FabSwingers.com forum: Men on here having a hard time of it

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging"

The dog ate it

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Feel better? "

Sometimes a Jeremiad is all that is needed to cleanse the soul and refresh the jaded palate. I hope the OP feels renewed.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Some men don’t do oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging, find me sweet prince!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don’t do oral? "

They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don’t do oral? "

Probably not worth reading too much into it.

Or reading at all.

Hard as it was.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some men don’t do oral?

They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)"

In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some men don’t do oral?

Probably not worth reading too much into it.

Or reading at all.

Hard as it was."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely,yet another single male bashing thread,this should be a fun read in a short while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don’t do oral?

They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)

In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that. "

I can't imagine theres many men who wouldnt on fab to be fair. But in general day to day life I know guys that don't. It may be because they aren't getting it back, who knows?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Some men don’t do oral?

They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)

In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that. "

I only do it with you because you’re my special one

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some men don’t do oral?

They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)

In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that.

I only do it with you because you’re my special one

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

We had a few disrespectful guys but we also met on out first time to chams a load of tidy guys to. Its a shame the dickheads mess it up for the good ones on here. Not all are bad guys.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We've had some fellas put real effort into messaging lately, it's refreshing and a reminder that there's a good deal of men willing to make the effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.

Oh it's totally worth it when it does work out though. And it's simple really, message, if no response or no thanks, move on. But yeah can't take it too seriously on here, it's just nice bonding with fellow kinksterss

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Some men don’t do oral? "

My favourite type of man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don’t do oral?

Probably not worth reading too much into it.

Or reading at all.

Hard as it was.

Fancy a slice?

Someone's missing theirs over here.

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes come cross two men on here who dont give oral to women

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some men don’t do oral?

My favourite type of man

Haha I’ve seen plenty women saying they don’t like receiving it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.

Exactly

I'm glad we agree! So when are where shall we meet?

JOKES

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yes come cross two men on here who dont give oral to women"

That’s about 0.0001%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

That all works both ways.

And men are not sex workers either, they are not here just to satisfy women and couples.

They are human beings with feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

….,"

Do homework? …. that sounds like school. I’m not in school.

. Don’t wrap us up in the same bunch. Cos I could say ‘some women wouldn’t know how to chat up a guy on here if their life depended it on it. (Notice I said ‘some’ but it sounds like I’m saying it about every women)

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Some men don’t do oral?

My favourite type of man

Mine too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I really don't receive a treasure trove of shite messages that the majority of women who start this sort of thread seem to. At worst I might get someone telling me they want to breed my *insert a guess at my heritage* pussy but that's about it.

I think the men who are going to send you those type of free sex worker messages are unlikely to be reading the fora so really you're just pissing in the wind.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Some men don’t do oral?

My favourite type of man

Mine too

But what about all those poor guys whose sole claim is that they 'can lick for hours'? Must their tongues cramp in vain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree OP!

Anyway, show us yer tits! ( . Y . )

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Some men don’t do oral? "

I think she means some can only go down for 1-2 hours. They should hang their heads in shame and delete their accounts in my opinion.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Is it still classed as oral if you use fingers too? I’m getting a little confused between threads here

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

#allmen

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Some men don’t do oral?

My favourite type of man

Mine too

But what about all those poor guys whose sole claim is that they 'can lick for hours'? Must their tongues cramp in vain?"

Yes… they are going to have to wait for a cold day in hell with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don't receive a treasure trove of shite messages that the majority of women who start this sort of thread seem to. At worst I might get someone telling me they want to breed my *insert a guess at my heritage* pussy but that's about it.

I think the men who are going to send you those type of free sex worker messages are unlikely to be reading the fora so really you're just pissing in the wind. "

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Some men don’t do oral? "

They do like to talk about it, they never bloody stop.......!

whoops, wrong type of Aural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

Has someone been at the cooking sherry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

Believe it or not some guys know a lot of that already , whatever a person does or is into is their own business, as you say if a person isn't into Oral and a person is well don't message that person .

