FabSwingers.com forum: The "HI" message

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Does anyone else use the one word message. Just wondered. Happy weekends everyone hope you have a splendid one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of women have over the years. I just reply hi back .. not playing that “one-sided convo” game that a lot of ladies seem to think they can get away with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to reply " hi" to someone's message. It's because I am lazy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone messages me "hi" I always message back "ho!" And hope they come back with the next line. Happened once lol

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"If someone messages me "hi" I always message back "ho!" And hope they come back with the next line. Happened once lol"
silver lining or its off to work we go

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Have done some times.

Often times i've followed up with more in the message.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Have done some times.

Often times i've followed up with more in the message.

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By *anny Boy31Man
over a year ago

Belfast all over the Uk and Ireland

My initial messages are always short though maybe not that short. Hate writing 4 or 5 lines to get no reply or blocked

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Always use hi, works every time. I'm absolutely fighting meets off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone messages me "hi" I always message back "ho!" And hope they come back with the next line. Happened once lolsilver lining or its off to work we go

Yes that man!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Never have.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

Hi how are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do the “Ho” thing straight back.

Usually a profile with a shadow avatar, “will fill in later” and 2 or 3 crappy cock pictures.

Fuckwits of the highest order.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Those messages just don't get a reply that or "bye"

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's hardly worth opening their profile when they've made so little effort. I'd never send a 1st message Hi.

I assume they've written dozens of them

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Lazy as fuck

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”! "

I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'

I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those

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By *tagvixen40Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Same for me, that's an instant delete

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

If I receive a 'Hi' message, it's an instant delete.

If they're too lazy to write a message, then it doesn't bode well.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

First time Hi messages are 9/10 deleted and blocked. Even though we are a couple a bit of thought would be nice. If we message someone new it’s at least a full sentence. We rarely look at the profile of anyone who does it and def not if they don’t have a profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My initial messages are always short though maybe not that short. Hate writing 4 or 5 lines to get no reply or blocked "

No point spending time writing long messages when most women and couples don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!

I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'

I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just "hi", there are people who manage to send messages that don't actually say anything, trying to make you take things further. (I don't rise to the bait...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just "hi", there are people who manage to send messages that don't actually say anything, trying to make you take things further. (I don't rise to the bait...)"

If they don't say anything they are probably not interested. It's not sex bait.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Hey h r u

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hi all "
hi

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I prefer hiya...takes a little more time...but it shows that I can afford to spend a bit more time composing the message

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No I don't use it and wouldn't, if I send a message its succint but that's just plain lazy and comes across as low IQ and lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just "hi", there are people who manage to send messages that don't actually say anything, trying to make you take things further. (I don't rise to the bait...)

If they don't say anything they are probably not interested. It's not sex bait. "

Could be - but they are the ones who started the conversation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah even I’ve had a couple of those.

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By *anny Boy31Man
over a year ago

Belfast all over the Uk and Ireland

Just a “HI” and nothing at all else is a bit disinterested. Is that what’s meant here?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!

I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'

I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those

I was coming on to say since I last posted I’ve had literally just

“…” in a message!

I wouldn’t even bother trying to open such a lazy message. Considering where we are if they’re too lazy to type they’re not gonna make nearly enough effort in a fuck!

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!

I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'

I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those

I was coming on to say since I last posted I’ve had literally just

“…” in a message!

I wouldn’t even bother trying to open such a lazy message. Considering where we are if they’re too lazy to type they’re not gonna make nearly enough effort in a fuck! "

That is true... theyve never been worth the effort when I have finally opened them!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

ive had a few.. senseless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else use the one word message. Just wondered. Happy weekends everyone hope you have a splendid one.

Instant delete for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a out the copy and paste one? When you look back and they sent same message three weeks ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I put effort in to everything I do but I can totally understand why people get them and can totally understand why people send them

The whole what effort you put in you get out is totally bs

As when people do put effort on it’s not respcated one bit

And watch as this post has proven a point say something controversial everyone jumps at you

Be nice respectfully and get blanked funny how that work

Funny when what you post and preach people don’t show it back

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Does anyone else use the one word message. Just wondered. Happy weekends everyone hope you have a splendid one.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We either ignore the "hi" messages, or reply with, "jk".

As we assume we're playing what comes next.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"We either ignore the "hi" messages, or reply with, "jk".

As we assume we're playing what comes next."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I put effort in to everything I do but I can totally understand why people get them and can totally understand why people send them

The whole what effort you put in you get out is totally bs

As when people do put effort on it’s not respcated one bit

And watch as this post has proven a point say something controversial everyone jumps at you

Be nice respectfully and get blanked funny how that work

Funny when what you post and preach people don’t show it back "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I put effort in to everything I do but I can totally understand why people get them and can totally understand why people send them

The whole what effort you put in you get out is totally bs

As when people do put effort on it’s not respcated one bit

And watch as this post has proven a point say something controversial everyone jumps at you

Be nice respectfully and get blanked funny how that work

Funny when what you post and preach people don’t show it back

It’s the truth I am on a bs calling out day and this is one off I have been running tests for months on months

Started as a little experiment to see something and my test data is very accurate as it’s been data take over a very long sample time

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

No but… hi

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m too lazy to even message. Never had a reply back but their loss…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a talker. Love long conversations and I'm attracted to men who like to talk a lot so people who just message 'Hi' aren't going to be compatible with me.

P.S.

I wonder if theres a word for people who are attracted to people who talk loads. Like there are some people attracted to brainy people and they're a certain thing, or people only attracted to people they know and have an emotional connection, they get a label.

I wonder what attracted to chatty people is... I'm talksexual perhaps? Lol

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I've received single word messages like "hi" or "hello". This shows lack of effort so I never respond.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"No but… hi "

Hi. How YOU doin’?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I wonder what attracted to chatty people is... I'm talksexual perhaps? Lol"

I doubt it’s a ‘real’ word, but I quite like the sound of locquaciosexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never sure what to write in these messages, small talk is inherently difficult for me. Once we have a topic, then I can chat however we may get as far a 3rd message before I get ghosted

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm never sure what to write in these messages, small talk is inherently difficult for me. Once we have a topic, then I can chat however we may get as far a 3rd message before I get ghosted

I always find gaging people’s opinions on the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre a good topic of conversation…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles often state how much they hate a 'hi' message....

I don't get the anger, saying hello is a classic opener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm never sure what to write in these messages, small talk is inherently difficult for me. Once we have a topic, then I can chat however we may get as far a 3rd message before I get ghosted

I always find gaging people’s opinions on the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre a good topic of conversation…

Do you know the puppet man?

Back to main topic I truly believe the messages don't really matter too much and that people will reply no matter if they find the person who's messaged a shexy beast

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I think I met the Puppet Man in Liberty Elite, he did a good elephant impression with his two pockets and his penis…

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I prefer hiya...takes a little more time...but it shows that I can afford to spend a bit more time composing the message

...or mix it up and use a 'hey up'

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Does anyone else use the one word message. Just wondered. Happy weekends everyone hope you have a splendid one.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m going to message someone and just say

See what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a traditionalist so it's Ahoy hoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer hiya...takes a little more time...but it shows that I can afford to spend a bit more time composing the message

...or mix it up and use a 'hey up'

Or when feeling really seductive a Matthew Mcconaughey 'alright alright alright...'

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

BLOCK

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