FabSwingers.com forum: Thread ownership

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Are there certain threads that can only be posted by the same person?

I’ve done the hotel one a few times but don’t consider it my own

Are you possessive of your threads and get upset if anyone else posts them ?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nope it's just a thread

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hardly ever use the forums these days as they have become so repetitive! When I do post, it's usually something random away from the same old stuff.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

No, but overkill of certain kinds of threads can make it boring. I like to space my threads out between 8 to 16 weeks

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Nope it's just a thread

I'm curious to know if Compersion minds sharing her thread

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Nope it's just a thread

I'm curious to know if Compersion minds sharing her thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My Friday Flirty Mcflirt thread can only be posted by me. …

. … goodness no. It’s a thread topic and anyone can post one.

I know on twitter people become possessive over hashtags. I suppose your suggesting that type of thing, and that’s just childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I've been very thankful when people have stood in and continued posts that I've started. I tend to disappear so it's nice for them to keep going. Especially on diet ones as some people use it for support and to chart progress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called out once on this, he said "didn't you do a thread like this last week" yet there is someone posting the same thread every night

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If there was some people would be scuppered.

Borrowed from the lounge is a thing in other fora and a USP.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve got the heads of everyone who’s ever done a secret service in a cabinet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got the heads of everyone who’s ever done a secret service in a cabinet. "

F&B version.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think so.

The nocturnal thread is normally done by a group of about 4 different people.

Anyone is welcome to do it I guess it's just the idea behind the thread is is that every single poster is commented on and it's normally quite a lot of work and time consuming,I know this as at least 3 times a week I'm a late night nocturnal thread widow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything belongs to the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got the heads of everyone who’s ever done a secret service in a cabinet. "

It's dark in here

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Hardly ever use the forums these days as they have become so repetitive! When I do post, it's usually something random away from the same old stuff."

Utterly brain numbing at times! It makes me wonder what people do with their lives …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly ever use the forums these days as they have become so repetitive! When I do post, it's usually something random away from the same old stuff.

Utterly brain numbing at times! It makes me wonder what people do with their lives … "

….* Woody goes away to reflect….

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hardly ever use the forums these days as they have become so repetitive! When I do post, it's usually something random away from the same old stuff.

Utterly brain numbing at times! It makes me wonder what people do with their lives … "

Copy others by the looks of it

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I’ve got the heads of everyone who’s ever done a secret service in a cabinet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused….

Why would you keep repeating the same thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope it's just a thread

I'm curious to know this too....

One thing I do know, if that once you plant the seed, you can't control how and where it grows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need stick to exactly only one and same one .

Cause if u say red hairs in one , petite ladies in another one , BBw in another one . Average or slims in another one , but brenettes .

Cause u can’t like every kinds of ladies and you a suck up . A charmer . Who would shag anything it moves .

So u can’t be a honest genuine sweetheart and like all of them x u need pick one .

Cause that’s what a real genuine man is like .

Filter filter filter filter .

Putted me right off … I never used filters , was always a roach … ha ha

I stopped wanking with my left hand .

I felt like I’m cheating to my right hand as made me feel like I’m a sex predator .

No . I’m gonna be honest . And brake up .

No x fuck it . I’m gonna have an affair with my left hand . The other will be all right

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Confused….

Why would you keep repeating the same thread? "

I guess I meant for threads that repeat like face pic Friday etc

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s not your thread OP. It’s a free forum so it’s everyone’s thread once it’s out there

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

The site owners set the rules. Technically and legally they own every thread. They can turn the whole thing off with one click.

As long as the forum rules are obeyed then anyone can post what they like even if it's completely off topic.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s not your thread OP. It’s a free forum so it’s everyone’s thread once it’s out there

I understand that

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Confused….

Why would you keep repeating the same thread? "

Because we need

Monochrome Monday

Tits out Tuesday

Wiggle Wednesday

Thigh Thursday

Face pic Friday

And the daily nocturnal thread

They are the staples of The Lounge. You don’t have to join in, they’re just for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like wool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I am possessive over is my lack of possessiveness over possessiveness.

Hope it makes no sense x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Thread titles don't belong to anyone officially.

There are recognisable thread titles though and we tend to know who likes to start them.

I view some of them as okay and others as lazy / non creative

To be fair ...... I really do not care one way or the other.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The only thing I am possessive over is my lack of possessiveness over possessiveness.

Hope it makes no sense x "

That's a tad possessive to be totally frank.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The site owners set the rules. Technically and legally they own every thread. They can turn the whole thing off with one click.

As long as the forum rules are obeyed then anyone can post what they like even if it's completely off topic."

