FabSwingers.com forum: To cuddle, or not to cuddle?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On meets? I’m a fan of both a “cum & run” and a “cum & cuddle”

Which do you prefer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum & cuddle

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over a year ago

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

All the cuddles

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By *issB.Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Cum & cuddle

What he said ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely cuddles

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

The cuddle one.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Definitely cum and cuddles x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Cuddles. It doesn't have to be long.

In a club, no cuddles.

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure anymore i used to be a cuddle guy but now im trying to not allow too much of a connection to people anymore

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Definitely cuddles

Tg x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Cuddles are so powerful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah..

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Yes it’s good to get a cuddle doesn’t usually happen in a club setting though.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Hmm, there’s definitely a time for both. Cuddle is more someone I feel I’ve developed a strong, good friendship thing with, otherwise I don’t really like hanging around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On meets? I’m a fan of both a “cum & run” and a “cum & cuddle”

Which do you prefer??"

Cum and cuddle for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow. Strong argument for cuddles. I reckon out of all the meets I’ve had, only 4 or 5 have cuddled!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yes a cuddle is warming and makes you feel good..

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By *icknmix500Man
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

Cum and make friends

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"On meets? I’m a fan of both a “cum & run” and a “cum & cuddle”

Which do you prefer??"
cum n cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, aftercare is also important after a play. No such thing as no time, I would not arrange a meet where I'd feel rushed and there was no time for a proper well-rounded experience.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No cuddles x

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Cuddling after usually works its way back to more play eventually

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Naked cuddles are a must!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely cum and cuddle.

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Cuddle meeee

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Who on Earth doesn't like cuddles?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Cwtching all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to cuddles yes to cwtch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cwtching all the way

Beat me to it

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Cum n cuddle, until i have to go to the ...

Sorry to lower the tone, it is a problem i have.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Has to be cuddles

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By *herrybakewellCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We're very new to this and are yet to play with others, what's the usual etiquette at clubs?

Or is everyone different?

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Awww has to be a cuddle xx

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even as a couple we have had cuddles and a chat with the lady afterwards not everytime but would say 90% of the time. Think its just part of the intimacy of what had just happened.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Always cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% cuddles!!

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Cum and cuddles… or cuddles and cum

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Cuddles without a doubt ... helps with the come down (pardon the pun)

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Love a cuddle x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Absolutely cuddles . Miss that a lot.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Cum, cuddle, cum again, cuddle again, repeat as required

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex!

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Cuddles every time

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Cuddle

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely cuddles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum and cuddle most of the time but occasionally a cum and leave can be exciting especially if it is a spontaneous meet.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Definitely the cuddle version.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Everyone we spend time with we are friends with anyway so we would hug laugh joke but we keep proper cuddles for each other ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be more uncomfortable about her cuddling someone than fucking them.

That’s on me of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex! "

Heard of professional cuddlers? Have often thought this was a great service!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Cum, cuddle, smooches , cum, cuddle, smooches, massage, smooches, cum, tea, cuddles... And so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles, probably prefer a really good one to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex!

Heard of professional cuddlers? Have often thought this was a great service! "

Done that before, it feels very fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bear I love cuddling lol - and yeah I am 23

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex!

Heard of professional cuddlers? Have often thought this was a great service! "

Oh no I couldn’t think of anything worse personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex!

Heard of professional cuddlers? Have often thought this was a great service!

Oh no I couldn’t think of anything worse personally!"

It’s rubbish yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was not expecting so many cuddles.

Cum and gtfo.

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By *ueandbillCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

as daft as it sounds, cuddles is more intimate than sex sometimes

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Cuddles and spooning

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By *illanelleWoman
over a year ago

Ryde, Isle of Wight

Why on earth WOULDN'T you cuddle?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex!

Heard of professional cuddlers? Have often thought this was a great service!

Done that before, it feels very fake "

Interesting! I guess with anything you’re paying for it can feel like that. I have never spoken to anyone who’s done it. What was it like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why on earth WOULDN'T you cuddle?!?!"

Some men just don’t. One man I saw for quite a long time never cuddled me, we’d chat after and stuff, but not cuddle. I pulled him up on it and he laid next to me with his arm rested on me. Best i got hahah!

Maybe I’m repulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I miss the cuddly stuff way more than I miss sex... and I really miss sex!

Heard of professional cuddlers? Have often thought this was a great service!

Done that before, it feels very fake

Interesting! I guess with anything you’re paying for it can feel like that. I have never spoken to anyone who’s done it. What was it like? "

With cuddling you always need genuine intimacy, with sex you don’t as you still get pleasure. Maybe it was just the person I cuddled with but she was clearly not wanting to be affectionate.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"On meets? I’m a fan of both a “cum & run” and a “cum & cuddle”

Which do you prefer??"

Cuddling wires my brain and attaches strings so I avoid it most of the time.

Men beware if you want NSA don't cuddle me and don't cum in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be comfortable enough to cuddle a person in order to have sex with them, it's an essential component of the whole experience for me. I think that closeness and intimacy does freak some people out, as if it means I'll suddenly want to meet their parents and have their babies!

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle but not many have lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No running necessary by meet stage.

I like to linger, so cuddles are perfect. Especially between rounds of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of cum and lots of cuddles for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of cuddles with the right person or persons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of cum and lots of cuddles for me please

xx "

I’m a master cuddler and cum like a fountain (lol) but unfortunately the gods have made me way too cutesy/innocent for most people, been on fab before and didn’t get much success

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