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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the best way to talk to a couple in order to catch their eye?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I’m guessing no two couples are the same but Polite and not ignoring either one of them is a good starting place.

Hear of so many talking to the wife and ignoring the hubby which can’t feel good (unless that’s their thing)

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I’m guessing no two couples are the same but Polite and not ignoring either one of them is a good starting place.

Hear of so many talking to the wife and ignoring the hubby which can’t feel good (unless that’s their thing)"

I can’t add anything to this really. Whilst I do most of the chatting he gets very put out if he’s ignored. I’ll admit it’s tricky - you have 2 personalities to win over

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Make sure you have read the profile, most men that contact us, obviously haven't.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What's the best way to talk to a couple in order to catch their eye? "
approach with caution remember it's generally a guy reading your message, always read profile thoroughly and understand it, send your message thoughtfully try not to talk sex, bit of humour and a face pic not your cock if you live local and are in their age perameters you may get a reply, good luck

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"What's the best way to talk to a couple in order to catch their eye? approach with caution remember it's generally a guy reading your message, always read profile thoroughly and understand it, send your message thoughtfully try not to talk sex, bit of humour and a face pic not your cock if you live local and are in their age perameters you may get a reply, good luck "

I am not sure you can say it is generally the guy reading the messages. In my experience it is as likely to be either of them.

I think the most important thing to do is to treat them as a couple - which means that you would do what you do in real life and talk to them _both_. Just be yourself and don’t act any different because it is Fabs.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Address couples as couples is a good starting point, otherwise the usual rules apply: show interest, read the profile, don’t be a dick (and don’t show yours!). As others have said, it’s tough, because there’s two people you’ll need to impress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be incluse to both members off the couple

From what I have been told the majority off people leave one hafe feeling left out and that’s the biggest reason people don’t get a meet with them

As they make it all about the woman and the husband feels left out like he’s just some 3rd wheel

Whare in reality your the 3rd wheel

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What's the best way to talk to a couple in order to catch their eye? approach with caution remember it's generally a guy reading your message, always read profile thoroughly and understand it, send your message thoughtfully try not to talk sex, bit of humour and a face pic not your cock if you live local and are in their age perameters you may get a reply, good luck

I am not sure you can say it is generally the guy reading the messages. In my experience it is as likely to be either of them.

I think the most important thing to do is to treat them as a couple - which means that you would do what you do in real life and talk to them _both_. Just be yourself and don’t act any different because it is Fabs."
generally is loosely speaking accurate to within 25% of couples

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For us it's demonstrating you can have a conversation that doesn't revolve around you getting your end away. If somebody can talk about non-sexual stuff and be interesting then we'll talk with them. Too many people on here are only interested in what they want and not what the people they are trying to talk to want.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Cut and paste this OP:-

“ Hi ! Face Pic? “.

It’s what a lot of couples think works for them when approaching me

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"For us it's demonstrating you can have a conversation that doesn't revolve around you getting your end away. If somebody can talk about non-sexual stuff and be interesting then we'll talk with them. Too many people on here are only interested in what they want and not what the people they are trying to talk to want. "

All of this.

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