FabSwingers.com forum: Getting old

By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

On Fab old is 46

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

difficult to answer 50 maybe i think health comes into it aswell

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll let you know when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the person. I know some very old people in their 40s and some youngsters in their 60s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you talk more about the past then future perhaps?

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"When you talk more about the past then future perhaps? "

Thats a good point. Maybe that's it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only as old as the age you pretend to be on here.

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"You're only as old as the age you pretend to be on here."

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!"

Does that make it more about your general health than your age then?

Luna

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

About 79/80

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically or mentally?

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"Physically or mentally?

Either???

Luna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you talk more about the past then future perhaps?

Thats a good point. Maybe that's it. "

Could be. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m 51 a young 51 and don’t feel old at all but to some I’m classed as old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you stop looking after yourself.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

just had a peek at you mell you dont look 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just had a peek at you mell you dont look 51"

Lol thanks

But age is just a number

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"just had a peek at you mell you dont look 51

Lol thanks

But age is just a number

I can agree with that.

Mr Hayes

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"About 79/80"

Sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On Fab old is 46

That’s us done for then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you wake up beside a woman and count more toes than teeth on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physically or mentally?

Either???

Luna"

Mentally I think is older (obviously unless health hits) so many elderly talk about still thinking they can..but being let down by their bodies

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!

Does that make it more about your general health than your age then?

Luna"

Yes, health/disability and age are independent of each other. I am not old. I'll be 37 next month. But unless I'm very careful, I fall due to having a disability.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Oh dear I'm vintage and I'm only 68

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!

Does that make it more about your general health than your age then?

Luna

Yes, health/disability and age are independent of each other. I am not old. I'll be 37 next month. But unless I'm very careful, I fall due to having a disability. "

Disabilities aside if you do fall, do people say you fell over or that you "had a fall"?

Mr Hayes

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I thought I was old when I turned 30, after a few weeks of feeling sorry for myself I realised I didn’t feel any different and not felt old since.

I guess the falling over or having a fall test is when you stop being able to getting up by yourself then I guess it’s a fall ??

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i said maybe 50 but im wrong some folk late great 60 and 70 plus so yes its just a number

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By *hillenCouple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

Old is 10 years older than your current age.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

Anything over 70 is "getting on a bit"

Cal

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By *lackroses85Woman
over a year ago

Between Norwich & Yarmouth

I had a date with a 23 year old who kept saying how things are different "these days" like he was 63

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"I thought I was old when I turned 30, after a few weeks of feeling sorry for myself I realised I didn’t feel any different and not felt old since.

I guess the falling over or having a fall test is when you stop being able to getting up by yourself then I guess it’s a fall ??"
that could be the defining moment, when you need assistance to get back up.

Mr Hayes

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't think at 65 I'm at that point yet? X

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

For me I started middle age at 40 when peri menopause started, so I'll put old aged 70

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By *addy bareMan
over a year ago

lakeside

Well I'm 52 and feel really old if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older than 40 is old

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

As some will say its more about attitude rather than the number. Some people seem to have been born middle aged and can't wait to be old! Just got to try and remain interested in what's going on now, try and stay fit and healthy. Have to say when it comes to the latter it's starting to get more difficult. However, I know quite a few people who are younger than me yet seem to have almost given up. Just keep on trying to be young.

Nb One definite sign is making noises when you sit down or get up and of that I'm guilty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just had a peek at you mell you dont look 51

Lol thanks

But age is just a number

I never understand this expression. We are the age we are, that number is a fact that is bound up with all aspects of our experiences, expectations and health. Its great to be healthy and energetic at any age but this doesn't make us any younger, unfortunately.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On Fab old is 46

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm 60 and still young, I think it's more a state of mind

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"I'm 60 and still young, I think it's more a state of mind"

Couldn't agree more, son of coul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 60 and still young, I think it's more a state of mind"

I'm 50 and obviously not young.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

Dunnoo... I never really thought of it too much.

I guess the bus-pass age? 60. The retirement age? 66/67

My parents are 75 ( Pop) and 72 ( mom). Mom falls a bit but hasn't broken anything. Dad never falls.

My granny reached 80 and never had falls.

My great-grandfather lived to 98 and I don't remember him falling at all. He did ride a bike until he was 80 so good balance I guess?

I have an ex-colleague who is in her late 50's and she keeps falling over and breaking parts of her body.

I just played with someone over 60 and he still plays team sports and could keep up with me someone 20 years younger.

I have friends who had knee replacements in their 20s and 30s.

It really all depends on the person, their lifestyle and their genetics.

