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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

This is my pet hate the

‘Can I ask you a question?’ messages.

Was that the question? Or are you wanting to ask another? Or is this an exercise in philosophy?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

You may, but I might not answer

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"This is my pet hate the

‘Can I ask you a question?’ messages.

Was that the question? Or are you wanting to ask another? Or is this an exercise in philosophy? "

Yes, but you *can* ask me a question. Even if it just to help you on the quiz machine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You already did”

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"This is my pet hate the

‘Can I ask you a question?’ messages.

Was that the question? Or are you wanting to ask another? Or is this an exercise in philosophy?

Yes, but you *can* ask me a question. Even if it just to help you on the quiz machine. "

We’re excellent at quizzes.

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By *illiamMeetsMan
over a year ago

sunnyside


"“You already did” "

That one was free, the next will cost you.

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"We’re excellent at quizzes. "

Oh. Third wheel again!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It is just a gentle introduction, respecting somebody might be busy or stressed or tired... I can see why some might find it illogical and irritating but I occasionally precede my question with one of those.

And I am not going to tell myself off for doing so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I hate this too..I ignore or if feeling sarcy, I'll message back "you just did..well done!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We deleted any message like that.... because what follows is usually a creepy request....

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oh I hate this too..I ignore or if feeling sarcy, I'll message back "you just did..well done!" "

I thought I was the only one who did this

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By *edDevil5Man
over a year ago

NN4

Can I ask.one hehe

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I've expressed my displeasure for this enough now at work that I think with most people I've broken the cycle. I mostly get a greeting/apology for bothering me and relevant question.

Just got to get everyone back on track with emojis/lol etc.

(Yes I'm a joy to work with)

M

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i have asked a question but mainly for advice,,

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Oh I hate this too..I ignore or if feeling sarcy, I'll message back "you just did..well done!"

I thought I was the only one who did this "

You're not alone I do it too

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

No, fook off and start a conversation like a normal person

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Ask anything you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I hate this too..I ignore or if feeling sarcy, I'll message back "you just did..well done!"

I thought I was the only one who did this "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say you just did.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

People donit to be polite. Effectively asking if you have the bandwidth to entertain/ answer the incoming query they have.

Old school? Yes.

Annoying? Understandable.

Ill-intentioned? No.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"This is my pet hate the

‘Can I ask you a question?’ messages.

Was that the question? Or are you wanting to ask another? Or is this an exercise in philosophy? "

Me too, Kitty!

As a first contact, I just delete.

And if we've swapped a few messages, it normally signifies they're about to ask me something cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ask some

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