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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect - and I've done a LOT of wanking.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Sexual compatibility!

Oh, and years of practice

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Lots of practice coupled with listening and understanding.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Practice

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

But obviously everyone is different so practice on a alot of different peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sad truth that no one likes to hear

Have loads off different practices partners

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I was shown how to eat pussy properly by two very helpful and sexy lesbians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey i don't think I'm 'good' at all... Although i do now know how to make eyes roll when giving a bj

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Realising early on that everyone is different so being able to adapt to different responses helped…

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"The sad truth that no one likes to hear

Have loads off different practices partners

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this...and practice..and listening to what they say

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

After I invented sex I watched the effects of evolution on it as men pin balled their dicks everywhere until they finally found the vagina ....

I hear some have now found the clitoris..... but what to do with it.....

I got good by leaving them to it and indulging in self pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think I'm a good fuck and others think I'm a crap fuck.

If someone thinks they are always a good fuck.........

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."
naturally gifted eye to ball coordination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey i don't think I'm 'good' at all... Although i do now know how to make eyes roll when giving a bj"

Bite!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Absolutely nothing. I'm a shit shag

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Some people think I'm a good fuck and others think I'm a crap fuck.

If someone thinks they are always a good fuck........."

Do you hand out score sheets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a natural innit.

Oh shit wait humility.

Erm...

Nope can't do it.

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

I went to a village in the Far East and met a sex sensei, a bit of wax on wax off and now I’m great at sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey i don't think I'm 'good' at all... Although i do now know how to make eyes roll when giving a bj

Bite!

omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey i don't think I'm 'good' at all... Although i do now know how to make eyes roll when giving a bj"

Shit jokes do not count.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

To enjoy yourself and your partner's reactions and adapt according,I thought that was just a given ! Oh and don't be selfish for all involved usually all involved want some good fun too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe I am good at anything sexually.

Maybe I need more practice lol

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

practise,,, listening,,advice

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By *erberaWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I Googled it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think they are so good sexually rarely are, so obviously I'm rubbish.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

"I Googled it

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what did Google say ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to play olympic gold on master system daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people think I'm a good fuck and others think I'm a crap fuck.

If someone thinks they are always a good fuck.........

Do you hand out score sheets ? "

Doesn't everyone?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Instinct

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m just a natural gapping fanny licker

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Watched hours and hours of porn so I can finger blast like the best on em.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"People who think they are so good sexually rarely are, so obviously I'm rubbish."
that means you're great right? Reverse psychology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enthusiasm, adoration of the act and much much practice! Oh, and learning how to identify sexual partners who are compatible before bumping uglies.

Nell

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Being able to find compatabile men and make long term relationships with them

Oh and being ambidextrous

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"Practice makes perfect - and I've done a LOT of wanking."

You're truly a top tier wanker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sad truth that no one likes to hear

Have loads off different practices partners

this...and practice..and listening to what they say

Yip

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Some people think I'm a good fuck and others think I'm a crap fuck.

If someone thinks they are always a good fuck.........

Do you hand out score sheets ?

Doesn't everyone?"

I haven't yet. It's never occurred to me that anyone would think I was a shit shag.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I need a score system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who think they are so good sexually rarely are, so obviously I'm rubbish."

Technically no problem being no one is forth comeing with the truth as to not hurt feelings and such

How can one think they not good at sex when all they been told off past partner is they the best and all that nonsense

Hear it all the time

Get in to a realship and all you here is how how xxx is they the best bl bl bl

Brake up and it’s they a shit shag lay they like a sack off spuds

Splats in two minutes flat left to finsh myself off bl bl bl

Yip I am on a hard hitting hard brake truth day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need a score system"

Mine:

Shit shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who think they are so good sexually rarely are, so obviously I'm rubbish.

Technically no problem being no one is forth comeing with the truth as to not hurt feelings and such

How can one think they not good at sex when all they been told off past partner is they the best and all that nonsense

Hear it all the time

Get in to a realship and all you here is how how xxx is they the best bl bl bl

Brake up and it’s they a shit shag lay they like a sack off spuds

Splats in two minutes flat left to finsh myself off bl bl bl

Yip I am on a hard hitting hard brake truth day "

I have always been truthful. Doesnt make you very popular though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had plenty good teachers over the years, from experienced beautiful women with very high sex drives to a Brazilian (goddess) who happened to have a 9” long and meaty cock. All of them way out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of practice and study, then you hit 50 and nobody wants to know anyway.

Speaking from personal experience at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who think they are so good sexually rarely are, so obviously I'm rubbish.

