FabSwingers.com forum: An odd/sad/disturbing statistic

By *izandScott OP Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick

Just to point out the bleeding obvious: I checked the last profiles that looked at ours. Of 119 views, 106 were single/solo males, 11 were couples and 2 were at least nominally female.

What's wrong with this picture??

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

That's about the norm for me too

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You've not applied your filters correctly?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nothing, most women look in ninja mode .

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Just to point out the bleeding obvious: I checked the last profiles that looked at ours. Of 119 views, 106 were single/solo males, 11 were couples and 2 were at least nominally female.

What's wrong with this picture??"

It’s a much higher proportion of women than single blokes get?

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Just to point out the bleeding obvious: I checked the last profiles that looked at ours. Of 119 views, 106 were single/solo males, 11 were couples and 2 were at least nominally female.

What's wrong with this picture??"

Enlighten us!

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"You've not applied your filters correctly?"

What has filters got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are in stealth mode

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Anyone who is anyone uses ninja mode, as otherwise you're just inviting a message, saying I saw you looking, when in reality it was quicker to go through their profile than to scroll to the top of the screen

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing wrong, you can always use filters to block single males then you won't see them.

Our views are similar, doesn't bother me though, just because we're not looking for males I'm happy for them to enjoy the profile.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who is anyone uses ninja mode, as otherwise you're just inviting a message, saying I saw you looking, when in reality it was quicker to go through their profile than to scroll to the top of the screen

I am the opposite I am in hidden mode as I get done for profile stalking ha ha

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Plus I viewed in ninja mode so add another couple

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"You've not applied your filters correctly?

What has filters got to do with it? "

Not my issue if you can't connect the dots...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Just to point out the bleeding obvious: I checked the last profiles that looked at ours. Of 119 views, 106 were single/solo males, 11 were couples and 2 were at least nominally female.

What's wrong with this picture??"

The cushion is too far forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to point out the bleeding obvious: I checked the last profiles that looked at ours. Of 119 views, 106 were single/solo males, 11 were couples and 2 were at least nominally female.

What's wrong with this picture??"

That you are making a thread about it.....

I would hardly call it sad, odd or disturbing...

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m always in ninja mode, not on fab, I just like dressing up as Sho Kosugi…

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over a year ago

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Just to point out the bleeding obvious: I checked the last profiles that looked at ours. Of 119 views, 106 were single/solo males, 11 were couples and 2 were at least nominally female.

What's wrong with this picture??"
Absolutely nothing they're just looking maybe you have great pics, maybe it was an accidental press, maybe they were horny and seeing where you are located so many different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The maths adds up, so I've no idea what the bleedin' obvious is. Am I going to feel silly when you point it out?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Most people are in stealth mode "
I'm probably being perved at right now by hundreds of ninja ladies

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Pathetic topic to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people are in stealth mode I'm probably being perved at right now by hundreds of ninja ladies

Can you sense us

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

What it says to me is that

a) there are more “single” men on this site than “single” woman

b) couples and single women tend to look incognito

c) single women are in the main not looking for couples

d) the worlds a terrible place filled with horny men

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

"Most people are in stealth mode I'm probably being perved at right now by hundreds of ninja ladies

The thought keeps me up at night!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sounds about right to me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

So what you're saying is that the men were odd, the couples sad and the women disturbing?

Sounds about par for the course.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Can't really do anything about it unfortunately, I do think people you have filtered out shouldn't be able to view your profile but unfortunately that's not the case.

I get lots of guys and tv/ts looking but equally I get lots of couples and women looking as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that is odd, someone better tell those two women they've forgot to turn their ninja on!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Will we get enlightened, as otherwise this just seems fairly regular?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nothing, most women look in ninja mode ."

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why is it sad and disturbing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it sad and disturbing?"

I was just typing that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ I genuinely expected to read statistics about homelessness or child poverty

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Nothing, most women look in ninja mode .

This

Thank fuck, because the web server would crash if it displayed the true number that perved my profile

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Is the reason most womrn look in ninja mode because if they don't they gey overwhelmed with shitty messages? If so, is this based on fear, or experience?

Kind of depressing, either way. It's nice to feel that people are looking occasionally. And completely understandable that women would tend to be hesitant about doing so upfront.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the reason most womrn look in ninja mode because if they don't they gey overwhelmed with shitty messages? If so, is this based on fear, or experience?

Kind of depressing, either way. It's nice to feel that people are looking occasionally. And completely understandable that women would tend to be hesitant about doing so upfront."

Yes, used to receive messages off the back of it, and still often recieve ones from dishing out fabs. It's not a problem in itself, but I'd I'm interested to send a 1st message then I will. I'm not sitting about on my hands hoping someone will message because I've looked/fabbed... I do those things mostly because I'm nosey/or like the pic

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Is the reason most womrn look in ninja mode because if they don't they gey overwhelmed with shitty messages? If so, is this based on fear, or experience?

Kind of depressing, either way. It's nice to feel that people are looking occasionally. And completely understandable that women would tend to be hesitant about doing so upfront.

Yes, I see, and thank you. That makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pathetic topic to be honest. "

What topic would meet your satisfaction?

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By *arkjackMan
over a year ago

West Cork

Most of my views/likes are men or TV/G too. I don't mind, although not into same sex play, and I understand why many women feel spooked by guys making threats. It takes a certain amount of courage to put yourself out there - though it's different for men (isolation/no feedback) vs avoiding twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing, most women look in ninja mode ."

This

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"^^ I genuinely expected to read statistics about homelessness or child poverty "

Me too!

Maybe it's sad and disturbing that that is what we expected?

I looked at the picture and didn't find anything sad and disturbing, but I am curious about the pink thing sticking out under the cushion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pathetic topic to be honest. "

This

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Pathetic topic to be honest.

What topic would meet your satisfaction? "

One that wasn't a pathetic whinge about people looking at a profile.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The picture is bad in my opinion; bad light, bad framing, no single point of focus, clutter, grey square over your face looks odd,,I could go on but that’s the main things I’d change

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

The green suitcase?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Those pesky single males

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Have we been told yet what's wrong with the picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that is odd, someone better tell those two women they've forgot to turn their ninja on! "

too late, they've drowned under mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is what aggrieves you in life, perhaps some perspective is in order. Maybe a dose of humility too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. They're views, not fuck requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks, I didn’t look at their profile !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before anyone asks, I didn’t look at their profile ! "

Don't worry, I did for the both of us

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

50:1 males to females on here sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before anyone asks, I didn’t look at their profile !

Don't worry, I did for the both of us

My man

I knew I could count on you and your lovely penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People looked at a profile. End.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

So what is the issue OP? Is it that you've had loads of single guys viewing your profile when you are not looking for single guys?

If so, the problem is that the only way to see what someone's preferences are is to view the profile! So the way to solve that is to block single guys.

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