I tell the kids ( age 25 and under) I'm old so they don't expect me to sprint all over the workplace. They are always faster than me. I always remind my self that I cannot physically compete with 20 year olds. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"For me I started middle age at 40 when peri menopause started, so I'll put old aged 70"

Peri-Menopause is kicking my butt.

at least I can use this as an excuse to go to sleep early and not put the heating on...and not wear a coat.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"On Fab old is 46

Fuck... That's me done for in a couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely feel older since covid

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve decided I’m never getting old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To old

To comment

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"I’ve decided I’m never getting old

Good plan.

Mr Hayes.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

somebody make a magic potion for haloween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I became officially old at 39, I’m 55 now and decrepit.

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By *astcoast2000Man
over a year ago

Newcastle County Down

"About 79/80"
true

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I 70 and still play

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Fortunately birthdays during lockdown don’t count so I knock 2 or 3 years off for that, let’s call it 5 or 6 for round figures.

That puts me pretty much in my early 40s, give or take, but I’ve never had any physical problems so I’m basically 37

Which is *still* fucking old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Candyfloss

I'm not ready for been old

I've just refurbished my kitchen everything but kitchen units

New skirting and flooring

Decorated

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd say 55+ lol

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

60 next year which when younger thought was ancient,but still as fit and healthy as I was in my 30’s.Except for metal hip and bulging disc in neck and diabetes

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I agree with Candyfloss

I'm not ready for been old

I've just refurbished my kitchen everything but kitchen units

New skirting and flooring

Decorated "

Hiya Charlie not seen u in a while! How u doing? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It creeps up...just turned 59 and suddenly thought god next year 60. It was like it didn't register. In my head I want still to do so much.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!

Does that make it more about your general health than your age then?

Luna

Yes, health/disability and age are independent of each other. I am not old. I'll be 37 next month. But unless I'm very careful, I fall due to having a disability.

Disabilities aside if you do fall, do people say you fell over or that you "had a fall"?

Mr Hayes "

The doctors call it "having a fall". I say "fuck, I wish my leg worked"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age "

Fuck. I'm still middle aged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

A person's health is everything regards anything tbh.

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!

Does that make it more about your general health than your age then?

Luna

Yes, health/disability and age are independent of each other. I am not old. I'll be 37 next month. But unless I'm very careful, I fall due to having a disability.

Disabilities aside if you do fall, do people say you fell over or that you "had a fall"?

Mr Hayes

The doctors call it "having a fall". I say "fuck, I wish my leg worked"

I wouldn't listen to the doctors they're only practicing, I'd wait for someone who knows what they're talking about.

Mr Hayes.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

32 but keep been told I am older in my head with the things I enjoy eg going to the pub on an afternoon with a paper or happer having night in with a film or takeaway or falling asleep on the sofa all the time don't see it myself but Mrs says iam well older in my head lol

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Age is just a number ..but no matter how u feel or look ur still that age .not sure wot age that is 2 be classed as old thou lol x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If old is about having falls, I've been old since I was 31.

Be careful not to conflate being old with being disabled. You can have falls but still be young!

Does that make it more about your general health than your age then?

Luna

Yes, health/disability and age are independent of each other. I am not old. I'll be 37 next month. But unless I'm very careful, I fall due to having a disability.

Disabilities aside if you do fall, do people say you fell over or that you "had a fall"?

Mr Hayes

The doctors call it "having a fall". I say "fuck, I wish my leg worked"

I wouldn't listen to the doctors they're only practicing, I'd wait for someone who knows what they're talking about.

Mr Hayes."

If I go into hospital for any reason, I'm labelled a high risk for falls, put it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get old when you stop trying in my opinion. I have mates older than me who put me to shame and mates younger than me who look years older. Its a state of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a hard one,I'm 61 so I'm old though I definitely don't feel it

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age

Fuck. I'm still middle aged

Sorry I don’t make the rules

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age

Fuck. I'm still middle aged

Sorry I don’t make the rules

Can I submit an appeal?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age

Fuck. I'm still middle aged

Sorry I don’t make the rules

Can I submit an appeal?"

There’s always an exemption to every rule (it’ll cost you a fiver)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age

Fuck. I'm still middle aged

Sorry I don’t make the rules

Can I submit an appeal?

There’s always an exemption to every rule (it’ll cost you a fiver)

*Slips brown envelope under table*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your know when your old when people don't laugh and offer to help you up.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Always went with the 30’s

0-30 Young

30-60 Middle Age

60-90 Old age

However with people living longer lives and looking after themselves it’s now ….

0-35 Young

35-70 Middle Aged

70-100 Old age

Fuck. I'm still middle aged

Sorry I don’t make the rules

Can I submit an appeal?