Technically no problem being no one is forth comeing with the truth as to not hurt feelings and such

How can one think they not good at sex when all they been told off past partner is they the best and all that nonsense

Hear it all the time

Get in to a realship and all you here is how how xxx is they the best bl bl bl

Brake up and it’s they a shit shag lay they like a sack off spuds

Splats in two minutes flat left to finsh myself off bl bl bl

Yip I am on a hard hitting hard brake truth day

I have always been truthful. Doesnt make you very popular though lol "

Popular is overrated anyway infact I love nothing more than being unpopular and then when the penny drops for people how wrong someone was it just paints them in a bad light and leave the person kicking them selfs they were so stupid to believe sed person and realse what they wanted was sitting right in front off them but because they choose to bleve a lier they have lost any chance off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had plenty good teachers over the years, from experienced beautiful women with very high sex drives to a Brazilian (goddess) who happened to have a 9” long and meaty cock. All of them way out of my league. "

Oh yeah, not forgetting a good few sugar daddies, masters, mistresses...!

Still always room for improvement and know plenty practice will make perfect...!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I have a scoring card where I give points for the effort, content, imagination and I make notes, I also take note of every ooo ahhhh and eeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By being intuitive, observational and communicative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By being intuitive, observational and communicative. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, sometimes you are, and sometimes you aren’t, but listening and picking up subtle body language, watching and feeling reactions. I have also asked before, if anything would make it better.

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By *enuineguy81Man
over a year ago

isle of man

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."

I think it all depends on how well you click with your partner, knowing what they want when they want it. Oh and lots of practice to get your timings right

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

I'm shite at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice haha;I think being open minded and curious by nature helped a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular partner.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I haven't yet. Wanna help me practice Mels?

LvM

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Willingness to learn. Paying attention to reactions and the noises they make. Practise.

You're on a thread roll _eli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joking aside i found out quickly on here very quickly the key to the best sex is to saturate there mind with desire and excitement the body will tell you all you need to know be it in the eyes the goosieees the involuntary movements gasps n such are a pretty good road map to great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who think they are so good sexually rarely are, so obviously I'm rubbish.

Technically no problem being no one is forth comeing with the truth as to not hurt feelings and such

How can one think they not good at sex when all they been told off past partner is they the best and all that nonsense

Hear it all the time

Get in to a realship and all you here is how how xxx is they the best bl bl bl

Brake up and it’s they a shit shag lay they like a sack off spuds

Splats in two minutes flat left to finsh myself off bl bl bl

Yip I am on a hard hitting hard brake truth day "

Preach !

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I learned how to edge and it’s given me control and staying power

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm not. But I'm caring and compassionate and think more of others than myself - probably all reasons why I'll never be a fabulous fuck...

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

"Lots of practice coupled with listening and understanding. "

Same

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I learned my passion,

In the good old-fashioned

School of loverboys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural born talent I guess. In fact, they call me the Lionel Messi of sex

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

"Natural born talent I guess. In fact, they call me the Lionel Messi of sex"

You took growth hormones?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Enthusiasm, adoration of the act and much much practice! Oh, and learning how to identify sexual partners who are compatible before bumping uglies.

Nell

"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Natural born talent I guess. In fact, they call me the Lionel Messi of sex

You took growth hormones?

Fucking hell that made me laugh. Well played

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I learned my passion,

In the good old-fashioned

School of loverboys."

Fingering at the bus stop?

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."

It's probably down to research, listening to advice/criticism, and pure luck. I can't say I've had enough experiences to 100% say it's down to practice, but hopefully that will change one day.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I've had good teachers & practice partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural ability

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Meeting people that actually talk about what they like instead of you having to guess

That's always going to help isn't it really .

(Can you tell I'm stil annoyed about some of the guessing haha )

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Who said I was any good?

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

Visualisation. Spending time thinking about what to do and how my partner will react to it

Practice. If at first you don't succeed...

Understanding myself and why I like to do what I want to do.

So basically failure and obsessing about what went wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who said I was any good? "
haha that just made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

Big oof

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If you are good outside of the bedroom then it does make things a bit easier in it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

Big oof

In the first instance the guy started gently snoring

Mr N and I looked at each other and started giggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

Big oof

In the first instance the guy started gently snoring

Mr N and I looked at each other and started giggling "

At least you guys have and had a sense of humour about it.

Dear lord, that could be soul crushing for some.

It's like something out of a sketch.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Lots and lots of practice and a fairly nice cock

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

Big oof

In the first instance the guy started gently snoring

Mr N and I looked at each other and started giggling

At least you guys have and had a sense of humour about it.

