FabSwingers.com forum: Single guy looking

By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

Any tips for single guys to be successful on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Go on tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

There are plenty of guys that aren’t ripped or hung they do well on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

From a single woman’s perspective, this is not true!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/MK

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

There are plenty of guys that aren’t ripped or hung they do well on here

The honest answer is that you probably need at least one of the three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

There are plenty of guys that aren’t ripped or hung they do well on here

I’m talking generically .. there will always be exceptions!

I’m a great believer in Darwinism .. survival of the fittest and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a Knob head ...... thats the real truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

There are plenty of guys that aren’t ripped or hung they do well on here

Thank you

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Be genuine

Be honest

Don’t be pushy

And the golden rule is no body owes you a reply.

Enjoy

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

I’ve got a nice cock & good looking I think. Need to work on the ripped look!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Looking like you’ve just stepped off the cover of Men’s Health magazine gets you the quickest results, but having a good profile will work even if you look like Shrek’s uglier twin.

Mostly though it’s a percentages game and there are 80 times more men than women so there’s a fair chance you won’t even be clicked on very often.

Probably the best advice is to have realistic expectations

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Be over 6ft not quite sure why this seems to be a pre requisite but in a lot of cases it is....

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Get yourself to a social or a club. Talk to women like you would in normal life. X

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Any tips for single guys to be successful on fab? "

Are you able to grow a BBC?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said in your other thread you’ve met a few women on here and fucking your wife’s friend, so you must be doing something…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are looking to meet off the forum, watch your threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are looking to meet off the forum, watch your threads

Oh they joys of the green arrow

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

What’s the green arrow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the green arrow? "

Next to your name on this thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From my point of view alone a single guy needs to be attractive *to me* not what other men think is attractive to women, this includes a kind face, a nice smile and a slim to rugby built body. I genuinely don't care about the size of a guys penis within reason. Extra big is not my thing though.

Just be an ok person, have the occasional wash, laugh a bit and look decent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the green arrow? "

It shows your history, so we can see your other post where you are fucking your wife’s friend, for example.

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

Oh ok thanks for explaining the arrow

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"What’s the green arrow?

It shows your history, so we can see your other post where you are fucking your wife’s friend, for example. "

Haha, I didn’t know about the green arrow thing either, very interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the green arrow?

It shows your history, so we can see your other post where you are fucking your wife’s friend, for example.

Haha, I didn’t know about the green arrow thing either, very interesting!

Every day is a school day

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

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nah that's bollocks I'm ripped with a massive cock nevr get a look in. But on dating apps I have no trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got a nice cock & good looking I think. Need to work on the ripped look! "

You don’t need to be ripped, be yourself, don’t lie, be genuine….. personality goes along way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the green arrow? "

It tells us that you aren’t single , that you are married and shagging your wife’s mate

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

It does tell you that. But it doesn’t tell you that she is fully aware of that and I am just concerned this is getting out of hand. You need to be less judgemental

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By *igbustedmilfCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Go to a club or spa and meet fellow swingers. Some people like to build up a rapport before they play so it will allow you to do that.

Some people like to play with strangers in random encounters and at a club you’re more likely to get the opportunity to do that.

Just don’t expect something to happen. Enjoy it if it does- it’s thrilling

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"It does tell you that. But it doesn’t tell you that she is fully aware of that and I am just concerned this is getting out of hand. You need to be less judgemental "

Nice backtrack but I think you’ve been busted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does tell you that. But it doesn’t tell you that she is fully aware of that and I am just concerned this is getting out of hand. You need to be less judgemental "

On the other post you say your wife doesn’t know?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Looks like he's booked himself a one way ticket to planet blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does tell you that. But it doesn’t tell you that she is fully aware of that and I am just concerned this is getting out of hand. You need to be less judgemental "

You might have done a dodgy delete, but you’ve been quote posted…and it says she doesn’t know

"I am on fab discreetly and my wife does not know. I’ve had a few meets on here and have always been very careful and discreet. It’s very addictive. The problem is I am now fucking my wifes good friend. I feel like I’m losing control. Am I playing with fire?!"