There’s always an exemption to every rule (it’ll cost you a fiver)

*Slips brown envelope under table*

Middle age is now 40-80

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46, and live on the 2nd floor, I'm definitely old every time I have to climb the stairs

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

100 - telegram to inform you you're old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its when you see a button up cardigan and think...mmmm that looks nice and warm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

I am not old, I am 64 a cyclisti and biker, love a dance and walk regularly and still a swinger. We aren't all knackered at 50 you know!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

There are definitely stages of life. You listen to different music, have less crazy nights, have different interests.

It has a lot to do with health as well as family constraints.

In the last couple of years, I have got younger health wise. I also have no real family constraints having never had kids or been married.

So, in my fifties I am able to go to the gym after a night shift, have a couple of hours sleep and then go out to the pub if I want.

Sexually I have also been regenerated and feel more sexual than I did 10 years ago. I am able to keep up and stay up.

I feel better and better as time goes on. So being "old" has so many factors and only one of them is age.

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna"

Urgh. Still old by that measure

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna

Urgh. Still old by that measure

I must still be young then, love a pair heels.

Mr Hayes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it coincides with when you stop being ill and start being in ill health. Lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna"

My Mum always said you know when you’re getting older, when the clothes in Marks and Sparks start looking good, or when you buy clothes for comfort over fashion.

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By *aggy dolls OP Couple
over a year ago

bradford

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna

My Mum always said you know when you’re getting older, when the clothes in Marks and Sparks start looking good, or when you buy clothes for comfort over fashion.

My mum always said "stop jumping in those puddles" and "I'll give you something to cry about in a minute".

Mr Hayes.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Physically early 20s mentally close to 100 warn out

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna

My Mum always said you know when you’re getting older, when the clothes in Marks and Sparks start looking good, or when you buy clothes for comfort over fashion.

I'm deffo still young then as my grandaughter took me to our outlet m and s few weeks ago to look for a dress for her wedding I said god it's full of old people's clothes got a few on sheen to choose from in end x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna"

Christ. By that measure I've been old for 25+ years

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

When you let yourself. Or 75. Whichever is the sooner.

V x

Ps reserve the right to change 75 when I get close

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"About 79/80"

I like your thinking

According to most here anything post 70 is done for.

I’m 73 in a few days my memory was better when on HRT as was my skin . Luckily I do not ‘have falls just yet

. Still get horny though , does that go away I wonder .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I knew someone who called the Queen "that young lady"

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Oh my god. We were talking about that this week. When does falling over become “had a fall”.

V x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Beginning to think its when you think of comfort over style.

Not sure what that means for men, maybe the cardigan thing. For women I feel it includes deciding to wear flat shoes instead of heels and a coat when I leave the house.

Luna

Urgh. Still old by that measure

I must still be young then, love a pair heels.

Mr Hayes."

I can't wear them. Flat shoes only nowadays, preferably with laces and space to accommodate an ankle brace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember thinking when I was turning 30 that it was ancient.

44 soon and no longer dreading getting older.

I do feel middle aged due to my adult child constantly reminding me of my age.

Though health wise no complaints.

Best I've felt in years.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've got on children, but have been able to Dad dance for several years now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

*no children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*no children "

A quick correction there fella

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When you stop judging the behaviour of those people older than you and start doing it instead to those people younger than you

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

Having recently attended a multi-generational event, based on that Im gonna say late 60's/ 70's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 65 don't feel old although I've been diagnosed with leukemia

Just get on and enjoy life

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"When you stop judging the behaviour of those people older than you and start doing it instead to those people younger than you

Lol! Me at work

To the younger colleagues: "you are going to get in trouble and then don't come crying to me" " what happened to your brain?"

Older Colleagues: "How's your pension? Mine's fuck all. we are going to have to work here forever at this rate!" "sorry my old brain isn't working today"

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Well, the drop dead gorgeous 69 year old lady fast asleep alongside me who has a body that some women in their 30's and 40's would die for, and has everything in her wardrobe to tease and please her chosen guy doesn't seem to think she's old, and to me her techniques in looking after a guy in and out of the bedroom could knock spots off the skills of average bimbo.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I think it depends on the person. I know some very old people in their 40s and some youngsters in their 60s.

This completely!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Late 70s, perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see I'm to old for someone on their profile

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

I don't know the exact age but all I can say is I'm beginning to feel it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think 60-70 , it’s the point at which your body and/or mind begins to limit you , for many, not all. I hope mine doesn’t. Currently I’m fitter and sharper than most the guys I work with 2/3 my age , I can’t see how that could be possible at 70

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Age is a frame of mind, I only have one grandparent left my Nan ( mums mum ) she’s 99 in December, she lived independently until she 92 and only moved in with my mum because she had a fall in the house, but my other Nan ( dads mum) she turned 60 and gave up thinking “ I’m a pensioner now, she died at the age of 72.

