FabSwingers.com forum: Trait you would like to change

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me... I'm becoming more cynical as I get older...Wish I could stop it!!

What's your's?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Difficult to say when you re perfect

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Actually, joke aside... I wish I could be more patient. I have tons of patience with people and their problems but not so much when it comes to tractors in fron ot me, slow moving traffic etc... could really do with an injection of patience

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

im realy bad at complaining about something i wish i could do it more tactfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I was able to say no to people, im too soft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inability to trust. I'd love to lose that!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Procrastination. I can always think of lots of reasons for putting off doing something.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Being too nice.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too trusting and take people at face value, also I wish I was more assertive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be less stressed and more chilled out. I get wound up too easily and have trouble letting the tension go. Relaxation is really difficult for me.

As related things, I'd like to be able to stop biting my nails, and to be able to switch my brain off sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being less aggressive and less competitive would probably be a good thing too.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For all the lovely people who wish they were more assertive, able to say no ... it is about accepting that it is ok to say "no" to others, it is ok to put yourself first sometimes and that we are not responsible for everything and everybody else's happiness.

Also, before saying yes to somebody and later regretting that... I find it is helpful not to commit but to say that I need to check my diary, talk to my partner, children etc. and I ll get back to them. It is much harder to backtrack out of a committment made than to reserve the option of having to check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cotton wool head is a real pain, I would like a sharpness to my thought process lol! It's like, I have the thoughts but they just trail off into a big fluffy cotton wool wall so I don't know what to do with them

The most common one is spotting milk in the shop and thinking "I don't have any milk at home" then sploomf, the thought just hangs there instead of carrying on and telling me to buy the feckin' stuff.

It's awful annoying when I get home and still have no milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take things a lil more seriously instead of taking the piss always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Sarah) would like to be more confident with myself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would like to stop saying nasty things to people when im in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be less bi-polar

Littlebit

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

My apathy, I really.....

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

"Actually, joke aside... I wish I could be more patient. I have tons of patience with people and their problems but not so much when it comes to tractors in fron ot me, slow moving traffic etc... could really do with an injection of patience

tractors- in brum????

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm actually really bad at remembering peoples names but have been told it's pure laziness.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"My apathy, I really..... "

Old age is a good way to die...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i would like more confidence in my abilities as i know its stopping me from doing things in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have aspergers and I'd like to change that, as I'm addicted to numbers and memorizing them. it gets annoying after awhile.

duke

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Falling in love too easily

Quick temper

Impatience in some things, frustration when I can't acheive my goals quickly enough.

Hot headed Arian I guess

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

less sarcastic, maybe a bit less cynical..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a constant procrastinator

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

"when it comes to tractors in fron ot me, slow moving traffic etc... could really do with an injection of patience

A fellow road rager... oh how I wish it were legal to mount a GPMG on me bonnet

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

learn to say no a bit more and be more assertive to

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Take things a lil more seriously instead of taking the piss always "

I'm with you on that one

Ah, watersports.....

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