Dear lord, that could be soul crushing for some.

It's like something out of a sketch."

It is isn't it

We're pretty hardy when it comes to this though and know that stuff happens. We tend to treat it like an adventure really

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Communication, I.e don’t do it that way do it this way , that and how said sexual partner body reacts to what your doing.

The mr

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's innate.

I've never practiced at anything or took instructions. I do what I do because I enjoy doing them.

I find immense pleasure in feeling flesh inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick people with a low body count. Experienced shaggers expect a good time.

If I'm with a person who has dust and cobwebs on their genitals they are very much more appreciative and think I'm an amazing fuck.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Reading More magazines position of the fortnight and their tips for giving oral

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I take my own scoring paddles to each meet and record the results on a spreadsheet, I also practice cunnilingus on carved water melons..

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

One of my early partners from a site like this turned out to be a "professional". By the time i found out about her secret life, she had opened my eyes sexually - I learned so much about sex and pleasure in our time together.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I used to think I was reasonably good because I'm participative and want the other person to enjoy the experience too.

I've had a bit of a rude awakening and it turns out I'm unmemorable, the choice if no one is left at the end of evening. I'm a boring shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not good at anything sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy what I do. As a good friend said recently, the secret to being a good ride is enjoying the ride!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’m not good at anything sexually

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you look very sexy in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not good at anything sexually

you look very sexy in my opinion

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Trial, error, listening and watching for reactions, talking and always trying new things (often with other people

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most important way to give pleasure is to only have sex with those you absolutely lust over so that you enjoy every moment.

If I’m ambivalent about a man I won’t play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to think I was reasonably good because I'm participative and want the other person to enjoy the experience too.

I've had a bit of a rude awakening and it turns out I'm unmemorable, the choice if no one is left at the end of evening. I'm a boring shag.

The person who said that to you was bitter and twisted and didn’t deserve your body.

Don’t give them a second thought.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Practice makes perfect - and I've done a LOT of wanking."

Wrong practice makes permanent only perfect practice makes perfect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't for any individual to say tbh , only the recipient can say which or wether, everyone might think they are the best thing since the sliced pan but it's the receptionist that truly knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Practice makes perfect - and I've done a LOT of wanking.

Wrong practice makes permanent only perfect practice makes perfect lol

So does this mean I need to wank more or less?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Practice makes perfect - and I've done a LOT of wanking.

Wrong practice makes permanent only perfect practice makes perfect lol

So does this mean I need to wank more or less?"

means you prob need a lady to do it for you they are perfect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Practice makes perfect - and I've done a LOT of wanking.

Wrong practice makes permanent only perfect practice makes perfect lol

So does this mean I need to wank more or less?

means you prob need a lady to do it for you they are perfect lol

Sounds like a plan. I'll find a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be so bold to insist I was excellent at anything..... But my willingness to 'give it a go and try and style it out' often pays off!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I grew up in an engineering family, so i have the 'how the fuck does that work? how can i do it better?' mentality for most things- add to that a raging horn for lady curves since my early teens and the two collided at the inquisitive fumbling stage and thus began the long journey of understanding the finer details of the female anatomy

*while the mechanics are fairly simple, theres not a hope in hell of ever deciphering the operating system and logic unit*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best sex starts in the mind. Learn about your partner, there kinky fantasy, then create a similar but different enough experience. You are 100% there with just the mind stimulated. Can only get mind blowing from there. But is done for your partner not for you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So no one else got good by reading Cosmo? Just me...

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Takes two to tango ur only as good as ur dance partner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to think I was reasonably good because I'm participative and want the other person to enjoy the experience too.

I've had a bit of a rude awakening and it turns out I'm unmemorable, the choice if no one is left at the end of evening. I'm a boring shag.

The person who said that to you was bitter and twisted and didn’t deserve your body.

Don’t give them a second thought. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."

Watching! Porn, at parties, at clubs and practise of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'm any good but not had complaints!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I also ask myself..would I like someone to do this to me ?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

I occasionally nod off during oral , it’s not that it’s boring it just really relaxes me , like an amazing massage , just receiving pleasure and not having to do anything….and I love napping anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through the years it has come from practise, observation, reading and sometimes a bit of research.

We like to think we are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual, communication and openness. Listening, being attentive and giving towards my partner.

I'll not click with everyone I find attractive so I take my time figuring that out before the time for sexing it up is reached

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By *lackroses85Woman
over a year ago

Between Norwich & Yarmouth

Practise and enjoying doing it helps.....I love sucking a nice cock x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't know that I would be considered good at what I do by everyone. I reckon it's down to individuals and how they click.