The mr

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I think 60-70 , it’s the point at which your body and/or mind begins to limit you , for many, not all. I hope mine doesn’t. Currently I’m fitter and sharper than most the guys I work with 2/3 my age , I can’t see how that could be possible at 70"

Wouldn't b surprised I'm 65 and fitter than alot of my co workers they moan about their ailments pushing the trollys we have! Wear elbow/knee supports because of damage caused by them! And they way younger than me x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Erm … when you feel old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On Fab old is 46

This is true.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

"On Fab old is 46

Bloody hell im ancient then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m always a bit bemused when people say I’m old. I don’t feel old inside.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would say around 70ish but all depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you sensual item of choice is not a wooden overcoat then you are still young.

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Someone asked me the other day when I was going to retire! I am still very active and don't have any health issues, so for me, your as old as you feel.

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

lancs

I feel old, im only 31

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

You don't stop having fun when you get old

You get old when you stop having fun

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By *ete808Man
over a year ago

lockerbie

I used to think I'd die in my car because I know I drive too fast. Now I think I'll die by tripping over my dog at the top of the stairs.

Also, eyesight goes out of focus with age VERY QUICKLY.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I used to think I'd die in my car because I know I drive too fast. Now I think I'll die by tripping over my dog at the top of the stairs.

Also, eyesight goes out of focus with age VERY QUICKLY. "

Eye focus up close is a big one. I have noticed since getting over 40 my short focus is slower i wear glasses and my optician told me it’s something that happens to everyone once over 40 we start to degrade with focusing ability for both distance / short at same time.

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

Either.. You are only as old as the person you are fucking. or You are only as old as the frock you are wearing.. So I am 60 or xx .

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I remind everyone constantly that I’m old …

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By *itginger101Man
over a year ago

Termonfeckin

I'm nearly 59 and I certainly don't feel old

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

cannot remember its that damn long ago!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

Age is just a number, as long as your in good health thats the main thing ??

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"I used to think I'd die in my car because I know I drive too fast. Now I think I'll die by tripping over my dog at the top of the stairs.

Also, eyesight goes out of focus with age VERY QUICKLY.

I have put in a complaint at the local supermarket.

I told them that the isles are too narrow.

I don’t require any more room to move about, I just can’t stand far enough away to read the price cards they put in those little rails on the front of the shelf.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"

I am 59 I still do West Coast Swing and modern jive dancing. Have a very physical job and plat airsofg and been told I have a young outlook and look and move like a person half my age.

And yes I know I am out of the age range of most women on here are looking for but I wager none of them will look this good whwn they get to my age

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?

I am 59 I still do West Coast Swing and modern jive dancing. Have a very physical job and plat airsofg and been told I have a young outlook and look and move like a person half my age.

And yes I know I am out of the age range of most women on here are looking for but I wager none of them will look this good whwn they get to my age"

I've just taken up ceroc dancing

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Mid-late 70s imo.

Although I’m feeling it late 40s.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

It’s a tough one… at what point do we become Middle Aged as none of us know what point in our lives half way is!

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

"I’ve decided I’m never getting old

I tried that didn't work.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"At what age do you become old?

Having a conversation the other day and we were discussing at what age do you stop 'falling over' and start 'having a fall?"
I'm an old lady already

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

One sign you're getting old, young women start smiling at you like you're just some harmless guy who reminds them of an uncle or grandad.

Given the change in attitudes it seems that even the option of becoming a dirty old man isn't allowable now6

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"One sign you're getting old, young women start smiling at you like you're just some harmless guy who reminds them of an uncle or grandad.

Given the change in attitudes it seems that even the option of becoming a dirty old man isn't allowable now6"

Lol that's the way it should be! Nobody should be openly gawking and leering

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

"One sign you're getting old, young women start smiling at you like you're just some harmless guy who reminds them of an uncle or grandad.

Given the change in attitudes it seems that even the option of becoming a dirty old man isn't allowable now6

Lol that's the way it should be! Nobody should be openly gawking and leering"

Some people are just no fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today. I got old today.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Today. I got old today. "

Happy birthday! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel young this morning

Shave shower an haircut this morning

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Once you are over 55ish, old is always in about 10 years from where you are now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, are we too old to be of interest to anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 61 and still as active physically as when I was at 21

I coach Boxing, at my age I no longer compete but I’d doesn’t stop me getting in a ring and sparring with a current professional in his early 30’s

I have moved my martial arts training into the more subtle internal arts rather than the hard and fast styles

As far as bedroom gymnastics go nothing has changed. I have slowed down slightly which means a more longer time is spent building a lady up rather than the quickie from days gone by

So to answer the OP

I am too old when they nail down my coffin

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I was officially old a couple of years ago when driving the correct way around a car park and nearly being hit by a car coming the wrong way. Being called “a fucking old c*nt” didn’t go down well!

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

"About 79/80"

Oh thank you!

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