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Some men don’t do oral?

My favourite type of man

Mine too

But what about all those poor guys whose sole claim is that they 'can lick for hours'? Must their tongues cramp in vain?

Yes… they are going to have to wait for a cold day in hell with me

Licking on a cold day is inadvisable, too,in case their tongue sticks.

Some chaps just can't catch a break.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The homework rule applies equally across the board. Some women and couples are reading a different guidebook and send messages to the cock rather than the man attached to it.

What they do or don't do sexually isn't an issue but stop expecting everyone else to do the work for you. Make an effort or move along.

Treat men as actual human beings without being patronising and you may be surprised at the results.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Shout out to all the men, out here doing their best, just trying to bust a nut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had the free time and will to be shagging all the time it wouldnt be hard we dont have it as hard as a lot make out

Its as hard as you want it to be plus many women have it just as hard

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Some men don’t do oral? "

Some men don't do aural either. Where they whisper sweet erotic words into your ears. Some just don't do it!

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Yes, very informative, thank you for your valued contribution to this emerging research area, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which men don't do oral

line them up infront of the firing squad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, very informative, thank you for your valued contribution to this emerging research area, yes."

Let swinging come to you, if there's one thing to always, always remember, it's that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried making sense of that post. I really, really did

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Yes yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow the green arrow.

I dare ya.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"Follow the green arrow.

I dare ya."

Motherflipper.

Also, shocked that OP claims to be a woman!

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

It’s a site where people have sex with others. Just be fit and physically attractive and the rest will take care of itself. If you’re having to put tons of effort into getting a simple reply then chances are you’re probably too ugly to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Follow the green arrow.

I dare ya.

Motherflipper.

Also, shocked that OP claims to be a woman!"

Yeeeeees.

Yeeeeeeeeees.

Welcome to the darkness.

Have a match?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Follow the green arrow.

I dare ya."

One of several prolific posters of mind numbing threads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno guys I learnt here to let swinging come to me and you're all acting like that wasn't life defining advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Follow the green arrow.

I dare ya.

One of several prolific posters of mind numbing threads! "

Now now, you keep being all subtle like that people might get the wrong idea.

Say how you really feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(I think she likes her)

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

This, all day.

It's a means to an end, I use this site to browse the forums, do a spot of perving, but occasionally I find a polished diamond. I message if I think that person may be someone who could attend the same clubs, or if they just said or did something I really like - like random acts of kindness - or if their pictures really hit the spot, give recognition. It's highly unlikely I going to drive to Land's End or Scotland to meet someone so if I message and you are there, just accept the compliment and maybe a nice word back again. Anyone that I do meet in a club, either from here or I find here afterwards, will be a good chat first. Make a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

Many people don't understand what swinging is. Even Swingers can't agree what it is.

They probably have no luck from nice messages so try sending sex stuff. Because the site is full of sex pics and sex menus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don’t do oral? "

I can't speak for all men but me personally its one of my favourite things to do if not my actual favourite.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There's a very simple solution to your problem OP if you find the quality of messages you get upset you so much. Use your filters and block men from messaging you then put in practice what you say,and send a message to them using exactly the methods you want them to use. Simple and to be fair for women,usually effective as we usually get replies to first messages we send.

I don't get too many crap messages on here especially as my filters are already pretty tight. And the few I do get that don't appeal I just delete and don't give them another thought. I find most are okay messages and I can see why men don't make massive efforts in first messages as lots do get deleted or just sitting there unread. I'm sure it can be very disheartening when it happens a lot of the time.

And also I've had some awful messages off women and couples on here so it's not just men who are capable of sending crap messages or not reading profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging

Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger

Three this isn't a free for all some think it is

Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex

This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn

And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either

Swinging is best when it finds its self"

I hope this isn't aimed at all men OP it would be pretty offensive to the ones (like myself ) that are not like the ones you have experienced

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