

why do you use that overused word ' entitlement' it's not applicable when like the guy says he's been chatting to them for ages, an expectation would be more appropriate

Why?…… if someone is a yes then a no do I owe them an explanation as to why? Is that going to change someone’s mind?

I have spoken to people and then they have something that for me was an instant turn off…

Maybe a change of mindset is what a lot of people need here! Go into everything thinking that it’s a no until told otherwise, it would save a lot of the angst some people seem to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive forgotten how to post

Hello stranger! Hope you are well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ive forgotten how to post

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hello

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "

They won't meet others who aren't mutually compatible, which most of us are not.

If you're picking an increasing proportion of incompatible people this time, compared to earlier Fab use, then you may need to improve your tactics.

Otherwise, you may not be as in demand as in the past, for whatever reasons, including greater competition.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Hello

Good to see you around Diamond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is the same. The people have made it different to what it was intended.

It’s the difference between a designer and the user.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Care to elaborate on this?

It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "

The trouble is men outnumber cpls and women 10/1 on here. Most join here thinking it will be pussy on tap but that is not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I used to shag a new hole every two days behind Aldi, but things changed after Covid. I do it every day now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone agree?"

Same old for the past 10 years.

Its what you make it. Ive had great times ive had quiet times came back several times.

Hope you find what your looking for!

Dont worry be Happy

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It's definitely got different electrons than it did last week!

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