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

She consented to me doing it. I haven’t told her it’s still happening but I’m not sure I have to. That is the getting out of hand bit. Didn’t realise everyone on here was so pure & innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She consented to me doing it. I haven’t told her it’s still happening but I’m not sure I have to. That is the getting out of hand bit. Didn’t realise everyone on here was so pure & innocent "

There is a difference between pure and innocent, and inconsistency and ultimately lies and nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lie through your teeth.

Non stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She consented to me doing it. I haven’t told her it’s still happening but I’m not sure I have to. That is the getting out of hand bit. Didn’t realise everyone on here was so pure & innocent

There is a difference between pure and innocent, and inconsistency and ultimately lies and nonsense.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be one of the 10% that make a little effort with their profile and messages and don’t expect people to be available the instant you have a hard on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does tell you that. But it doesn’t tell you that she is fully aware of that and I am just concerned this is getting out of hand. You need to be less judgemental "

What’s getting out of hand?

Sounds like you are the one letting things get out of hand , and by posting about advice on being a ‘single ‘ man on here , surely that’s you seeking something more than your wife and her mate and whoever else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a well rounded human. Don’t be entitled. Don’t expect anyone to owe you anything just because they’re on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try hitting ‘reply & quote’ so people know who you’re replying to

No one on here is pure & innocent

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

I’m not really bothered what any of you think. You all fuck other people or want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not really bothered what any of you think. You all fuck other people or want to. "

Can’t speak for all but I ain’t cheating on anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not really bothered what any of you think. You all fuck other people or want to. "

Now now no need to spit your dummy out !

You asked a question and you got answers

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

That was not the question of this post. Some busy body pure & innocent person looking at green arrow stuff bringing up previous posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was not the question of this post. Some busy body pure & innocent person looking at green arrow stuff bringing up previous posts "

That’s what we do in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was not the question of this post. Some busy body pure & innocent person looking at green arrow stuff bringing up previous posts "

You asked for tips

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/MK

"Be one of the 10% that make a little effort with their profile and messages and don’t expect people to be available the instant you have a hard on. "

It’s as high as 10%????

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be one of the 10% that make a little effort with their profile and messages and don’t expect people to be available the instant you have a hard on.

It’s as high as 10%???? "

86% of all statistics are made up on the spot.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

"Any tips for single guys to be successful on fab? "

Exactly what others have already said plus accept the fact if you ask for an honest advice on the forum, the answers might not always be what you hoped for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was not the question of this post. Some busy body pure & innocent person looking at green arrow stuff bringing up previous posts "

That’s the point though…you asked how single guys can do better, and we simply point out that you’re previous posts show you as untrustworthy, and a bit dodgy so you’re right on the backfoot.

So the advice is be decent, be sensible and don’t be that guy.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Be ripped, handsome and hung like a donkey

There’s something about having a nice personality and not being an arse, that’s what they’ll tell you.

But nah. It’s the looks, six pack and chunky cock that *really* ensures you do well on here

Sorry thats bull crap. Guys and cpls we met have been non athletic or toned as that look is not what we seek on here. Not every lady or cpl want ripped guys. As for cock size i prefer average. I am not up for my cervix being smashed thank you!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

These sorts of threads are a great filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell your wife join as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be gay, lol.

Seriously though, you stand a much higher chance of getting meets if you're also looking to meet other men - as there are far more of us single guys than there are women or couples

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"These sorts of threads are a great filter

They are yes

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confused

What’s the question ?

U wanna know how is like for a single man ?

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t send dick pic, be polite, don’t send the same message to everyone, read people’s profiles first xx

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Don’t send dick pic, be polite, don’t send the same message to everyone, read people’s profiles first xx"

And don’t fuck your wife’s friend!

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By *untimes for allMan
over a year ago

surrey

Keep going mate

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By *axim3840 OP Man
over a year ago

Hackney

Lol

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