I mean one guy fell asleep while I was going down on him while another stood stock still and said he'd rather just watch thank you so ...

when I start bashing out the zeds while doing it is the time I'll start worrying

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I used to think I was reasonably good because I'm participative and want the other person to enjoy the experience too.

I've had a bit of a rude awakening and it turns out I'm unmemorable, the choice if no one is left at the end of evening. I'm a boring shag.

The person who said that to you was bitter and twisted and didn’t deserve your body.

Don’t give them a second thought.

Very much this. Lickety. You're fantastic. Fuckable. Memorable in the very best of ways. Wanting the other to enjoy the experience, actually being present in the moment and *actively* there? Your rude awakening (by whoever) is wrong.

I remember the lingerie get up you sent me. Anyone who was glowing as much as you and wearing that? Impossible to be a boring shag.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I haven't yet. Wanna help me practice Mels?

LvM"

You already know the answer to this.

Okay, that's my flirting quota for the day.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I haven't yet. Wanna help me practice Mels?

LvM

You already know the answer to this.

Okay, that's my flirting quota for the day.

Do you not do overtime?

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over a year ago

I'm not sure how you'd know you're really good at what you do. What if people are just paying false compliments?

I like to think I'm OK. I focus on my partners needs. I can see and feel the pleasure he experiences when we are intimate. I know we are both always satisfied when it's over.

But maybe I am a shit shag. And his standards are low. Or maybe I'm not good but I get the job done.

I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."

It's very sweet that you think I'm good at anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a bi-sexual girl in my late teens who taught me how to do it properly

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Enthusiasm, adoration of the act and much much practice! Oh, and learning how to identify sexual partners who are compatible before bumping uglies.

Nell

this

This again. I’ll always have a social first to see if there’s chemistry. I think as you get older and more experienced you know instinctively if it’s going to be mind blowing. Fortunately I’m usually right. I have less sex these days but it’s always pretty damned great.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I haven't yet. Wanna help me practice Mels?

LvM

You already know the answer to this.

Okay, that's my flirting quota for the day.

Do you not do overtime?

I'm fighting the urge to write a flirty reply back. Maybe I am a flirt.

No, Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She comes first.

And a willing teacher who could give feedback with compasion

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I haven't yet. Wanna help me practice Mels?

LvM

You already know the answer to this.

Okay, that's my flirting quota for the day.

Do you not do overtime?

I'm fighting the urge to write a flirty reply back. Maybe I am a flirt.

No, Adam.

I admire your courage, ya flirt

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I'm not sure how you'd know you're really good at what you do. What if people are just paying false compliments?

I like to think I'm OK. I focus on my partners needs. I can see and feel the pleasure he experiences when we are intimate. I know we are both always satisfied when it's over.

But maybe I am a shit shag. And his standards are low. Or maybe I'm not good but I get the job done.

I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

You did really well here Lemmy, I'm proud of you. 3 serious paragraphs and not a mention of anuses.

Yeah, people are going to pay false compliments because it's nice to do. Easy isn't it? I guess you learn. The response you get from someone is a compliment in itself isn't it? Like rather than a man saying fuck you're amazing at oral, he could make those little half growls and start thrusting into your mouth like he can't help himself. Maybe a bit of precum because who doesn't love seeing that evident sign of arousal?

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over a year ago

"I'm not sure how you'd know you're really good at what you do. What if people are just paying false compliments?

I like to think I'm OK. I focus on my partners needs. I can see and feel the pleasure he experiences when we are intimate. I know we are both always satisfied when it's over.

But maybe I am a shit shag. And his standards are low. Or maybe I'm not good but I get the job done.

I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

You did really well here Lemmy, I'm proud of you. 3 serious paragraphs and not a mention of anuses.

Whoa mel, just came to see the crack, didn't expect such fine erotica

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over a year ago

"I'm not sure how you'd know you're really good at what you do. What if people are just paying false compliments?

I like to think I'm OK. I focus on my partners needs. I can see and feel the pleasure he experiences when we are intimate. I know we are both always satisfied when it's over.

But maybe I am a shit shag. And his standards are low. Or maybe I'm not good but I get the job done.

I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

You did really well here Lemmy, I'm proud of you. 3 serious paragraphs and not a mention of anuses.

I guess I'm a bit of an expert then.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"It was half a serious answer at least.

You did really well here Lemmy, I'm proud of you. 3 serious paragraphs and not a mention of anuses.

