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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Looking for opinions

Married for 25 years should we renew our wedding vows?

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By *igonpleasureMan
over a year ago

Colne

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

Do you feel that you need to refresh them?

Is it an excuse for a party?

Is it because other people do?

So what’s best for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's pointless and just a modern day money maker. You both already made “until death do you part” vows. Nothing has changed, saying it again doesn’t make it more or less valid.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You’ve already said them once, unless things have changed there’s no need to say it again.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel just an excuse for a party really? Which is fine if you want to do that

(fund the bar tab)

Other than that it's just a bit daft, no?... All yep, we know you may have attended/paid for presents once. But we'd really love more

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It’s absolutely your choice.

If you both feel like you’d like to do it then do it and have a lovely day celebrating again.

Especially if you’re going to have a party!

Party’s are fun

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We’ve always thought it would be fun!

Our wedding day was amazing…would be good to do something similar with new friends and additions to the family

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Looking for opinions

Married for 25 years should we renew our wedding vows?"

Do you feel you need to? (Serious question). If you don't then not really as nothing has changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking for opinions

Married for 25 years should we renew our wedding vows?"

Why Would yous do that x it's not a bad thing to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it, the two of you both know how much you love each other, the ‘renewing the vows’ thing to me serves just 2 purposes really .. it kind of (virtue?) signals to external third parties (friends/family etc) how much you love each other (but if you two know that already then what does it matter what other people think?), and acts as a huge money making enterprise for people who exploit these types of thing….

But as others have said, it’s your money and your choice.

If you do, I hope it’s a wonderful day

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By *eorgesdad69Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Are you going to retake your driving test?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when I hear the word "renewing our vows" I immediately think "something has happened in the past" (based on my own experience from my first marriage) and I know that's not always the case, especially after 25 years you probably want to freshen it up.

I don't think I would when I get to that stage, I'd rather just have a lovely party with out doing the whole service thing, being able to look around the room and see what we have created over those 25 years, I don't need to reaffirm my relationship.

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By *hubby guy 999Man
over a year ago

BISHOP AUCKLAND

No its expensive and realy means nothing Iv been married 31 yrs

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, just have a party. You can upload the pics on Facebook and get a load of presents just the same.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

It’s not something we’d bother doing. For a silver wedding anniversary, a lovely celebration would be enough

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don't see the point in this personally.

Just hire a hall, have a big anniversary party and both do a speech to everyone together.

D x

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