Unless it's viewed as deliberately derailing a thread topic

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"The site owners set the rules. Technically and legally they own every thread. They can turn the whole thing off with one click.

As long as the forum rules are obeyed then anyone can post what they like even if it's completely off topic.

Unless it's viewed as deliberately derailing a thread topic"

Is derailing a thread against forum rules? If not then it should be allowed. Plus it's subjective as to whether it's an attempt at derailing. Plus, that post can be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site owners set the rules. Technically and legally they own every thread. They can turn the whole thing off with one click.

As long as the forum rules are obeyed then anyone can post what they like even if it's completely off topic.

Unless it's viewed as deliberately derailing a thread topic"

I just went looking for these "rules". And I challenge anyone to find them. So far as I can tell there are no rules listed for the forum. None linked to on the forum itself, either on the mobile or desktop site.

The only mention of the word Forum in the site terms is in section 17.4G that relates to cancelling or ending your membership:

"If we end the contract, we will refund subscription payments relating to the period after termination provided that you send a letter to our registered office (see below) requesting a refund. There will be no refund for the period of any suspension or restriction. The restrictions above include: preventing you from accessing public postings such as *FORUMS*, chat and club reviews and from making public posts."

The only mention in the site FAQ is as follows:

Section: I'm seeing annoying/popup ads on the site.

- "If you're still having problems try posting to the *FORUMS* on here asking for help."

Section: You don't respond to any of our mails.

- "We do this for fun and get hundreds of mails a day so we can't respond personally to questions about the site or your account. We recommend if you have a problem or can't figure out how something works, you post to the site help *FORUM*."

Section: To whom do we send or make available your personal information?

Public actions by you for example (but not limited to), entering a chat room, making a *FORUM* post, updating your status, uploading a public photo, broadcasting via cams or participating in a chat may be listed in newsfeeds of other users or shown elsewhere on the site. If you hide your profile from your privacy page, your activities won’t be shown in newsfeeds but may still be visible in the place where you took the action or elsewhere on the site (for example but not limited to, your *FORUM* posts).

The moderators are quick to remind us to stick to the rules. But they don't make it easy to know what they are.

Serious question, where are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site owners set the rules. Technically and legally they own every thread. They can turn the whole thing off with one click.

As long as the forum rules are obeyed then anyone can post what they like even if it's completely off topic.

Unless it's viewed as deliberately derailing a thread topic

The only mention of the word Forum in the site terms is in section 17.4G that relates to cancelling or ending your membership:

The only mention in the site FAQ is as follows:

Section: I'm seeing annoying/popup ads on the site.

- "If you're still having problems try posting to the *FORUMS* on here asking for help."

Section: You don't respond to any of our mails.

Section: To whom do we send or make available your personal information?

The moderators are quick to remind us to stick to the rules. But they don't make it easy to know what they are.

Serious question, where are they?"

Go to reply and at the top it says ‘please be aware of the forum rules before posting’ and there’s a link. Click on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it seems they are linked when you post a thread or reply to one: https://m.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

And the relevant rule, the only thing that covers it is..

Section: Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action.

Absolutely nothing about contents of keeping on topic or derailing, unless you do it to an extent that it is considered malicious disruption.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Only thing I get possessive over is my rebreather

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"So it seems they are linked when you post a thread or reply to one: https://m.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

And the relevant rule, the only thing that covers it is..

Section: Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

Absolutely nothing about contents of keeping on topic or derailing, unless you do it to an extent that it is considered malicious disruption."

Rules shmooooles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems they are linked when you post a thread or reply to one: https://m.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

And the relevant rule, the only thing that covers it is..

Section: Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

Absolutely nothing about contents of keeping on topic or derailing, unless you do it to an extent that it is considered malicious disruption."

I'd add that this, as you might expect, is a really terribly written rule, as I only have to find one person on the whole of FAB (or maybe on the thread) who doesn't;t mind what it's derailed with, and you can no longer say "everyone", ergo you cannot apply the rule. Also, the rule is about trying to - if I succeed....?

... and yes it would be that picky if this was a law, rather than a 'rule'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules shmooooles"

Uuuuuuummm.

You in trouble.

I won't say the word, but it rhymes with flan.

You are so flanned with such a disregard for the rules.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Rules shmooooles

Uuuuuuummm.

You in trouble.

I won't say the word, but it rhymes with flan.

You are so flanned with such a disregard for the rules. "

Mmmmmmmm flan

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Some people are possessive about their threads. There has been behind the scenes fisticuffs

I associate some threads with certain people but that’s about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing I am possessive over is my lack of possessiveness over possessiveness.

Hope it makes no sense x

That's a tad possessive to be totally frank. "
you dont look like a frank to me

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