Whoa mel, just came to see the crack, didn't expect such fine erotica

Aww thank you! So few people appreciate or comment on my erotica lite, it's really valued when they do.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My first serious boyfriend, who I was with for 9 years. We fucked like rabbits from the day we met till the day we went our separate ways. Very experimental, very fun. He was an excellent teacher.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I'm not sure how you'd know you're really good at what you do. What if people are just paying false compliments?

I like to think I'm OK. I focus on my partners needs. I can see and feel the pleasure he experiences when we are intimate. I know we are both always satisfied when it's over.

But maybe I am a shit shag. And his standards are low. Or maybe I'm not good but I get the job done.

I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

You did really well here Lemmy, I'm proud of you. 3 serious paragraphs and not a mention of anuses.

Pure filth you are

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over a year ago

"My first serious boyfriend, who I was with for 9 years. We fucked like rabbits from the day we met till the day we went our separate ways. Very experimental, very fun. He was an excellent teacher."

That dude was one lucky rabbit...

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over a year ago

"I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

^She doesn't meet Rex.

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over a year ago

"My first serious boyfriend, who I was with for 9 years. We fucked like rabbits from the day we met till the day we went our separate ways. Very experimental, very fun. He was an excellent teacher."

Yes, this! It’s the only way…. They say that to be a genius you need to do something for 10,000 hours. If anyone wants to test that theory in relation to this post, just get in touch and I’ll do everything I can to help!

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over a year ago

"My first serious boyfriend, who I was with for 9 years. We fucked like rabbits from the day we met till the day we went our separate ways. Very experimental, very fun. He was an excellent teacher.

Message sent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Not saying I am. We are all different things for different people…

But

I am very enthusiastic

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Lots of experiences, listen to your sex partners what they like/don't like, body language of your sex partners. And lots of talking inbetween playing so you understand their wants and needs sexually in more depth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not saying I am. We are all different things for different people…

But

I am very enthusiastic

God loves a trier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."

I’m no good at it

Good with my hands and mouth though

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

I’m still working on getting good at things one can never truly be a master as you can always learn more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading More magazines position of the fortnight and their tips for giving oral "

Jesus I think I remember reading those for a laugh when you'd happen upon those magazines.

I barely understood what they were on about, but we did giggle.

Ah the innocence of youth

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Practice makes perfect, communication and patience

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Experience, self awareness and good at reading people's reactions

Having a goldilocks cock certainly helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Experience, self awareness and good at reading people's reactions

Having a goldilocks cock certainly helps

"
spits hot porridge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it can be called "good", it's because I started doing what I wanted, and not trying to copy something I saw or was told about.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"Experience, self awareness and good at reading people's reactions

Having a goldilocks cock certainly helps

I'm only posting on this because you keep missing the obvious. Portmanteau your way to a better life; Goldicock.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

"I'm not sure how you'd know you're really good at what you do. What if people are just paying false compliments?

I like to think I'm OK. I focus on my partners needs. I can see and feel the pleasure he experiences when we are intimate. I know we are both always satisfied when it's over.

But maybe I am a shit shag. And his standards are low. Or maybe I'm not good but I get the job done.

I do visit Rex twice a week for lessons. And JustPete has just started squeezing me into his sexual education classes.

It was half a serious answer at least.

You did really well here Lemmy, I'm proud of you. 3 serious paragraphs and not a mention of anuses.

I guess I'm a bit of an expert then.

I’m always available for a scientific assessment of your skills Miss Lemon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a lot of porn as a teenager and at an early stage was fine-tuned by women, particularly a bi-fem couple who will always have a place in my groin.

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over a year ago

I was taught very well by a MILF FWB I had when I was 18/19 years old. Much of my oral and kissing skills were learnt from her guidance and teachings.

As for the actual sex... just sort of came to me naturally.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I learnt everything I know by using painting by numbers to illustrate. It worked

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I bought the 'Book of Love' from American Pie on eBay.

Absolute bargain, if slightly sticky......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to the gym!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"so good at what you do, sexual wise? That should really be sexually but you get the idea."

I went out of my way to teach myself. I don't think I'm a very good lover, but I'm a good researcher.

So, plenty of books, omgyes[dot]com, videos, real-life practice and then reviewing what I've learnt in terms of feedback.

Not very sexy

but it's how I best learn things.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Sheer enthusiasm and applying myself at the task in hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More impressed that you think we're any good Meli

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Just a natural

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"More impressed that you think we're any good Meli

This thread just keeps giving.

Yeah, I have faith in you!

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