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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex

Is there any logic to have all your pics as friends only? Surely pretty much everyone is going to ask for some sort of pic in the first couple of messages?

And if you’re hiding from your wife/partner, do you really think they will use their own pic on a profile if they are suspicious?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Is there any logic to have all your pics as friends only? Surely pretty much everyone is going to ask for some sort of pic in the first couple of messages?

And if you’re hiding from your wife/partner, do you really think they will use their own pic on a profile if they are suspicious? "
people put pics in friends only for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but you can set face pics to disappearing on message so the only people that can really see it are people you trust and you can also post peen pics in your friends only if you don’t want everyone seeing your tiny dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My logic is I don’t shown face pics publicly mainly coz of my job .

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because I can control who sees my friends only pics. The whole site, unless blocked, can see my public pics.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

After what I've read this morning I think there's very good logic to having pictures in friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My logic is I don’t shown face pics publicly mainly coz of my job . "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t people from work popping up. Only joking would love to see them in the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After what I've read this morning I think there's very good logic to having pictures in friends only. "

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By *skyouneverknowMan
over a year ago

Calne

It adds to my mystique,

Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest.... he strikes.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Most of ours are friends only now. Far to many pic collectors/thieves on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, it's fine.

People do what they want.

Anything else is mere speculation.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"My logic is I don’t shown face pics publicly mainly coz of my job . "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It adds to my mystique,

Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest.... he strikes. "

Tha y doesn’t make you sound at all creepy.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex

Not sure you get my point. I’m not talking about putting face pics in friends only, or others that might reveal your identity. That makes perfect sense. I’m talking about profiles that have all their pics as friends only and have lots of pics in there.

A pic of an arse for example could be anyone, it’s hardly gonna give away who you are. Or a dick, pussy, nipple, boob, chest etc. so why have those in friends only?

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

In a tiny community like mine, privacy is very difficult to maintain.

Must be others with similar situations?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"It adds to my mystique,

Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest.... he strikes. "

I've had like 9 coffees today bro, if you're waiting for rest you should bring a good book

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"Not sure you get my point. I’m not talking about putting face pics in friends only, or others that might reveal your identity. That makes perfect sense. I’m talking about profiles that have all their pics as friends only and have lots of pics in there.

A pic of an arse for example could be anyone, it’s hardly gonna give away who you are. Or a dick, pussy, nipple, boob, chest etc. so why have those in friends only? "

Point taken.

I only have a couple of pics, all face, but what you say otherwise makes sense.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not sure you get my point. I’m not talking about putting face pics in friends only, or others that might reveal your identity. That makes perfect sense. I’m talking about profiles that have all their pics as friends only and have lots of pics in there.

A pic of an arse for example could be anyone, it’s hardly gonna give away who you are. Or a dick, pussy, nipple, boob, chest etc. so why have those in friends only? "

It's an individual's choice as to who they show their arse, dick etc to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not sure you get my point. I’m not talking about putting face pics in friends only, or others that might reveal your identity. That makes perfect sense. I’m talking about profiles that have all their pics as friends only and have lots of pics in there.

A pic of an arse for example could be anyone, it’s hardly gonna give away who you are. Or a dick, pussy, nipple, boob, chest etc. so why have those in friends only?

Point taken.

I only have a couple of pics, all face, but what you say otherwise makes sense."

Choice is what it's all about. If you only want friends to see then the option is there.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I get what you are saying. It might as well be a blank profile which doesn't make sense if you are finding your way on here but could make perfect sense to anyone with lots of friends.

They may not meet outside that circle and therefore don't care about others looking at their pics.

I never hide all mine but swap them back and forth between public, private and friends only just on a whim.

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By *ockyroad666Man
over a year ago

Maesteg

Dick pics go in the friends folder lol

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

My face is public and even show a bit of nipple ring, but I've read enough bios that say unsolicited dick pics are not welcome to put them all behind the friend wall. You don't need to be a friend though, anyone who is curious I will message you one.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only stuff I have in friends is my tic toks as has my name on those and got fed up of peeps finding me on face book and tic tok! X

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Suffolk/Essex


"I get what you are saying. It might as well be a blank profile which doesn't make sense if you are finding your way on here but could make perfect sense to anyone with lots of friends.

They may not meet outside that circle and therefore don't care about others looking at their pics.

I never hide all mine but swap them back and forth between public, private and friends only just on a whim. "

True, a big circle of friends makes perfect sense, I’d not considered that reason. And a brand new profile with only one pic and that’s in friends only makes sense as it’s probably a face pic.

And yeah I know it’s personal choice, I was genuinely curious as to peoples reasoning

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have a mix of public and friends only

Public is so people can get an idea of my body type etc.

Friends is face pics and a bit more revealing.

I get what you mean though ,if someone messages me with pics friends only and no public ones ,I delete unless they've attached a couple to the message.

We can all have some sort of public pics that don't identify us.

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By *skyouneverknowMan
over a year ago

Calne


"It adds to my mystique,

Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest.... he strikes.

Tha y doesn’t make you sound at all creepy. "

Yeah I thought it a bit after I wrote it - mea culpa

Trying to say that, for me, the pictures follow building rapport - even a facetime is better than lots of pics - I met someone once who looked my age in her pics and like my nan in real life

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like a mix. Plus it gives people who only have friend's pics an incentive to add me so I can see their pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flaccid cock and body picture in public

Hard cock and face pictures in private

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Flaccid cock and body picture in public

Hard cock and face pictures in private "

I don’t always agree with F&B, but he’s nailed it there.

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